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if you truly love a girl and you intend to settle down with her, then impregnate her during courtship, you can marry her as the pregnancy is on and you do DNA after the child is born.

She should have mention it before deceiving any man into marrying her knowing fully well that giving birth is among the major reason people get married

Kobojunkie:
No mind OP and his coven! They refuse to learn the particulars of their partners in order to spot and avoid the red flags and potential tears. Something tells me many of these womb-watchers coven members intentionally ignore the red flags, only so they can pretend themselves victims after reality hits.

Wetin OP do you jor?

chidiokay:
thats like looking for a church in mecca ... a country like Nig. where family pressure is predominant, maybe men that know they have fertility issues sha.

Every man isn't call to be a dad. If he feels he isn't willing to, he will sure accept a woman who is also not willing to be a mom. Forget country, gone are the days people live to make others happy.

ROK123:
She should have mention it before deceiving any man into marrying her knowing fully well that giving birth is among the major reason people get married

I guess many of you missed he gist. The intention is to deceive their husbands, knowing fully well that every man needs a child. The ladies are only concerned about looking beautiful and maintaining their shape before the public.

Kobojunkie:
Seeking a solution to his childlessness by engaging women who would rather remain childless? The problem is clearly arent the women but the man going around finding himself women who don't share the same desires he does. Why paint them as belonging to a coven when the issue here is the man?

Ah ah, bro, are you talking about another subject? Or this same matter posted here?

Kobojunkie:
A woman who looks forward to having children before marriage would suddenly change her mind about them after marriage because someone talks them into it? Come on naw!

Abeg, make dis no turn to argument. The summary is that there is a club of married women where their motto is never to bear children so they maintain their beautiful shape. Simple.

ruffhandu:
➜Ah ah, bro, are you talking about another subject? Or this same matter posted here?

I watched the video and then read through your OP, and both are, as expected, all over the place.

The video seems more like a skit put together for comedy, like they are reading from yet another poorly written Nollywood script. Even the way the woman spoke makes her sound so much like a terrible Nollywood actress. I laughed when the guy asked, "Just look at how you are sounding like a better person." I was like, "What kind of nonsense is that?"

The woman's admissions make no sense at all. She is all over the place with her many admissions. According to her, she was already out of shape at the time she approached her friend to ask advice on how to get into shape. Two years in, she learned the medication had birth control potency, but she chose to continue with it anyway. She mentioned she was planning to adopt a child instead. And then she mentioned she had been going for medical checkups with her husband all that time, suggesting the man had to take medication during that time, leading me to wonder if he was visiting quacks? If the man continues to believe he is the problem in the marriage, why is the woman suddenly thinking she needs to have a baby in 6 months?

Then there is the OP, which reads more like an outright attack on all women who choose to live childfree. Honestly, it is all poorly put together and reasoned.

ruffhandu:
➜Abeg, make dis no turn to argument. The summary is that there is a club of married women where their motto is never to bear children so they maintain their beautiful shape. Simple.

From the video, which I have seen, I don't think there is evidence of such.

OK

ruffhandu:
No skit, this is the 8th woman identified so far. It started with one man seeking solution to his childlessness. You may take your time and through.

It is definitely more like a skit! Ask yourself this: why would a woman, any woman, wait until after marriage to decide that her shape— the same she has probably struggled with for most of her life —suddenly matters more to her than having kids?

CJStarz:
Oga , wake up from that local mentality. Who told you these ladies live with their parents or that their parents still have control over them?
Besides, inasmuch as I'm not in support of the ridiculous decision by some ladies not to have babies so as to save their shapes, but hey, sending a lady 'back to her Parents' house' does not mean she will suffer there. Most of these ladies are doing well before men came into their lives

even if she in leaving abroad, her hands in marriage was demanded from someone (her parents) and that is the rightful place to return her to.

Kobojunkie:
From the video, which I have seen, I don't think there is evidence of such.

Maybe you should watch previous episodes. Like I said, I gave you a summary of what is happening and did not want to lead anyone into spending his data.

Wahala o, maintaining which shape. Is she still the way she was born? Mechew

There's one at the gym. That one said she won't get pregnant. She'd rather do surrogacy.

I just dey laugh her for my mind.

Kobojunkie:
. Thanks to science and medicine, individuals are able to keep their shape even until the end.

