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Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by JetStar: 1:11pm On Jun 27, 2025
Kimo21:
It’s stupid men who send girls they’ve not met 500k just for being a fine girl that caused all this rubbish. Leave the girls and blame the men that caused their entitlement.
Judging from the comments I think many people are chasing runs girls for wife. if thats the case then a lot of men will suffer.
People should understand the kind of girls they want to date before approaching them. Runs babe can never be a wife material.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by ufotunang: 1:22pm On Jun 27, 2025
Vinnie2000:
Lols, I just remember when one Young babe I was wooing bcus of YANCH
Told me to buy her Teddy Bear of N35000. undecided
.... wetin she want take teddy bear do ? 🙄
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by bazoodo: 1:45pm On Jun 27, 2025
greygoblings:
Well, what I see inside when I butcher a cow and goat, is exactly what I see inside a human when I conduct a surgery. So, beside the fact that we have higher faculty for reasoning, humans and animals both have sex for recreational and reproductve reasons, both die and have the same organs which perform the same functions. God didn't tell me anything, all I have said is from logical reasoning and you can choose to believe in a book written thousands of years ago and call it fact, thats not my cup of tea.
what a joke. Without the human flesh man can't work or live on earth. Why haven't your animals built sky scrapers or fighter jets?? Why haven't your goats or cows gone to the moon or space??
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Nahunger(m): 1:49pm On Jun 27, 2025
Uchefame:
That's why getting married nowadays looks like playing bet9ja.
I swear 😂😂😂

To date or marry a Nigerian girl be like say person dey play lotto
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by EKOMADENG: 1:59pm On Jun 27, 2025
Savedday2:
Blame SIMPle men!

The day I almost fainted was, the day I discovered a girl I dey knack free each time I enter Warri, Na him 1guy buy Iphone 15 come still buy her hair of 300k to tell her sorry for having painful menstruation.

Who do our men this thing?
U Neva can tell maybe he wants to use her buy benz. Who knows.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by purples25(f): 2:00pm On Jun 27, 2025
Gerrard59:
I remembered when I stated that sex isn't free, but was attacked. Nothing goes for nothing.

Regarding the aspect of calling women they've had sex with "hoes", I blame it on our prudish and overly sanctimonious (another word for hypocritical) culture. Unlike say the Caribbean where having sex isn't frowned upon, we condemn women who believe in sexual liberalism. The only way those women can counter that stigma is monetisation of the sexual intercourse.

So, both Nigerian men and women deserve themselves. Men cannot go about demanding free sex from every random girl and at the same time mock her for offering it freely. Something has to give in.
Toh you get it. Nigerian men looking for casual sex, fornication, deserve these women of ‘low virtue’.

I don’t know how someone can be going towards another with a mean intent, but they expect the other person to come towards them with a good and godly mindset.

If a person does not want billing, he should not treat a woman like a LovePeddler.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Kimo21(m): 2:16pm On Jun 27, 2025
JetStar:
Judging from the comments I think many people are chasing runs girls for wife. if thats the case then a lot of men will suffer.
People should understand the kind of girls they want to date before approaching them. Runs babe can never be a wife material.
They chase runs girls because they want to satisfy their sexual urges immediately. No right thinking man will go to a brothel or pick an adult film actor to wife and give birth to his children( if she even still has a womb sef)
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Gerrard59(m): 2:56pm On Jun 27, 2025
purples25:
Toh you get it. Nigerian men looking for casual sex, fornication, deserve these women of ‘low virtue’.

I don’t know how someone can be going towards another with a mean intent, but they expect the other person to come towards them with a good and godly mindset.

If a person does not want billing, he should not treat a woman like a LovePeddler
Sometimes, it's not even the treating the woman like a LovePeddler, but the prevailing cultural mentality towards a woman deciding to have sex. The "I don chop am" mentality makes the women feel being used, so to assuage that feeling, they charge for it. I've been reading about the Caribbean and following their media contents, I observed that they're not puritanical as most Nigerians are. So our men, especially in the south, should choose a struggle: do they want a sexually liberal society or a religious restrictive one?
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by gtassure: 3:19pm On Jun 27, 2025
Kwinesther:
But you said you only wanted her for YANCH and will ofcourse ditch her when you are done sleeping with her? Is that a good thing to do to your fellow human being? Will you be happy if same thing is done to your sister? But the girl asking for money in return knowing fully well you are only interested in sleeping with her is now a crime? You men are the ones teaching girls to be wicked and it will only get worse... I so much love these gen Zs because you men deserves them.

