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It is very disheartening and questioning when someone still steal what he/she gets at home anyway anytime, isnt it?

This is applicable to cheating in marriage and most people belive the only reason behind that is lack of sexual Intercourse.

This is far from that because I have stories of people that have sex to the satisfaction level yet cheat base on diverse reasons.

Some even do it as a result of getting back to their spouses for cheating on them.

I wrote a book on why married couples still cheat after I had collected a lots of data and let me share one with you.

A woman whose husband was very active sexually still cheat with her neighbour just for urgent fund she needed for a day.

According to her, her husband gives her everything; money, sexual satisfaction and affection but her covetiousness led her to that.

So, why couples to cheat is more than what you think and I have a lots

People sometimes go into marriage with very high expectations. Others for the wrong reasons. And often, after the excitement of wedding planning and preparation dies down, they are unable to grapple with the condition of their choices. The same people you envy most Saturdays, are usually in divorce courts on mondays.

lowkeybahdguy:
People sometimes go into marriage with very high expectations. Others for the wrong reasons. And often, after the excitement of wedding planning and preparation dies down, they are unable to grapple with the condition of their choices. The same people you envy most Saturdays, are usually in divorce courts on mondays.

You're correct baba

Some will say stolen water 😞

kudus123:
It is very disheartening and questioning when someone still steal what he/she gets at home anyway anytime, isnt it?

This is applicable to cheating in marriage and most people belive the only reason behind that is lack of sexual Intercourse.

This is far from that because I have stories of people that have sex to the satisfaction level yet cheat base on diverse reasons.

Some even do it as a result of getting back to their spouses for cheating on them.

I wrote a book on why married couples still cheat after I had collected a lots of data and let me share one with you.

A woman whose husband was very active sexually still cheat with her neighbour just for urgent fund she needed for a day.

According to her, her husband gives her everything; money, sexual satisfaction and affection but her covetiousness led her to that.

So, why couples to cheat is more than what you think and I have a lots

No be all wives sabi ride and give doggy..no be all wivesdey always dey active when called upon som of dem I am tired or I don't av strength don become their anthem na those kind women be weapon fashioned against their husband..

The dynamics of marriage is not black and white as most would like to believe.There so nuances and light shades of Grey in-between but let me tell you this, when a spouse is not satisfied in a marriage, they tend to look outside. You as a woman may think you are giving the man everything which may not be the case from the pov of the man.

I know you are going to ask, why not work at it to improve the marriage? Some of us did without seeing any results and having a sidechick less dramatic than a full blown divorce. There are things that means very little to you but mean the world to your spouse.

Which one is stoling water again?

Myrepublic:
Some will say stolen water 😞

Bad parenting.

Women are wired and held captive by emotions. If the conditions are right in that moment, it's a wrap...

If you think being married is having access to adequate sex at all times, then you are wrong. I had extremely more sex when I was single than now that I am married. Yes, lack of sex is actually one of the major reasons married people cheat.

If you have a partner that stresses you physically and mentally, you might end up searching for peace elsewhere.

Baronthecelebri:
Bad parenting.

Nope, my parent were solid in my upbringing but I still cheated. Those were my actions and it will be unfair to b’ame on my parents. Most of my siblings are top pastors in the church.

Some cheat to ease home pressure that comes with billings.

Some Men feel comfortable sleeping with someone that's not in the circle of their worries.

These men understands that the woman outside has same depth beneath their skirt as the one at home.

Men needs peace and respect, vice versa.

Married Nigerian women give you sex whenever they feel like their emotions and pockets are in check.

Most naija men are very sexually active, more when they are married.

Naija women feel you only deserve sex when you meet their needs. Your needs are often ignored and I've come to realise the reason why majority of the married naija men cheat is because they aren't getting their emotional and physical needs met at home so they assume they can find it outside.

Sadly, a lady slides in and takes advantage of the situation for her security.