LoL
Which science?
Dey play.
Body go tell you

thesicilian:
➜ LoL Which science? Dey play. Body go tell you

The same one that you try to deny with all you can.

Body go tell you is an excuse used a lot by those who refuse to get their acts together when it comes to their health and body.

I thought pregnancy was the hard part before having children. It was a walk in the park for me compared to what I went through after giving birth.

Creamypie:
When she don turn 45, whether she born or not, make she come dey maintain shape for who. A woman, no matter how she put herself in shape, dey begin loose alignment, ball joint, rings and pistons go weak, same as chain and sprockets and plugz go cold. Buttom plate for oil go begin lose nut

You cant eat your cake and have it

Kobojunkie:
The same one that you try to deny with all you can.

Body go tell you is an excuse used a lot by those who refuse to get their acts together when it comes to their health and body.

Dey play
You're talking to someone who manages the complications of body enhancement practices on a daily basis.

GboyegaD:
Every man isn't call to be a dad. If he feels he isn't willing to, he will sure accept a woman who is also not willing to be a mom. Forget country, gone are the days people live to make others happy.

lets me start by saying Being a Dad is not a Call or Gift, it is a natural features encoded in Males but there are factors that bring " defect" to it.

God command was clear, go n multiply that was directed at All not some males

when i see male or female that dont want to reproduce i consider it as "defect in nature" or they are possibly incapable

I agree people are evolving, however having your own child is not going to make anyone happier more than you .. think about it :

thesicilian:
Dey play
You're talking to someone who manages the complications of body enhancement practices on a daily basis.

Awon experts akpa pan dodo...we know of you lot! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Awon experts akpa pan dodo...we know of you lot! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Ok

chidiokay:
lets me start by saying Being a Dad is not a Call or Gift, it is a natural features encoded in Males but there are factors that bring " defect" to it.

God command was clear, go n multiply that was directed at All not some males

when i see male or female that dont want to reproduce i consider it as "defect in nature" or they are possibly incapable

I agree people are evolving, however having your own child is not going to make anyone happier more than you .. think about it :

No vex, are you tilling the land? If your hustle isn't farming, then it negates your argument. Those who chose not to are not defect in nature, they just chose an option that gives them peace. I have met quite a number of people who chose not to have kids and some have been married for over two decades and they are very happy. I think it is about making choices you are most comfortable with.

GboyegaD:
No vex, are you tilling the land? If your hustle isn't farming, then it negates your argument. Those who chose not to are not defect in nature, they just chose an option that gives them peace. I have met quite a number of people who chose not to have kids and some have been married for over two decades and they are very happy. I think it is about making choices you are most comfortable with.

if you are bring the part God cursed man, well i am not tilling the land, but i labour before i chop and tilling is under labour

I am not disputing their existence, My point still remain its a defect, naturally everyone should want kids But some factors are bound to alter that features ... could be experience/environment or health

Those you've met that are married for decades but dont want kids are not in Nig.... you only know they dont want kids But do you know the real factor behind it, did you bother to dig people cover up things

i know some men even go as far as vasectomy, thats a defect

try n manufacture anything .. you will see one @least wont come out well, you see the LGBTS those ones are defect tew

Maeve7:
I thought pregnancy was the hard part before having children. It was a walk in the park for me compared to what I went through after giving birth.

The pains of the stitches from the tears and cuts you received in the theatre? Abi the contraction when pickin dey suck? Abi which one? Abi na the pushing?

Nteogwuija:
There's one at the gym. That one said she won't get pregnant. She'd rather do surrogacy.

I just dey laugh her for my mind.

Na dem. But they won't have the mind to discuss it with their husband o, instead they will keep deceiving the man, hoping he would suggest adoption first, then she can come forth with her surrogacy suggestion. Evil women.

Kobojunkie:
Awon experts akpa pan dodo...we know of you lot! 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Oh so you understand Yoruba so well 🤔

ruffhandu:
The pains of the stitches from the tears and cuts you received in the theatre? Abi the contraction when pickin dey suck? Abi which one? Abi na the pushing?

Taking care on of a newborn and then toddlers was actually the hard part in hindsight.

Maeve7:
Taking care on of a newborn and then toddlers was actually the hard part in hindsight.

Aha, I see

If they like being in shape than giving birth, then they shouldn't get married.