It's like you people are not aware that the era where men sweet talk innocent girls just to get her laid is so long gone. Our aunties suffer for una hand no be small. Girls of these generation are so wise to know it's all transactional, una go see shege for billing. It's even so funny seeing all your gender people supporting you, people that have sisters and will have daughters in future ooo.
Haven't you also see a woman who just want to use man to scratch and discard afterward?
These thing happen to both side! The younger attractive male has been treated like an object to many times to count!
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by kaydam99(m): 3:31pm On Jun 27, 2025
No Be those babe fault ooo.. Nah the Guys wey dey give them the vibe.. Nah Men Dey do Men
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Silentgroper(m): 4:39pm On Jun 27, 2025
Kwinesther:
The girl deserves slap for what exactly? Didn't you read the part where your gender said he only wanted her for YANCH and will ofcourse ditch her when he's done sleeping with her? Is that a good thing to do to your fellow human being? But the girl asking for money in return obviously knowing the guy is only interested in sleeping with her is now a crime? You men are the ones teaching girls to be wicked and it will get worse... I so much love this gen Zs.

It's like you people are not aware that the era where men sweet talk innocent girls just to get her laid is so long gone. Our aunties suffer for una hand no be small. Girls of these generation are so wise to know it's all transactional, una go see shege for billing.
Dey play ..

Na who drop naim fvck up ..


Una no bill tire , una no go see shishi, highest na 5k and we go too chop that puna on top the 5k ..
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by DoctorAyukebot(m): 5:19pm On Jun 27, 2025
Vinnie2000:
Lols, I just remember when one Young babe I was wooing bcus of YANCH
Told me to buy her Teddy Bear of N35000. undecided
The teddy bear too be get Yanch?..Lol
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Kwinesther:
Silentgroper:
Dey play ..

Na who drop naim fvck up ..


Una no bill tire , una no go see shishi, highest na 5k and we go too chop that puna on top the 5k ..
Lol, as if there are no simps and married men that will pay 100 times of your chicken change just to take her out. Una too dey play seh...
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Kwinesther:
gtassure:
Haven't you also see a woman who just want to use man to scratch and discard afterward?
These thing happen to both side! The younger attractive male has been treated like an object to many times to count!
Yes you are actually right! But if I tell you that from the onset, it was men that started that shit you may not believe me. I will continue to say it is you men that are teaching women to be wicked...

See every girl (mostly in their teens) was once that simple, naive, innocent girl that genuinely loved a particular man with no intension of asking for material things from the man, just pure undiluted love but men usually take this for granted, break their fragile heart and disappoint them. Do you know some men sees a girl that doesn't demand in a relationship as being stupid? Some even got impregnated and abandoned. Such girls in their subsequent relationships becomes hardened and emotionally unavailable even though the new guy may have good intensions but how will the girl know? To her, the new guy has come to do what the previous guy did, so they close their hearts and make everything transactional. The new guy with no bad intentions gets little or no love and disappointment from the girl and the cycle continues.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by SAMBARRY:
Kwinesther:
Yes na. This is an evidence that men are truly scum and are wicked, can you see that not a single one of them could criticise their gender for wanting the girl for YANCH only, but these same people want genuine love from women. You na go cry tire...

Those our aunties that were innocently deceived to get laid then are the single mothers of today, but see same men condemning single mothers now. So tell me, which single mother won't teach her daughter and sister to be feminist or make relationship transactional? Now they are the gen z generation of today, the cycle continues and it will keep getting worse...
the fact that many of them met genuinely good women that were ready to be real with them but they had another sinister motive now makes me realise they deserve the baddies and women who commercialise commitment. Naija women that I know were never like this but them don push them to the wall but it's amusing that they're still up to no good.using I love you to enter women at the same time angry that the same girls they want to play now put a fee to it.

