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I consider this act really very inappropriate, indecent, preposterous, utterly absurd and ridiculous for a married woman to request for such a commodity from a small Boy like Me.

So, I have a neighbor(female) who owns a Hair Saloon. She also deals in other essential commodities. Her shops are closed to my house but her residence is far from mine. We see everyday except on Sundays, since she doesn't open her shops on Sundays. She is in her late 40s now and has three children, the eldest child(daughter) is already an undergraduate. The woman is Igbo while the husband is from the middle-belt and shares same tribe with me. It was when she discovered that I share same tribe with her husband that she drew me closer to herself since I also do business with her from time to time. Her shop is situated very close to my apartment and as a result, we See everyday!
Here is the issue, I have a joggers that I wear especially at night and early mornings, more of night wear. I've just obtained this joggers two months ago and I can say, it's very fine. Lots of persons have hailed it. A bit expensive though!
While I wore same to the woman's shop, she first said "this your trouser look like woman own o". Truly, a part of how it is designed looks feminine but of course, we know how crazy fashion has evolved over the years. Its unisex wear anyway. But when she said it looks like joggers for women and ladies, I began to lose the utility I had for the joggers, I even had to stop using it, until I asked a friend if same trouser actually looked feminine, but he said No. In fact, it's for guys. I now told him how a woman said its feminine, he replied by saying, "no mind her, e be like say she wants make u dash her". We now laughed. I resumed wearing it. And last night, the woman called me while I was alighting the bike to please give her the joggers. She was so serious. I thought it was a joke but no, it wasn't. I asked her, " abi make I buy u another one"? She said no, that she likes this particular one. I said ok, let me wash it tommorow(today) and bring it when it's dry. She now became so happy and began to sing.
Throughout the night, I was asking myself why a married woman who isn't my relative would demand for my personal effect. This is what I've already used and I don't consider it proper sharing it with her. What if her husband gets to find out?
Hope say she no wan use my joggers do Juju?
I dey fear o.
Naira Guys, please advise Me, cos I'm confused here. I like giving my stuff to people even till I'm left with nothing and become stranded. I'm tired of being generous to people. Sadly, when I have a pressing need, no family member or friend can help me out. So many missed opportunities due to lack of instant support. I only derive joy helping people in my own small way as long as it makes them happy.

Nlfpmod Seun

U made big mistake, if she carry go meet herbalist nko?? Trust no1, were century of lack of trust, brother dey use his own blood brother for juju, talk less of neighbour

muyico:
U made big mistake, if she carry go meet herbalist nko?? Trust no1, were century of lack of trust, brother dey use his own blood brother for juju, talk less of neighbour

Please make me understand the mistake that I made

Brazino:
Please make me understand the mistake that I made

Get her a new one, I won't be comfortable giving out what I already wore

Job 3:25 "For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me".

May your fear not be confirmed!
FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real.

Peter 3:13 "And who is he that will harm you, if ye be followers of that which is good?"

Since you're already uncomfortable with your intended kind gesture, don't give her yours but rather buy her exactly your type.

Brazino:
Please make me understand the mistake that I made

, u supposed to buy new1 and give her, instead of d1 u don wore b4,, no be only women pants they use dis days
Any clothes can work for juju dis day!

Be assertive and DRAW THE LINE.

You have no business giving her your used joggers nor buying her a new one, such conversation is inappropriate as it should be with her husband.

muyico:
, u supposed to buy new1 and give her, instead of d1 u don wore b4,, no be only women pants they use dis days
Any clothes can work for juju dis day!

Okay sir. I told her same, but she refused and insisted on this particular one. Besides, I don't have money now to even get a new and similar one. I bought this one for almost 15k just two months ago and I don't have such money now

Mindlog:
Be assertive and DRAW THE LINE.

You have no business giving her your used joggers nor buying her a new one, such conversation is inappropriate as it should be with her husband.

Sometimes I just wonder how some married women do things. If my potential wife ever tries such, and I get to hear it, I swear, I'll send her packing. Because na so cheating dey take start. This is pure oju'kokoro

Efuaye:
Job 3:25 "For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me".

May your fear not be confirmed!
FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real.

Peter 3:13 "And who is he that will harm you, if ye be followers of that which is good?"

Since you're already uncomfortable with your intended kind gesture, don't give her yours but rather buy her exactly your type.

