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I’ll hold this grudge till we face God:Lady recalls horrifying experience with secondary school bully who tampered with her drink

A Nigerian X user has shared a disturbing memory from her secondary school days, recalling a time a bully pulled an unforgivable stunt on her.

She narrated that the boy drank her Lacasera, urinated into the empty bottle, and returned it to her lunch pack. She almost drank it but got suspicious because the cap opened too easily.

“He died two years ago and classmates were shocked I had no condolences,” she wrote.

This thing pain her o, well a grudge will put you in shackle with the offender and you will become the hostage. Move passed it its beta that way.

Abeg no forgive that kind thing, you no be Jesus Christ 😂

She must be a blood relative of Bola Tinubu and Buhari, very unforgiven and vindictive men

Well served…

She did well, I am super proud of her!

Forgive and forget is rubbish!!!

He was old enough and knew what he was doing, no mercy for bullies….
Bye bully!

columbus007:
This thing pain her o, well a grudge will put you in shackle with the offender and you will become the hostage. Move passed it its beta that way.

This time the bully is dead and gone to his grave….


So he forever remains the hostage

I support and stand by her.

Peace, loves and Blessings to Her.

Keeping malice with the dead guy for something he did in his teens is just plain stupidity. The dead dude bullied you in sec school when most of us did things we wouldn't dare do today.

Learn to forgive and free yourself from unnecessary weight that would only stop you from growing. I too was bullied in sec school and at that time i thought i would never forgive the person but life had a different plan plus time heals all wounds.

Forgiveness should be judged by the greatness and Impact of your sins,I don’t know maybe she’s right or wrong,but only her knows the impact of what happened that day..,




Look here,what’s life without proper bedmatics skills seff,I’m here to solve all your woes

Forgiving him will have no impact on a dead person, it only helps the living with peace and healing of the mind

U hope she has never crossed God or anyone in her own existence. Forgive others, so God may forgive your own sins too

I support her on this.
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boarding sch... unfortunately i was the bully In Unity Boarding school

Sometimes, you don't forgive to set your oppressor free, but to set yourself free. Holding on to these bitter encounters is more or less like living in a prison. Free yourself, ma'am.

God expects us to forgive without ceasing. If you decide to meet God with this grudge, what do you think would become of your eternity?

If I talk about what we experienced in a government school in one of SW states, it will trend. She should forgive and move on.

Those friends boyfriend you snatched back then nko?

Forgive us our trespasses
As we forgive those who trespassed against us.

How does she think, she can even see God ?

He doesn't need your forgiveness.

Thank God say Jesus Christ no be woman.

Normal. I have a classmate from secondary school who I’ll piss on his grave if I ever come across it. He slapped me so hard I bled from one ear. I’m partially deaf in it today.

Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who trespass against us...

She is not ready for God's forgiveness too

may God help us. may we not offend the person that will not forgive us

I'm glad I will, be among the panel of Judges and that day, it will be a fair hearing

may God help us. may we not offend the person that will not forgive us. What the guy did is not is bad. may all his bad even killed him

Honestly thats your problem, no one is begging you. rubbish.

Lol
She will do worse or her offspring will do it
Karma is real

Forgiveness is no obligation. If u forgive God forgives u of such transgressions cos u cannot be more forgiving than God

meobizy:
Normal. I have a classmate from secondary school who I’ll piss on his grave if I ever come across it. He slapped me so hard I bled from one ear. I’m partially deaf in it today.

Them say make you forgive am so that you will be free from the imaginary shackles of the wicked.

With this mindset her husband is in trouble...... she must learn to forgive.

We had this bully back then in school, he was nicknamed Biggie. He was huge, Goliath standard and oppressed everyone in our class.

So, some boys hatched a plan. Since he had a weakness for gala, they bought one, popped it open and smeared it in their armpit and groin. Brought it back to his presence and popped it open like they just got it from the canteen.

Foolish Biggie reached for it as usual and threatened the boy to let go. He did without struggle and Biggie ate it.

Thirty minutes later, they told him what happened to the gala. The boys even did a video 😂😂

Biggie vomited and got up as usual but they fled out of the class. It was dismisal period, so everyone were out of the gate.

God, those days 😂😂

Kai some people are born with very wicked and sadistic threats, even worse than wild animals, its more common in males,tufiakwa

Had a similar experience when I was in Nigeria. The boss that time just came to relieve my main boss and for no reason didn't like me. He then gave me 74.9 in full year appraisal knowing fully well I would need 75 to get a promotion and the company will never round up.

He begged him, cried and did everything but he left it that way.

When the guy dies a few months after, I was happy and murmured 'good for him'

Took my mum's intervention to explain life to me and then pray for forgiveness for me to move past this.

Life!

You have not forgiven him, after hearing that he is dead.... nawaoo!

Unforgiveness is a very big problem for you and it runs in your bloodline.

That's how some of you are still struggling not to forgive the Igbos for coming to your region to set up good businesses and build houses.

Try to forgive people for your own good.


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