Marriage you no intend to give them
Commitment or loyalty you're not ready to give them but you want full acess with little or nothing to offer the ladies.lol..onpe

I remember an ex course mate.very decent church gurl.her lifestyle just revolved around school and church. She didn't even make friends with the boys in out class.just a reserved homely girl.the last I heard of her in our last year reunion was that she has become a single mother.i was shocked to my bones.i said bola? This girls marriage was her 1st ever relationship and this same girl that not only came out with a 1st class married as a virgin.i was too shocked and curious to find out what the cause of her divorce I heard domestic violence . so when I see ex good girls turning ruthless baddies ,I understand. Its surprising many of these men will say they want decent homely and domesticated women.when they eventually see 1,they will treat them very badly till they jam agbako in the name of baddies
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Kwinesther: 5:57pm On Jun 27, 2025
purples25:
Toh you get it. Nigerian men looking for casual sex, fornication, deserve these women of ‘low virtue’.

I don’t know how someone can be going towards another with a mean intent, but they expect the other person to come towards them with a good and godly mindset.

If a person does not want billing, he should not treat a woman like a LovePeddler.
God bless you for this comment!
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Uchefame(m): 8:37pm On Jun 27, 2025
realsoftouch:
grin grin grin grin grin u get bad mouth!!!!

My belle dey pain me like this!!!
Enjoy your laugh jaari
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Uchefame(m): 8:46pm On Jun 27, 2025
realsoftouch:
grin grin grin grin grin u get bad mouth!!!!

My belle dey pain me like this!!!
Enjoy your laugh
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Kwinesther: 9:01pm On Jun 27, 2025
SAMBARRY:
the fact that many of them met genuinely good women that were ready to be real with them but they had another sinister motive now makes me realise they deserve the baddies and women who commercialise commitment. Naija women that I know were never like this but them don push them to the wall but it's amusing that they're still up to no good.using I love you to enter women at the same time angry that the same girls they want to play now put a fee to it.

Marriage you no intend to give them
Commitment or loyalty you're not ready to give them but you want full acess with little or nothing to offer the ladies.lol..onpe

I remember an ex course mate.very decent church gurl.her lifestyle just revolved around school and church. She didn't even make friends with the boys in out class.just a reserved homely girl.the last I heard of her in our last year reunion was that she has become a single mother.i was shocked to my bones.i said bola? This girls marriage was her 1st ever relationship and this same girl that not only came out with a 1st class married as a virgin.i was too shocked and curious to find out what the cause of her divorce I heard domestic violence . so when I see ex good girls turning ruthless baddies ,I understand. Its surprising many of these men will say they want decent homely and domesticated women.when they eventually see 1,they will treat them very badly till they jam agbako in the name of baddies
Men don't like nice and good women, because the thrill is not there and there is nothing challenging about them. They might be saying it with their mouth that they want a gentle, homely, reserved lady that will give them peace of mind blah blah blah but they are mere words of mouth. It's just a matter of time they will cheat on her, ditch and treat her like trash and you will wonder why they leave such ladies for a baddie. Don't you see the way they pamper those baddies spend alot on them but find it difficult to give their good housewives ordinary 20k? Na good girls dey suffer pass, and its so disheartening. That man dare not treat a baddie the way Bola was treated because he knows the madness wey she go show am. But poor Bola being a good girl will be crying and praying for his husband to change lol.

It's cool knowing girls of nowadays don't even send these men. Those shege wey men dey show women that time has been reverted as it is now the opposite. Women now leave their children for their ex husbands to take care of, when the children grows up they will look for their mother abi. They cheat back to back like men did, no love no emotions.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by SAMBARRY: 10:08pm On Jun 27, 2025
Kwinesther:
Men don't like nice and good women, because the thrill is not there and there is nothing challenging about them. They might be saying it with their mouth that they want a gentle, homely, reserved lady that will give them peace of mind blah blah blah but they are mere words of mouth. It's just a matter of time they will cheat on her, ditch and treat her like trash and you will wonder why they leave such ladies for a baddie. Don't you see the way they pamper those baddies spend alot on them but find it difficult to give their good housewives ordinary 20k? Na good girls dey suffer pass, and its so disheartening. That man dare not treat a baddie the way Bola was treated because he knows the madness wey she go show am. But poor Bola being a good girl will be crying and praying for his husband to change lol.

