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How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Brazino(op): 9:59am On Jun 27, 2025
When you meet an intelligent person, you know. That's if you're also intelligent.
When you meet someone who's rich, you also know.
When you meet a civilized and enlightened person, you can also tell.

So, how do you know if someone is from a poor background?

Attitude is key here. There are some persons who come from a rich background but may appear poor especially in how they look. While some from poor background may appear Rich physically.

Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Sijo01(f): 10:18am On Jun 27, 2025
The way they behave/react when they come face to face with luxury.
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Nemesis0147(m): 10:32am On Jun 27, 2025
Their lifestyle,,the way they talk.
Always trying to meet up or fit in to a certain standard.

Those things don't stress rich kids
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by ruzell86: 11:34am On Jun 27, 2025
They behave and talk in a loud manner with little or no decorum. Rich kids no send.

Also boastful.
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Mynd44(mod): 2:05pm On Jun 27, 2025
When things start working for them, the way they act when someone talks to them in a way that seems to not reflect their current status.

The way Thorin Oakenshield said it in "The Hobbit"
"Do not speak to me as if I were some lowly dwarf... as if I were still Thorin Oakenshield. I AM YOUR KING!"
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by NameChecker: 2:07pm On Jun 27, 2025
It's easier to notice if the person is a lady.
Take her to a restaurant . . . by their billing you shall know them

grin grin grin grin
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by DanseMacabre(m): 2:08pm On Jun 27, 2025
People who are from poor backgrounds usually eat the meat last on their plates. No cap.
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Fiscus105(m):
If you are an observant individual, interactions with people would say whole about them.


Emotional intelligence is the key factor......no matter how u want to fake/pretend .....Ur emotions would reveal unintentionally.
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by columbus007(m): 2:09pm On Jun 27, 2025
Poor kids are the ones so full of ego very proud untop nothing no shigbain yet the person is proud. undecided
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by richiemcgold:
Just a 2 minutes conversation will give me a clue about your background. That's it!
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by redcliff: 2:09pm On Jun 27, 2025
They are tribalists.. hate everything about another tribe...
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Freeze007(m): 2:09pm On Jun 27, 2025
very apt trust me, I am still learning I write them leave the reader to process but your comment triggered the BOT


Mynd44:
When things start working for them, the way they act when someone talks to them in a way that seems to not reflect their current status.

The way Thorin Oakenshield said it in "The Hobbit"
"Do not speak to me as if I were some lowly dwarf... as if I were still Thorin Oakenshield. I AM YOUR KING!"
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by femi4: 2:09pm On Jun 27, 2025
Brazino:
When you meet an intelligent person, you know. That's if you're also intelligent.
When you meet someone who's rich, you also know.
When you meet a civilized and enlightened person, you can also tell.

So, how do you know if someone is from a poor background?

Attitude is key here. There are some persons who come from a rich background but may appear poor especially in how they look. While some from poor background may appear Rich physically.
You will know by their approach...they can beg for Africa

Urgent 2k
I have not eating
Send t fare
Anything for the boys
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by GOVERNORR: 2:09pm On Jun 27, 2025
The composure

You'll feel some humility and gentleness like they are shy which will make you assume they lack self esteem
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Douglad: 2:09pm On Jun 27, 2025
People who ask this question reek of it. The subtext behind it is clear: how do I mask the stench of poverty that, due to no fault of mine, continues to haunt me beyond reproach, no matter how I hard I try to rinse myself off it?
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by autoez: 2:09pm On Jun 27, 2025
They're the ones dreaming of buying house in Lekki. No Job, No degrees, No Skills. Just dreams 🤣🤣
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Mariangeles(f): 2:10pm On Jun 27, 2025
Is it a crime to come from a poor family?
What has that got to do with anything?

The only crime is having a poor mindset.
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by RealLordZeus(m): 2:10pm On Jun 27, 2025
DanseMacabre:
People who are from poor backgrounds usually eat the meat last on their plates. No cap.
This one no follow... I'm not from a wealthy background.. but that habit of eating meat or fish first. I enjoy it like mad
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by IAM4BAT4plus4: 2:10pm On Jun 27, 2025
For girls.


Once you just say hello 👋


Immediately their:

GAS IS FINISHED

SHE'S DOING PROJECT

HER PHONE CAMERA IS NOT WORKING

NEXT WEEK IS THEIR BIRTHDAY

DAD TRYING TO SEND MONEY BUT NO NETWORK
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by OChimex: 2:10pm On Jun 27, 2025
Whatever behavior you see in nigerians... thats the answer
Because 98% of nigerians are considered poor, by world standard so if you want to detect that, go to wealthy countries and observe real wealthy people....
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by HEAVEN4444: 2:10pm On Jun 27, 2025
Their diet. Diet is one thing you can never change even after getting money. Your taste is now cemented in your memory from youth. If you like soaking garri cuz of poverty, when you hit 1 billion dollars you will still soak garri
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Nazgul: 2:10pm On Jun 27, 2025
When they're always offering cheaper alternatives whenever you tell them how much you spent on a particular item.

Eg. I spent 40k to prepare a 5 liter pot of soup.

Them: You for give me the money I go use 10k cook am sef. You too de waste money.

Eg2. A painter told me to bring 50k to paint my room.

Them: Something I can do for 10k then you can add something for me.


People who say things like I can never use 100k to buy phone.

People who enter plane like to waste money, night bus is better.

Na mumu de go boutique. Okrika is better.

Second hand electronics is better than brand new.


If you here those words just know that it's poverty that's talking.
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by osuofia2(m): 2:10pm On Jun 27, 2025
Rich people don't impress others, they live their lives. They can even wear sleepers and go to an occasion. They won't even send but poor people go try and outdo themselves.
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by moshoodn(m):
Does it matter?

Being from a poor background ain't no sin. Time and chance happens to everyone.

How do you detect someone is from Nigeria?
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by ReacherSaidNoth: 2:11pm On Jun 27, 2025
A strange question to ask in a country where the overwhelming majority are poor undecided
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by free2ryhme: 2:11pm On Jun 27, 2025
Brazino:
When you meet an intelligent person, you know. That's if you're also intelligent.
When you meet someone who's rich, you also know.
When you meet a civilized and enlightened person, you can also tell.

So, how do you know if someone is from a poor background?

Attitude is key here. There are some persons who come from a rich background but may appear poor especially in how they look. While some from poor background may appear Rich physically.
Na poor people dey ask this type of question

chai
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by nwirinedu(m): 2:11pm On Jun 27, 2025
Sijo01:
The way they behave/react when they come face to face with luxury.
When they become full time pastors with no source of income other than tithes and offerings.

Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Offpoint1: 2:12pm On Jun 27, 2025
Araba Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by Kaido: 2:12pm On Jun 27, 2025
Noisy.
Overly stingy.
Unnecessary jealousy & hate
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by DanseMacabre(m): 2:13pm On Jun 27, 2025
RealLordZeus:
This one no follow... I'm not from a wealthy background.. but that habit of eating meat or fish first. I enjoy it like mad
Bear in mind that there is an exception for every strict rule.
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by HydraFeeds(m): 2:13pm On Jun 27, 2025
Asking outsiders for financial help (Some/few rich families don't help each other though).

Very greedy when they come across opportunity to make money or use something for free .
Re: How Do You Immediately Detect That Someone Is From A Poor Family? by onuman: 2:13pm On Jun 27, 2025
I nukwa kweshion.

They say Nigerians are among the highesr 12 poverty stricken population groups in the world. No thanks to APC and its government.
Those whofounded APC lack foresight.

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