Thanks for your input.
But was the Bible necessary here?
Any small thing una go just quote bible as if una be better people. I fear those christians who rush to quote bible at the slightest occurrence

Brazino:
Okay sir. I told her same, but she refused and insisted on this particular one. Besides, I don't have money now to even get a new and similar one. I bought this one for almost 15k just two months ago and I don't have such money now

it must?? Must u give her? I 💬🤔 thought u said
She gat personal shop? Tell her to bring money,u go help her buy new 1, for her to insist on d1 u don wore, sumtinz is fishing

Na so e dey start

First collect ''joggers''

Later, collect the longgers wey dey inside the ''joggers''


LMAO!

I don't give out clothes that I have already worn to someone except siblings

Why will you give it to her? It’s either she brings money for you to get her one or you direct her to where you got yours.

If you’re feeling generous, you can use your money to get her one but, with this option you are likely to start what you cannot finish.

Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path. Psalms 119:105

I could have quoted Google or a ChatGBT, but I resorted to a more authentic source whose accuracy on life's matters cannot be disputed.

Brazino:
Thanks for your input.
But was the Bible necessary here?
Any small thing una go just quote bible as if una be better people. I fear those christians who rush to quote bible at the slightest occurrence

Efuaye:
Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path. Psalms 119:105

I could have quoted Google or a ChatGBT, but I resorted to a more authentic source whose accuracy on life's matters cannot be disputed.

Oga, please leave bible for now. Go and love your neighbors as yourself first. We know una type. If I knew u in person, I wouldn't come an inch near you because of this. You're being overzealous. Most of your kind hide behind the bible to be mean and callous to people

May you heal from your past wounds, whatever they are, and have the courage to face life's realities!

Brazino:
Oga, please leave bible for now. Go and love your neighbors as yourself first. We know una type. If I knew u in person, I wouldn't come an inch near you because of this. You're being overzealous. Most of your kind hide behind the bible to be mean and callous to people

Efuaye:
May you heal from your past wounds, whatever they are, and have the courage to face life's realities!

Please kindly check your notifications.
Thank you

This was quite an irritating read.
A married woman in her late 40s begging for used joggers? See how she wants you to see her husband finish because of longthroat. Kai!

Mindlog:
Be assertive and DRAW THE LINE.

You have no business giving her your used joggers nor buying her a new one, such conversation is inappropriate as it should be with her husband.

leave am make he dey play. He dey even proud telling us. Make d husband katch U.

Smallpikinshit:
leave am make he dey play. He dey even proud telling us. Make d husband katch U.

You're acting your moniker and I am not surprised.

Brazino:
You're acting your moniker and I am not surprised.

person wife? Only God know how u dey admire her. I pity u soon.

Brazino:
Okay sir. I told her same, but she refused and insisted on this particular one. Besides, I don't have money now to even get a new and similar one. I bought this one for almost 15k just two months ago and I don't have such money now

Tell her that your sister (younger or elder) has taken it on a visit last night.

Never wear it again.

There would be female drama and manipulations from her. Malice and unnecessary castigations will fill her head. Let her be disappointed on this issue. You are not her relative, family or husband. From ordinary joggger to something else. Dont bother yourself. Stand your ground. DO NOT GIVE IT TO HER. She is greedy and unsatisfied. She is covetious wing very deep longthroat.

Many working destinies have been switched off through unnecessary "generousity".

What of the husband angle? Thus is life is funny. The more you look, the less you see.

90% of wise men and women have advised against giving that jogger out, listen. Do not give it out.

softy:
Tell her that your sister (younger or elder) has taken it on a visit last night.

Never wear it again.

There would be female drama and manipulations from her. Malice and unnecessary castigations will fill her head. Let her be disappointed on this issue. You are not her relative, family or husband. From ordinary joggger to something else. Dont bother yourself. Stand your ground. DO NOT GIVE IT TO HER. She is greedy and unsatisfied. She is covetious wing very deep longthroat.

Many working destinies have been switched off through unnecessary "generousity".

What of the husband angle? Thus is life is funny. The more you look, the less you see.

90% of wise men and women have advised against giving that jogger out, listen. Do not give it out.