It's cool knowing girls of nowadays don't even send these men. Those shege wey men dey show women that time has been reverted as it is now the opposite. Women now leave their children for their ex husbands to take care of, when the children grows up they will look for their mother abi. They cheat back to back like men did, no love no emotions.
bola was o e of the most decent and timely girls in our class.this girl no dey wear trousers. Very light make up and a tiny stud earing.she never had a boyfriend until she got to 400level and the guy she dated was who she eventually got married to so I'm surprised when this men say I want a tear rubber woman or with little to no body count. This 1 no even get body count. Na for husband house she dey know about s3x.she literally ticked all the box of a total wife material going by the description of some of this lousy men.even ordinary birthday party she no dey go.na big skirts with office shirts and her small anita Baker wig of those days she dey wear with small lip gloss.i no even see small cleavage for all her blouses.though she wears vest abi shimi .she was everything a man will describe as wife material. So innocent, girly and naive.infact na full grandma pants that she will pull up to her belly button she dey wear.if there's anything ,my expectation was that the husband will have been adoring her and giving her princess treatment. That was even what everyone in my class thought but alas the reverse was the case.its clear that truly men don't like good girls but the 1 that will give them drama,embarrassment, Bill them mercilessly not cook for them because they're not in the mood party like there's no tomorrow, na those ones them dey like and no dey do rubbish

Anyway as shera said follow men's words at your risk and anytime they open their mouth, it's all lies
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Bobxin(m): 10:55pm On Jun 27, 2025
Suicideboy:
if na me i will gift her that house but she go collect multiple bruises once we marry
Story get as e be, after gifting her the house, when you get married, she will move out of the house to the man's house, or the man will move to her house.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by greygoblings(m): 11:18pm On Jun 27, 2025
bazoodo:
what a joke. Without the human flesh man can't work or live on earth. Why haven't your animals built sky scrapers or fighter jets?? Why haven't your goats or cows gone to the moon or space??
Get sense, after all that's what makes us human. Then leave your human flesh behind and live and work on Jupiter. If you cannot comprehend my response, maybe you should be more like those who haven't built sky scrapers or fighter jets or probably those who haven't gone to the moon or space.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by lapintoz: 11:20pm On Jun 27, 2025
One told me to send her N500k for her and her friends to catch cruise on a Friday night outing.....I ghosted her immediately. She started asking JAMB questions, I just bone!
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by bazoodo: 11:57pm On Jun 27, 2025
greygoblings:
Get sense, after all that's what makes us human. Then leave your human flesh behind and live and work on Jupiter. If you cannot comprehend my response, maybe you should be more like those who haven't built sky scrapers or fighter jets or probably those who haven't gone to the moon or space.
senseless talk. Can a lion do what a human can do?? Can a goat even cook a meal? Use your head
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by PUNANI01: 12:11am On Jun 28, 2025
You self, wetin bring the discussion? Na you dey corrupt them. Stop going for underage girls.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Silentgroper(m): 8:25am On Jun 28, 2025
Kwinesther:
Lol, as if there are no simps and married men that will pay 100 times of your chicken change just to take her out. Una too dey play seh...
Mwn don dey wise up ..


Dey play...

Infact this days, you must drop puna before a certain amount go touch your hand..
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by Kwinesther: 9:13am On Jun 28, 2025
Silentgroper:
Mwn don dey wise up ..


Dey play...

Infact this days, you must drop puna before a certain amount go touch your hand..
That one na only for ya side e dey happen. I dey talk about married men and better sugar daddies no be small small bois.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by greygoblings(m): 9:11pm On Jun 28, 2025
bazoodo:
senseless talk. Can a lion do what a human can do?? Can a goat even cook a meal? Use your head
Stand in front of a lion and you will see how senseless I am. If you can read, you will go back to my original reply to you and read it again and you'll realize who is actually senseless. I suspect you are a child or a teenager. If an adult, you need to read more before you respond with emotions.
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by bazoodo: 9:48pm On Jun 28, 2025
greygoblings:
Stand in front of a lion and you will see how senseless I am. If you can read, you will go back to my original reply to you and read it again and you'll realize who is actually senseless. I suspect you are a child or a teenager. If an adult, you need to read more before you respond with emotions.
clearly you don't have an idea of what you writing
Re: How Did We Get Here? Nigerian Man Questions Gen Z Babes’ Luxury Demands by greygoblings(m): 8:29am On Jun 30, 2025
bazoodo:
clearly you don't have an idea of what you writing
To you I guess.
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