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She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by DenreleDave(op): 5:06pm On Jul 16, 2025
Nairalanders did I do wrong? This is a long post

How it happened.....

A customer contacted me on Friday for some sneakers and we concluded on the price after he chosed his preferred ones. Due to election on Saturday, i could not send it so we postpone it to Sunday. The dispatch rider that was supposed to bring it told me he will deliver it in the evening as he had other orders. Evening came, dispatch number wasn't going and customer called me that he is in the location I wrote for the dispatch to bring for him. Since the place was closer to me, I had to enter bus and go stand with him there while we await the dispatch rider.

Before I left, I explained to my lady friend that a customer is waiting for his order and the dispatch number is not going and I am going to meet the customer and wait with him. She said I should not go and that I don't know how to do business... She said since it has been given to dispatch, then I shud just stay and let the customer wait. Then I disagreed and told her that No, customer that wants to pay money is waiting and I, the seller cannot wait while customer is standing.. So I left to go stand with the customer while we wait for the dispatch.

Dispatch didn't call until after 9pm, then I was so furious because he promised evening. Then he said he will arrive to the agreed location by 10pm or 11pm... I was so mad but I had to apologize to the customer, he said no problem and we agreed to meet the next day.

So around 11pm, dispatch called and I went to collect it. The next day, the customer called that he is in the location and I went to meet him....He was glad that he got what he ordered exactly, it fitted him so well.. I was so happy too that he liked the two sneakers he bought. He paid and we left back to our places. On getting home, I explained how the business went and that I shared the dispatch fee with the buyer so as to appreciate him for patronizing me and for the time & stress.
Immediately she started saying "I don't know how to do business. Saying why would I bear dispatch fee with the seller. She said the seller is supposed to be responsible for the dispatch".

Then I told her that No, this customer saw a lot of people selling this thing but he contacted me... Since Friday, he never stopped chatting me, even when his packaged got delayed due to the dispatch rider, he never gave up on me. She kept saying that's not how to do business then I shut her up and told her that this is how I will do my business and she shud not interfere

Since then, she has been giving me attitude...

Nairalanders, what have I done wrong? Is it wrong to have empathy for my customer?

Beside, the customer came on nairaland to commend my service to him and he really appreciated my effort despite being the one buying óòo..

I am so proud of my service but this lady matter just make me feel sumaw but I don't plan to apologize as I did nothing wrong
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by DenreleDave(op): 5:09pm On Jul 16, 2025
The recommendation that I got from the buyer

I am the one you have spoken about … it was nice dealing with you too! Customer satisfaction top notch ! Please patronize this gentleman !
God bless your hustle sir !
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by DenreleDave(op): 5:10pm On Jul 16, 2025
I am so glad that I did well for the customer.... One thing about is that I have always had to employ empathy when dealing with customers.... I make sure I offer excellent customers service.....

I send to them what they ordered exactly because I believe that when you treat a customer well, you will get more recommendations.

More from the customer 👇👇👇👇

True to his words Oga Yemi, Mr Denrele made sure that I got what I ordered for despite the rider not delivering on time from the Islands.
I am satisfied with what I got though I had to contend with my transport fare… way to go bro!
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by Bluntguy: 5:16pm On Jul 16, 2025
DenreleDave:
The recommendation that I got from the buyer
Business before pleasure as they say. Put your huzzle before that girl because if your business suffers, that is when you will know that her loyalty has always been to your pocket.
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by DenreleDave(op): 5:23pm On Jul 16, 2025
Another nairalander in Canada... A Nigerian

He got a sneaker 👟 and also sent me money to help him get African foods stuff for him... He commended my excellent customer service

Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by DenreleDave(op): 5:28pm On Jul 16, 2025
Bluntguy:
Business before pleasure as they say. Put your huzzle before that girl because if your business suffers, that is when you will know that her loyalty has always been to your pocket.
Thank you bros... This is the reason I have refused to apologize.. I did nothing wrong by treating my customer like a king


Seun please I have been trying to upload but I the spam bot is banning me.... I want to upload my goods on the special threat I created but I keep getting banned

Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jul 16, 2025
DenreleDave:
Nairalanders did I do wrong? This is a long post

How it happened.....

