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My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

It's her nature, there's nothing you can do about it. Just start by encouraging her to go out with you sometimes, start in a quiet and not too crowded place. Little by little she will begin to enjoy going out with you.

Did you find out your wife was an introvert after your wedding?

Are you asking us for an advice on how to convert your wife to an extrovert??

You are obviously an extrovert, now how will you feel if your wife suddenly ask you to become an introvert??


You are a clear example of why we discourage children from going into marriage.

You should attained some level of maturity before going into marriage

Exousiang01:
Did you find out your wife was an introvert after your wedding?

Are you asking us for an advice on how to convert your wife to an extrovert??

You are obviously an extrovert, now how will you feel if your wife suddenly ask you to become an introvert??


You are a clear example of why we discourage children from going into marriage.

You should attained some level of maturity before going into marriage

Even the most matured and intelligent ones need marriage advice.

Your advice sound so matured and very intelligent. God bless you nairaland need people like you to answer questions not fools..

Depriest2020:
It's her nature, there's nothing you can do about it. Just start by encouraging her to go out with you sometimes, start in a quiet and not too crowded place. Little by little she will begin to enjoy going out with you.

Exousiang01:
Did you find out your wife was an introvert after your wedding?

Are you asking us for an advice on how to convert your wife to an extrovert??

You are obviously an extrovert, now how will you feel if your wife suddenly ask you to become an introvert??


You are a clear example of why we discourage children from going into marriage.

You should attained some level of maturity before going into marriage

My dear brother in the Lord,

You didn't give any meaningful advice or counsel to the matter.

If u dont have anything to say, just scroll past.

Bless u brother in the Lord.

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

Let her enjoy her life inside the house. Go out and have fun with your friends. On special occasions for couples, encourage her to go with you, that's all.

Let her be, brother. That is her nature and you knew about it before you married her.

Give her time.. she will gradually like what you like and from there she'll become outgoing.
Treat that your wife with care, her type are very rare to come by.

Introvert ma foot..

Introvert do go out, but not like extrovert do go..

There’s something your wife is not telling you. You didn’t met her a virgin, right? No worry I don understand..

Boreholes are usually tricky. Everything fit be scope..

Start by organizing parties at your home every 3 months after 9 month see if she follows you to one of your outings. Let’s start from there. If that works let me know so that i can set you up to the next modules

Exousiang01:
Did you find out your wife was an introvert after your wedding?

Are you minding him.

Instead of him to keep his wife company in peace and quietness, he wants to introduce his wife to waka-waka lifestyle.

Let the lifestyle catch on, his next post will be “my wife doesn’t like to stay home”. Problem dey sleep, yanga go wake am

Please don't try to fix what's not broken. You've always know your wife was an introvert and fell in love with her that way. Why are you seeing this as an issue now?

Harddiskng:
Are you minding him.

Instead of him to keep his wife company in peace and quietness, he wants to introduce his wife to waka-waka lifestyle.

Let the lifestyle catch on, his next post will be “my wife doesn’t like to stay home”. Problem dey sleep, yanga go wake am

Oko iyawo doesn't know what God has done for him.
2 more characters needed

You should be thankful to God for giving you a great wife. Most of her opposites are single mothers now

Divorce her and Marry, someone your choice. hdhdhdh

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

Let her start business at home.. My neighbor's wife is same. She does her business from home. Cooking, baking, etc etc... uses dispatch riders to deliver

Ask yourself how much you have been saving for your wife to be an introvert.

The Aso Ebi she has been missing, calculate the amount alone. You should be lucky to have her

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

How did you meet your wife? If you courted her for long or discussed about this before you settled down with her, you would've noticed. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with such a life style but I'm not the one married to her. There's nothing you can do in this case especially if she happens to be an introvert or quiet type. It is not everyone that likes noise.

If that's only the 'fault', please learn to adapt.

That's my kind of partner, she will make a good home

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

We will never appreciate what we have until we loose it.

I read somewhere that someone want to divorce his wife coz she party too much and come back late at nights sometimes drunk...

Okay ooh

DitariIzon:
Even the most matured and intelligent ones need marriage advice.

God bless you for your response. You answered correctly

And someone somewhere is lamenting because he sees his wife at home every lunar eclipse.
What do folks really want?

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

That is her person. She's a chronic introvert and don't try and force her to change if you don't want to have marriage problems. Just accept her the way she is though it might be frustrating to you. I am saying this because I am an mild extrovert and I have dated someone like your wife and it was extremely annoying. I'm glad I didn't marry her.

DitariIzon:
Even the most matured and intelligent ones need marriage advice.

Not this kind.
The mature ones knows who they are getting married to and know exactly who they want in marriage.

That thing you're looking for just pray you don't find it outside.

I wonder why some people use their hands to invite trouble into their matrimonial homes...... Being an introvert will save you from lots of problems.

Uv got someone who seem to value her peace and serenity ; someone whom I'm sure is contented with what she's got; someone who's ready to keep an eye in your home and on your kids almost on a 24hr daily basis....

I just hope she's got something doing indoors probably online or offline that is fetching incomes for her though and partly for the family cus Na there E go make sense wella.......

But on the flip side, NAWAOO!...u didn't notice this part of her while you guys dated?. Or u did, and was like "whao I'm blessed with such a lady who's got much interest internally than externally; a woman who's reserved".......I swear say u noticed it and saw it as a merited favour on your side.....Now u complaining ..

Just as someone suggested above, once in a while take her out...one step at a time bro..

Wtf? You didn't know this when you met her and while dating?

Won't Seun start checking all these dumb threads?

Start by taking her out on a date, somewhere that is not too crowded and noisy, once in a month, she'll definitely love it.

Live and let's live.You should accept her for who she is.Dont force your concept on her. Meanwhile,you knew she was an extrovert and not sociable before you got her married to you therefore enjoy your package