Okay Sir, I will do as you've said.
Thanks for this idea

Brazino:
➜ Throughout the night, I was asking myself why a married woman who isn't my relative would demand for my personal effect. This is what I've already used and I don't consider it proper sharing it with her. What if her husband gets to find out?
➜ Hope say she no wan use my joggers do Juju? I dey fear o. Naira Guys, please advise
➜ Me, cos I'm confused here. I like giving my stuff to people even till I'm left with nothing and become stranded. I'm tired of being generous to people. Sadly, when I have a pressing need, no family member or friend can help me out. So many missed opportunities due to lack of instant support. I only derive joy helping people in my own small way as long as they are happy, I'm happy.

So, all of this is merely because she is a married woman? If she had been single, you wouldn't have thought much about it, right?

2. Single people no dey do juju, right?

3. You say yes when you really don't mean to say yes? It isn't that these people come at you brandishing a gun to your head, so why make it seem they are bad when the choice is yours to give?

Kobojunkie:
So, all of this is merely because she is a married woman? If she had been single, you wouldn't have taught much about it, right?

2. Single people no dey do juju, right?

3. You say yes when you really don't mean to say yes? It isn't that these people come at you brandishing a gun to your head, so why make it seem they are bad when the choice is yours to give?

You're not someone to reply to..
You're oga Mr abi na Miss or Mrs "Know it all" so continue..
I can't engage you

Brazino:
Mods, please you have to swiftly move this post to the front page because I need all the inputs I can get right now.

So, I have a neighbor(female) who owns a Hair Saloon. She also deals in other essential commodities. Her shops are closed to my house but her residence is far from mine. We see everyday except on Sundays, since she doesn't open her shops on Sundays. She is in her late 40s now and has three children, the eldest child(daughter) is already an undergraduate. The woman is Igbo while the husband is from the middle-belt and shares same tribe with me. It was when she discovered that I share same tribe with her husband that she drew me closer to herself since I also do business with her from time to time. Her shop is situated very close to my apartment and as a result, we See everyday!
Here is the issue, I have a joggers that I wear especially at night and early mornings, more of night wear. I've just obtained this joggers two months ago and I can say, it's very fine. Lots of persons have hailed it. A bit expensive though!
While I wore same to the woman's shop, she first said "this your trouser look like woman own o". Truly, a part of how it is designed looks feminine but of course, we know how crazy fashion has evolved over the years. Its unisex wear anyway. But when she said it looks like joggers for women and ladies, I began to lose the utility I had for the joggers, I even had to stop using it, until I asked a friend if same trouser actually looked feminine, but he said No. In fact, it's for guys. I now told him how a woman said its feminine, he replied by saying, "no mind her, e be like say she wants make u dash her". We now laughed. I resumed wearing it. And last night, the woman called me while I was alighting the bike to please give her the joggers. She was so serious. I thought it was a joke but no, it wasn't. I asked her, " abi make I buy u another one"? She said no, that she likes this particular one. I said ok, let me wash it tommorow(today) and bring it when it's dry. She now became so happy and began to sing.
Throughout the night, I was asking myself why a married woman who isn't my relative would demand for my personal effect. This is what I've already used and I don't consider it proper sharing it with her. What if her husband gets to find out?
Hope say she no wan use my joggers do Juju?
I dey fear o.
Naira Guys, please advise Me, cos I'm confused here. I like giving my stuff to people even till I'm left with nothing and become stranded. I'm tired of being generous to people. Sadly, when I have a pressing need, no family member or friend can help me out. So many missed opportunities due to lack of instant support. I only derive joy helping people in my own small way as long as they are happy, I'm happy.

Nlfpmod

DO NOT give her your used clothing, tell her you snagged those trousers on a nail and it got torn badly

Africa is an evil place, filled with every manner of diabolical behavior under the sun

Brazino:
Sometimes I just wonder how some married women do things. If my potential wife ever tries such, and I get to hear it, I swear, I'll send her packing. Because na so cheating dey take start. This is pure oju'kokoro

That woman has the potential to knack anybody who can work her to that point

Brazino:
You're acting your moniker and I am not surprised.

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It seems you are just catching cruise? Maybe you don't know the extent African man can go if one is playing with their wife.
I believe the woman has a beautiful body so that one might be affecting your judgement.

You want to die, how you even thinking of buying something for her, I think you lack home training, can't you tell her to meet her husband.

Don't try it.

If you don't understand some spiritual repercussion of some things, hope you never get to.