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Hehehehehe......I was surprised you didn't manage to squeeze in 'yoruba' into your comment.

Hope all is well sha, abi it was an oversight??

franchasng:
She must be a blood relative of Bola Tinubu and Buhari, very unforgiven and vindictive men

How did the bully die?

I just want to find out something about it.

Unforgiveness would always end up ruining ur peace of mind

One of the sins that keep u from God is unforgiveness

The scripture says:Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.

Unforgiveness hinders prayer.

Sister, leave the dead to face his judgment before the great judge.

Move on

I won't forgive either, you can't be acting stupid or acted stupid and expect me to forgive you.

I won't forgive either, you can't be acting stupid and expect me to forgive you. Sorry don't always right every wrongs.

I forgive people alot but i dont forget cos if i dont forgive, i might have killed my sister for hurting me severely 4 years ago. i decided to forgive so that i wont commit murder. she was so so foolish at her age to have behaved that way.

Move on lady! The bully has since moved on to the next level.

Chilipepper:
I’ll hold this grudge till we face God:Lady recalls horrifying experience with secondary school bully who tampered with her drink

A Nigerian X user has shared a disturbing memory from her secondary school days, recalling a time a bully pulled an unforgivable stunt on her.

She narrated that the boy drank her Lacasera, urinated into the empty bottle, and returned it to her lunch pack. She almost drank it but got suspicious because the cap opened too easily.

“He died two years ago and classmates were shocked I had no condolences,” she wrote.

Has anyone noticed that most bullies in our secondary school days are currently unsuccessful or in a bad shape.
One bully 3 classes above me was in oblivion last time I heard about him. My class bully is a druggie, another is a broke cultist. One a class below me who was their chief bully keeps popping in my DM wishing me blessings and waiting for me to respond so he can start begging .

The thing pain kraaaaa,
If your mind say, you shouldn’t forgive him no problems, but, are you sure both of you will see God?abi na Barnabas go handle una case.

Your condolence wont change anything, where ever he is destined to go after death is where he will go. Have said this it is better you forgive him and move on because you now carry heavy burden than him. what he did is so so bad but sometimes in life journey we do stupid things thinking it is fun but the reverse is the case.

for the purpose of humanity and your inner peace, go into your room alone and tell God and yourself that you have forgiven him.

who knows, this simple action of yours may open a flood gate of un common favour for you.

Brake the shakcles of the past and move on.

ire ooo

IkeIgboNiile:
Keeping malice with the dead guy for something he did in his teens is just plain stupidity. The dead dude bullied you in sec school when most of us did things we wouldn't dare do today.

Learn to forgive and free yourself from unnecessary weight that would only stop you from growing. I too was bullied in sec school and at that time i thought i would never forgive the person but life had a different plan plus time heals all wounds.

Well, everyone isn't the same. If she hasn't bullied anyone or bullied anyone to the extent the boy did, she's within the right to hold grudges.

I applaud her stance. Hold the grudge till you both meet at the other side. Don't forgive. Don't forget.

You are only hurting your self the more if you don't forgive. It is always much better to forgive. I learnt that a long time ago.

franchasng:
She must be a blood relative of Bola Tinubu and Buhari, very unforgiven and vindictive men

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Except that there may not be god to face, you better forget about him

Omoawoke:
Well served…

She did well, I am super proud of her!

Forgive and forget is rubbish!!!

He was old enough and knew what he was doing, no mercy for bullies….
Bye bully!

No condolence message, yes. But holding grudge against the dead, serves no purpose

Unforgiving vulture.. this one now , a man will marry her and put her in the house. I pour spit on you, we knw we as people once in a while do horrible things as teenagers even adults also do , but what matters is change, as we grow older we also outgrows so many things, I was also bullied by my teachers the male one's just because i was dating one of finest girl in the school, they also has interest on same girl and the girl happens to be my senior, 2 years older and 1 class ahead of me , anything they came to the class to lecture they single me out for their mockery knowing too well the girl class is next to mine and she hearing all the mockery, there's a time I think suicide is the only option, even the scarce on my hands I inflicted it on my self because of their bullies, always cutting myself with razor blades... Faster forward to present days when boy don arrive, I search for all of the bullies online and open a WhatsApp group and connect all my class mates and ex teachers I always do give away but maintain low profile, even that my girl is in the group, but unfortunately we didn't marry because she married earlier after school,me i pursue my dream with seriousness... I suggested get together of old school mates, I finances everything from event area to all the food and gifts.... On that very day I make sure everyone have arrived, even the teachers who were still alive but now old, I arrived late .. I pull up with my Grk and my mopol escorts one of my friend in service help me source... Omo come see steez, come see the kind attention I pull up with , when it is my turn to speak . I open up the old stories, how they bullied me into thinking of suicide how I fought with rejection how I swear to be a bully myself but on positive scale, I presented envelope of 100k each for all my mates and teachers present, that my ex , I gave her half a mili because then she was a shining armour in my life she was in my life for over 15 years even as school, just that things didnt end up as expected... Come and see crying, everyone was shedding tears even the one that bullied me most... This is the biggest payback of my lifetime.. I planned for that day after so many years , I want to look them in the eyes and tell them I don make am.. so the biggest payback you can give to anyone is success story

