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Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Worryingly(op): 2:51pm On Jul 20, 2025
I'm genuinely curious.

I mean, even in literary circles, night time is seen as time for sex.
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by eepeepook: 3:29pm On Jul 20, 2025
Get your own girlfriend and find out.

Worryingly:
I'm genuinely curious.

I mean, even in literary circles, night time is seen as time for sex.
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Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by xtianchris(m): 3:34pm On Jul 20, 2025
Due to Parental scheduling.. For the most part It's quite convenient to be curled up in bed with someone all night 💋
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Love800(m): 4:54pm On Jul 20, 2025
At another angle, due to body insecurities like black buttocks, deteriorated breast, too hairy, big stomach, folded skins, etc.....
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by oyatz(m): 4:59pm On Jul 20, 2025
Because, most people need to go out during the day , to earn their living
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by ednut1(m): 5:07pm On Jul 20, 2025
Worryingly:
I'm genuinely curious.

I mean, even in literary circles, night time is seen as time for sex.
when you wake up with children to take care of and work to prepare for. Will you be thinking of sex? Imagine having 3 rounds of sex in the morning , go to enter traffic and resume work. Wont u be yawning/tired? Abeg abeg abeg
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Tripitaka: 5:12pm On Jul 20, 2025
Because sex in and of itself isnt a very glorifying view, forget what you see in porn pictures and videos. At best, sex is animalistic and simply doesnt make the best sight. All the nice thoughts are typically before the game and immediately postcoital clarity sets in, you realise a tint of shame at what you've just done and wouldn't even want to remember it.

Secondly as someone ready pointed out, not everyone is well chiselled and formed like you also see in adult pages, a vast majority of people have terrible looking and patchy bums, wobbly and flaccid boobs, hairy holes, acne ridden faces, mouth odour etc. So to not spoil the fun, they rather reduce the chances of these sights spoiling the fun by reducing the exposure via dimming the lights or wait for natural darkness. Darkness also allows them to hide the possible disgust they may have on their faces while you groan through the odious breath.

Then there is the reason of fatigue and having to clear the daily schedule.
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by tanigororo: 6:06pm On Jul 20, 2025
Kiddos Questions, sex is overhyped honestly
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by lordm(m): 6:45pm On Jul 20, 2025
When your turn reach, do it whenever you like
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Adewale1603(m): 6:59pm On Jul 20, 2025
You will go and ask our forefathers way back in history or google search
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by silibaba: 7:14pm On Jul 20, 2025
Worryingly:
I'm genuinely curious.

I mean, even in literary circles, night time is seen as time for sex.
Is irritating. So better to do it In The dark.
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by PerfectStranger(m): 7:26pm On Jul 20, 2025
Love800:
At another angle, due to body insecurities like black buttocks, deteriorated breast, too hairy, big stomach, folded skins, etc.....
You not far from the truth my brother grin
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by LIVINGICONREBOR: 7:29pm On Jul 20, 2025
Those of us with muscularly ripped body have nothing to fear and nothing to hide, instead nah "dem" dey fear us.🥱
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Love800(m): 8:14pm On Jul 20, 2025
Lol.

I appreciate.
PerfectStranger:
You not far from the truth my brother grin
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Ballzproblemm: 9:17pm On Jul 20, 2025
Tripitaka:
Because sex in and of itself isnt a very glorifying view, forget what you see in porn pictures and videos. At best, sex is animalistic and simply doesnt make the best sight. All the nice thoughts are typically before the game and immediately postcoital clarity sets in, you realise a tint of shame at what you've just done and wouldn't even want to remember it.

Secondly as someone ready pointed out, not everyone is well chiselled and formed like you also see in adult pages, a vast majority of people have terrible looking and patchy bums, wobbly and flaccid boobs, hairy holes, acne ridden faces, mouth odour etc. So to not spoil the fun, they rather reduce the chances of these sights spoiling the fun by reducing the exposure via dimming the lights or wait for natural darkness. Darkness also allows them to hide the possible disgust they may have on their faces while you groan through the odious breath.

Then there is the reason of fatigue and having to clear the daily schedule.
. GO to other African countries and see chiseled babes despite childbirth,the thing here is most Nigeria women including men are super lazy that's why extra marital affairs is rampant,when they marry they stop looking good for each other hence losing sexual attraction,make men for this country avoid beer them say no , make women they watch wetin them they chop and exercise mba nu.

Everybody get this I don't care mentality when it comes to their body, apart from sex exercise is also good for the health,but we don't want to take that route ,na to take concoction wey go damage health na that one we sabi.
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by P1PrinceKT(m): 10:54pm On Jul 20, 2025
Seeex is not necessary, it's just medicine to an illness(need for reproduction) apart from that there's nothing good about it, considering with what it's done. That's why you need to hide before doing it, just like why you hide when you enter toilet.