A customer contacted me on Friday for some sneakers and we concluded on the price after he chosed his preferred ones. Due to election on Saturday, i could not send it so we postpone it to Sunday. The dispatch rider that was supposed to bring it told me he will deliver it in the evening as he had other orders. Evening came, dispatch number wasn't going and customer called me that he is in the location I wrote for the dispatch to bring for him. Since the place was closer to me, I had to enter bus and go stand with him there while we await the dispatch rider.

Before I left, I explained to my lady friend that a customer is waiting for his order and the dispatch number is not going and I am going to meet the customer and wait with him. She said I should not go and that I don't know how to do business... She said since it has been given to dispatch, then I shud just stay and let the customer wait. Then I disagreed and told her that No, customer that wants to pay money is waiting and I, the seller cannot wait while customer is standing.. So I left to go stand with the customer while we wait for the dispatch.

Dispatch didn't call until after 9pm, then I was so furious because he promised evening. Then he said he will arrive to the agreed location by 10pm or 11pm... I was so mad but I had to apologize to the customer, he said no problem and we agreed to meet the next day.

So around 11pm, dispatch called and I went to collect it. The next day, the customer called that he is in the location and I went to meet him....He was glad that he got what he ordered exactly, it fitted him so well.. I was so happy too that he liked the two sneakers he bought. He paid and we left back to our places. On getting home, I explained how the business went and that I shared the dispatch fee with the buyer so as to appreciate him for patronizing me and for the time & stress.
Immediately she started saying "I don't know how to do business. Saying why would I bear dispatch fee with the seller. She said the seller is supposed to be responsible for the dispatch".

Then I told her that No, this customer saw a lot of people selling this thing but he contacted me... Since Friday, he never stopped chatting me, even when his packaged got delayed due to the dispatch rider, he never gave up on me. She kept saying that's not how to do business then I shut her up and told her that this is how I will do my business and she shud not interfere

Since then, she has been giving me attitude...

Nairalanders, what have I done wrong? Is it wrong to have empathy for my customer?

Beside, the customer came on nairaland to commend my service to him and he really appreciated my effort despite being the one buying óòo..

I am so proud of my service but this lady matter just make me feel sumaw but I don't plan to apologize as I did nothing wrong
is the lady on nairaland
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by Nemesis0147(m): 6:06pm On Jul 16, 2025
Nice advert
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by Silentgroper(m): 6:33pm On Jul 16, 2025
Nemesis0147:
Nice advert
Bro trying to kill two birds with one stone ...


By the way, I hope the girl is petyprincess

Oga op..
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by DenreleDave(op): 7:42pm On Jul 16, 2025
Nemesis0147:
Nice advert
I mean it.. Customer is a nairalander..... Both customers
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by Allsmilez999: 9:11pm On Jul 16, 2025
Honey look, i even posted it on nairaland.
If you know, you know.
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by Talkisneeded(m): 2:08am On Jul 17, 2025
Nice advertising skills,anything to the bot…

By the way the bot mata don tire me seff,seems like a caged Nairaland now,can’t even throw friendly banter or give harsh criticism to those that deserves it…
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by Samueltemi337(m): 9:01am On Jul 17, 2025
Seems the thread is to promote your business and nothing else
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by Therock5555(m): 10:30am On Jul 17, 2025
Abeg na the woman aka lady friend give you money to start the business?


If No, you don't have to explain your god-damned Business to nobody....


Na only you know why the lady friend dey drag you.. na only you know..
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by AngelicBeing: 2:38pm On Jul 17, 2025
Nemesis0147:
Nice advert
Know your way no be curse oooo, tongue
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by DenreleDave(op): 7:00am On Jul 18, 2025
Talkisneeded:
Nice advertising skills,anything to the bot…

By the way the bot mata don tire me seff,seems like a caged Nairaland now,can’t even throw friendly banter or give harsh criticism to those that deserves it…
As in. Bot matter don tire me for nairaland...

I don tire
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by DenreleDave(op): 1:13pm On Jul 18, 2025
Ẹgbon mi.. Mynd44... Help me push to FP


Ejoor 🙏🏾
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by Gandollar(f): 9:20pm On Jul 18, 2025
We are still not buying Denreledave.
Re: She Is Not Talking To Me Because I Did This For A Customer by DenreleDave(op): 3:46am On Jul 19, 2025
Gandollar:
We are still not buying Denreledave.
Lo bros 😂😂😂

Abeg buy oooooo.. Abeg ooo
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