DonBenny77:
Abeg no forgive that kind thing, you no be Jesus Christ 😂

Jesus self go reason am before he forgive that kind person. Wait till you die too so that una go fit drag am for heaven gate before you go hell.

LMAO 😂!!!! No wonder!! Better go get therapy so you can live normally.

meobizy:
Normal. I have a classmate from secondary school who I’ll piss on his grave if I ever come across it. He slapped me so hard I bled from one ear. I’m partially deaf in it today.

I think it is important to not speak ill of people who passes to the end beyond. This is just natural and morally right.

Psychologically her grudges with the dead bully has altered part of her brain no normal human take grudges to the grave when the person they are keeping grudges with is already dead

She won't see God to start with!

If the only sacrifice you can make in this life is to let things go, you've conquered this world and will most likely feature in the next.

persin wey no forgive no fit receive forgiveness.

Omoawoke:
Well served…

She did well, I am super proud of her!

Forgive and forget is rubbish!!!

He was old enough and knew what he was doing, no mercy for bullies….
Bye bully!

It's another level of insanity to support her and to be nursing grudges with a dead person.
Haven't she offended anybody at any point of her life. Moreover if you don't forgive God will never forgive you too.
Lastly I am sure you aren't a Christian because in Christianity we forgive.

That's what people never understand when they play God. They speak recklessly without a care in the world.

I support. There are certain lines you do not cross with me. If you cross them, it is till death do us part. Nothing like forgiving to set myself free. I am free and I hope you are too.

Some of you are so badly trained and behaved, you hide under cruise to be plain evil. Keep the energy till death. And if you are pro_forgiveness, start from forgiving your cheating wives.🤝

ogascomax:
It's another level of insanity to support her and to be nursing grudges with a dead person.
Haven't she offended anybody at any point of her life. Moreover if you don't forgive God will never forgive you too.
Lastly I am sure you aren't a Christian because in Christianity we forgive.

We should all forgive Shekau for abducting chibok girls and killing many Christians, and don’t forget he’s dead too. We can’t speak ill of the dead…

We should forgive the notorious terrorist Bello Turji…. He’s still alive, let’s forgive him for terrorizing the country..


Shekau is dead but we should never speak ill of him

What do you think?

pocohantas:
I support. There are certain lines you do not cross with me. If you cross them, it is till death do us part. Nothing like forgiving to set myself free. I am free and I hope you are too.

Some of you are so badly trained and behaved you hide under cruise to be plain evil. Keep the energy till death. And if you are pro_forgiveness, start from forgiving your cheating wives.🤝

Make we all start by forgiving boko haram terrorists first..

Bello Turji is out there… he needs forgiveness

kingthreat:
Has anyone noticed that most bullies in our secondary school days are currently unsuccessful or in a bad shape.
One bully 3 classes above me was in oblivion last time I heard about him. My class bully is a druggie, another is a broke cultist. One a class below me who was their chief bully keeps popping in my DM wishing me blessings and waiting for me to respond so he can start begging .

Most of them failed in life . Out the many I knew, only one managed a bit but it was all from yahoo and only God knows what

Chilipepper:
I’ll hold this grudge till we face God:Lady recalls horrifying experience with secondary school bully who tampered with her drink

A Nigerian X user has shared a disturbing memory from her secondary school days, recalling a time a bully pulled an unforgivable stunt on her.

She narrated that the boy drank her Lacasera, urinated into the empty bottle, and returned it to her lunch pack. She almost drank it but got suspicious because the cap opened too easily.

“He died two years ago and classmates were shocked I had no condolences,” she wrote.

A dead person has no feeling
Your unforgiving hurts you not him cos he's no more. No one can hurt him at his present state

Make she watch the nollywood movie still falling ..Similar story.