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Are bad boys experts in finessing or are women terrible with choosing good men?
The above question will most likely get a defensive and sentimental argument with women likely to put the blame on Men , and run away from accountability.
Men on the other hand argue that treating a woman nice gets you used instead of loved.

How do you convince a Man otherwise when there is a practical record of bad boys having the best women?
In line with what a bad boy truly means, this article is focused on Men that are considered violent, lack morals, deadbeat and above all opposite of what a nice guy should be.

One of the problems with this particular discussion is the presumption that generalization is bad. " Some men and some women"
This is an intentional tactic to deflate from reality.
Obviously there is room for exception and a fraction of women do not fall into the category of terrible choosers, the same way some Men are exempted in the bad boy realm.
But how do you shuffle the pack and seive the " some"?

Exceptions don't negate the fact and it's important to note that the majority in any situation is a reflection of the general population.

How difficult is it to say no to a Man that hits you?
Why do cheating men have tons of women chasing them?
Why do criminals have women in love with them?

The above should tell you why women are bad choosers! Some would argue that the signs are not always there, okay! Let's give a benefit of doubt.
Why does it happen repeatedly?
A mistake repeated more than once is a decision. Are you still arguing?

A lot of nerds, church boys and decent chaps are trapped under the recurrent boring tag as against the bad boys. In the long run the nice boys are forced to amend their ways in order to fit into the infamous requirements to get a woman " toxicity".

You can lie to everyone but the consequences of your actions are strapped alongside you!.
What women say they want is totally opposite from what they react to.
In a business setting, if a consumer refuses a particular product, the buyer is forced to look elsewhere for a new customer or adjust to fit into the consumer's preferences before a deal can happen.

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Big fat lie, most men in my hood who did bad boys in their youth are aging with no wives, because they are broke. No women marry you because of bad boy vibe, but they do because you can provide for her offsprings.

No woman wants to settle down with a bad boy. They only enjoy sex with drugs life with bad boys. Asked yourself all those notorious cultists how many girls are ready to settle down with them. Bad boys bang better because off the intake of drugs and others substance. But when it comes to settling down woman run after the cool headed guys. Who will want to be a widow

Anenehi:
Big fat lie, most men in my hood who did bad boys in their youth are aging with no wives, because they are broke. No women marry you because of bad boy vibe, but they do because you can provide for her offsprings.

The context of the conversation is not finance but morals.
Or are you saying women are not getting married to criminals, women beater and all other vices associated with a bad boy?

According to your rebuttal it seems you are saying having money is a requisite for women to overlook a bad character in men? Is that your argument

Letmecum:
No woman wants to settle down with a bad boy. They only enjoy sex with drugs life with bad boys. Asked yourself all those notorious cultists how many girls are ready to settle down with them. Bad boys bang better because off the intake of drugs and others substance. But when it comes to settling down woman run after the cool headed guys. Who will want to be a widow

So you are saying women choose bad boys for fun, then good guys for marriage?

@ Op Is like you don't understand the point?

Men are the prize

Any man that does not marry choose not to.

Women cannot reject a man for being a player or bad guy in the past or even present. All she want from you is to be financially stable.

Bandits and Arm robbers have wifes, some women cover up for their bad guy partner.

Men and Women are not the same.

Bendeco02:
@ Op Is like you don't understand the point?

Men are the prize

Any man that does not marry choose not to.

Women cannot reject a man for being a player or bad guy in the past or even present. All she want from you is to be financially stable.

Bandits and Arm robbers have wifes, some women cover up for their bad guy partner.

Men and Women are not the same.

I understand perfectly chief!.
I think women intentionally run away from being accountable for their choices. That's the intention of the article

They aren't bad boys in quote . They don't just prioritize women like you and then end up way- billed.

Exceed15:
They aren't bad boys in quote . They don't just prioritize women like you and then end up way- billed.

So criminals, women beater, violent and cheating men are not bad boys?

Mekuseh11:
I understand perfectly chief!.
I think women intentionally run away from being accountable for their choices. That's the intention of the article

Unfortunately, those vibes from bad men attracts women.

To women, the bad guys are fun to be with not that they don't know what they are doing.

Nice guys are mostly serious with life and women prefer fun life style.

Most women are petty by nature

Bendeco02:
Unfortunately, those vibes from bad men attracts women.

To women, the bad guys are fun to be with not that they don't know what they are doing.

Nice guys are mostly serious with life and women prefer fun life style.

Most women are petty by nature

And you think you understand women?


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That gender is the most confused set of humans alive

They don't even understand themselves