A lot will agree with me, especially if you can take up to 20-30 mins. Sometimes you ask yourself What is this I am doing?... Why? What is the reason
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by TheBillyonaire: 11:24pm On Jul 20, 2025
Sex is a basic requirement to induce sleep and reproduce, it is made pleasurable so you can actually have sex in the day time when you are back from work, but most people are not doing it because they have not got rime to fool around. If you have time to sleep with someone during day time, then I envy your stationary living,
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by 2RightHands1Coc(m): 12:42am On Jul 21, 2025
This Table,U wan shattered am
Love800:
At another angle, due to body insecurities like black buttocks, deteriorated breast, too hairy, big stomach, folded skins, etc.....
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by pointblank247(m): 8:55am On Jul 21, 2025
Most important reason is that most people are busy during the day. You are at your work place, office, searching for job and even the "jobless" house wives are busy with house chores.
Second reason is that that in most marriages, sex has become just a routine to fulfill all righteousness.
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by tgmservice: 12:05pm On Jul 21, 2025
Nairaland men and sex very shameful

See as dem full romance section and they claim hard men that romance is a thing for women
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by tgmservice: 12:06pm On Jul 21, 2025
tgmservice:
Nairaland men and sex discussions very shameful

See as dem full romance section and they claim hard men that romance is a thing for women
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by columbus007(m): 12:43pm On Jul 21, 2025
Sex at night is good, so good bro, nothing compared to it, at all you sleep off damn!
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Double0h7(f): 1:25pm On Jul 21, 2025
Tripitaka:
Because sex in and of itself isnt a very glorifying view, forget what you see in porn pictures and videos. At best, sex is animalistic and simply doesnt make the best sight. All the nice thoughts are typically before the game and immediately postcoital clarity sets in, you realise a tint of shame at what you've just done and wouldn't even want to remember it.

Secondly as someone ready pointed out, not everyone is well chiselled and formed like you also see in adult pages, a vast majority of people have terrible looking and patchy bums, wobbly and flaccid boobs, hairy holes, acne ridden faces, mouth odour etc. So to not spoil the fun, they rather reduce the chances of these sights spoiling the fun by reducing the exposure via dimming the lights or wait for natural darkness. Darkness also allows them to hide the possible disgust they may have on their faces while you groan through the odious breath.

Then there is the reason of fatigue and having to clear the daily schedule.
This can only happen when you’re smashing everything smashable! Why would you be intimate with someone you find so unattractive that you have to blind yourself to sex them? 🤮
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Samantha125(f): 2:13pm On Jul 21, 2025
Nothing is as good as midday and afternoon sex...😋😋😋
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Love800(m): 6:09pm On Jul 21, 2025
Lol!

Okay, dem never pieces the table before! Lol. Thank God i don already scattered am. Lol.

I appreciate your response.
2RightHands1Coc:
This Table,U wan shattered am
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by DrFunmisticGlow: 9:38pm On Jul 23, 2025
Love800:
At another angle, due to body insecurities like black buttocks, deteriorated breast, too hairy, big stomach, folded skins, etc.....
Don't forget, small preek, mouth odor, armpit like sambisa forest, one pack abs, Johnny bravo legs, gorilla chest, skid marks on boxers, one minute stamina, and craw craw. etc....
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by DrFunmisticGlow: 9:43pm On Jul 23, 2025
Ballzproblemm:
. GO to other African countries and see chiseled babes despite childbirth,the thing here is most Nigeria women including men are super lazy that's why extra marital affairs is rampant,when they marry they stop looking good for each other hence losing sexual attraction,make men for this country avoid beer them say no , make women they watch wetin them they chop and exercise mba nu.

Everybody get this I don't care mentality when it comes to their body, apart from sex exercise is also good for the health,but we don't want to take that route ,na to take concoction wey go damage health na that one we sabi.
What kind of ignorant lie is this na. Just open mouth waaaaaaaa and type rubbish to impress fellow man.

Romanceland is low key full of downlow guys especially them redpillers.

The female body never completely recovers from childbirth.

Go and educate yourself.
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by PantShifter(m): 11:56pm On Jul 23, 2025
DrFunmisticGlow:
What kind of ignorant lie is this na. Just open mouth waaaaaaaa and type rubbish to impress fellow man.

Romanceland is low key full of downlow guys especially them redpillers.

The female body never completely recovers from childbirth.

Go and educate yourself.
In other words you're confirming that childbirth expands the puzzy permanently
Re: Why Do Most Couples Prefer To Have Sex At Night Or Under Dim Lights? by Karlifate: 11:53am On Jul 24, 2025
TheBillyonaire:
Sex is a basic requirement to induce sleep and reproduce, it is made pleasurable so you can actually have sex in the day time when you are back from work, but most people are not doing it because they have not got rime to fool around. If you have time to sleep with someone during day time, then I envy your stationary living,
@bolded:
LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣
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