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Why is marriage important..



Only procreation should be deemed important...

I’ve not come across any kpekus sweeter than Joy soap. I’m single till I’m ready to reproduce.

mmadu4:
any man seeing this pls and pls dont ever settled for old cargo go for a younger sweet fresh girl dont use your money to marry old woman . your marriage age range should be between 18 and 24 GOOD LUCK everyone

I am doing well for myself I have met a lot of women different age range and I can categorically tell you that the worst age range to marry is what u listed up there..
Oga women in their prime are so hard to tame .
No matter how well you are doing financially , majority will always believe there are better options out there for them .. just a handful of them are wired differently to suite your criteria ..

I'm gonna advise some people to learn the act of thinking when a question is asked.
Have reflective thinking and Never rush to start replying.
Learn the catch. There are usually keywords

For me
Your intentions are not enough. Her readiness to accept your plans and vision says it all. It's total waste of time when there's no long time profit and benefit for the future

I no de date now just sex partner it's sad can't love cus of heartbreak.

Bullman:
I am doing well for myself I have met a lot of women different age range and I can categorically tell you that the worst age range to marry is what u listed up there..
Oga women in their prime are so hard to tame .
No matter how well you are doing financially , majority will always believe there are better options out there for them .. just a handful of them are wired differently to suite your criteria ..

"women in their prime are so hard to tame." word

mmadu4:
May god almighty bless you and keep you alive longer than you wished for ... you are head correct wella . i am in full support of this .

🙏🏻🙏🏻🥂🥂

It takes wisdom Nd clear eye to reason that far.

ksam:
Yes. I intend to marry her.

In my life I never thought it was important to pray when looking for a partner to marry until I was ready to marry then I discovered that we are in serious trouble in this generation.
This generation is so messed up. If you’ve witnessed the old days you will understand me better.
I prayed my current partner forth and she showed up. I have this peace within me because she gives me peace and that’s the most important of all as a man

My brother that is the situation I'm into, there are lot of women out there but few are qualified to be a wife, I'm not saying I'm perfect, with what I'm seeing out there, I feel sorry for guys like me looking for wives

mmadu4:
any man seeing this pls and pls dont ever settled for old cargo go for a younger sweet fresh girl dont use your money to marry old woman . your marriage age range should be between 18 and 24 GOOD LUCK everyone

It's very arguable. I don't think this assertion is entirely right sir.

No

PlasmaTV:
Don't be toxic na. I pray the guy has a fruitful and beautiful marriage

See you, it is not by prayer. Be realistic, it is real.
If na by prayer, pastors marriage for no dey scatter.

FOLYKAZE:
I am currently dating an old friend but I do not wish to marry her, not now or ever. Circumstances brought us together, it was traumatic for both us. My past relationship ended up toxic and outright separation was inevitable. Likewise, she lost her husband to the cold hand of death after brief sickness. As fate we have it, our been together is just a chapter, not the whole book. It will end as our relationship is open.

Did u lose your wife( God forbid) ? Abi wetin Dey make u date an old friend, the last time I checked you're a married man with kids

APOPTOSIS:
Your opening statement is sickening...
I'm sorry but it shows lack of rational thinking .
How do you know some people when you Guys don't get to know each other possibly through friendship or courtship🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️.
I couldn't continue reading the entire part of your write-up since the first part blew me up.
So, you must marry who you date, right?
What if you get to discover she has got all these (HIV positive, Hepatitis B positive, she stabbed her Ex last year, her Elder brother is at large for murder) during dating, would you still go ahead?

Sorry, i think we have issues with terminologies here.

Firstly, the op called it dating and not courtship,......

You court to marry....."information like health status are known at the start of courtship while personality differences are observed"......all these things are gathered quickly because the aim of the relationship is to marry. And mind you, courtship is usually between 6 months to 1 year, so no time wasting.

But people date without knowing what they are doing. Some date for sex, while some dates for money. Its dating that gets most people into diseases and unwanted pregnancies.

That is why the Op...... asks do you intend to marry the person?

Court don't date

Dpaulie:
Did u lose your wife( God forbid) ? Abi wetin Dey make u date an old friend, the last time I checked you're a married man with kids

The relationship went south. The differences were like mountain
All effort to make it work failed so we had to part.

Bullman:
I am doing well for myself I have met a lot of women different age range and I can categorically tell you that the worst age range to marry is what u listed up there..
Oga women in their prime are so hard to tame .
No matter how well you are doing financially , majority will always believe there are better options out there for them .. just a handful of them are wired differently to suite your criteria ..

all over the world men are opting for younger wives .

My current date is a God sent to me though we had minor circumstances seems to prevent us from getting married to each other but we have overcome it based on what faith brought to us. I am father of four, she is mother of two but circumstances made us single once more. Meeting her was truly miraculous because my life has been peaceful and full of blissful and memorable moment. I can't ask God for more, she is a beautiful soul, caring, loving and most of it all very respectful. I never knew man can be honoured and worshipped until I met her. Our idea of marriage now is not making children but companionship and protection. My almost prayer is that we will continue to be to each other what we are currently for each other now without the eyes of the enemies. I will soon share our I.V and Nairalanders are all invited.

FOLYKAZE:
The relationship went south. The differences were like mountain
All effort to make it work failed so we had to part.

Ooops!!! So sorry about that, wishing u the very best of luck sir

Am single till i have a good bank, i will start dating a girl i will marry.

I only have work-mates that i converse with.

All those useless date and romance when you are not ready to tie-the-knot, will only waste your resources, delay your progress and make you poorer!

Fekumzi123:
Dey there dey whyne yourself...
After marriage body go tell u

she never show am Shege that’s why. Make he marry him first.

ksam:
Yes. I intend to marry her.

In my life I never thought it was important to pray when looking for a partner to marry until I was ready to marry then I discovered that we are in serious trouble in this generation.
This generation is so messed up. If you’ve witnessed the old days you will understand me better.
I prayed my current partner forth and she showed up. I have this peace within me because she gives me peace and that’s the most important of all as a man

Wait until you see the other side of that woman you're currently with thinking she's better than your ex. You think you know woman bah? You gonna learn in a hard way🤣🤣😉

Fekumzi123:
Dey there dey whyne yourself...
After marriage body go tell u

You dey mind am, if woman open toto for them, dem no dey think again with their brain🤣🤣🤣

ksam:
Yes. I intend to marry her.

In my life I never thought it was important to pray when looking for a partner to marry until I was ready to marry then I discovered that we are in serious trouble in this generation.
This generation is so messed up. If you’ve witnessed the old days you will understand me better.
I prayed my current partner forth and she showed up. I have this peace within me because she gives me peace and that’s the most important of all as a man

I tap into this blessings of yours..
Mine is always disappointment
I will do everything and they will end up saying they are not interested..
Maybe am just no lucky or God is doing something for me in secret...

Fekumzi123:
Dey there dey whyne yourself...
After marriage body go tell u

Lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why u de mk us fear na

The salient topic and decision for our teeming teenagers/adults.

Any relationship that places little or no premium to marriage must be discontinued immediately.

While traveling on a journey without a definite destination? 😁

No, cos I am already married

Do You know what we call guguru?
That is what your life us heading to.

FOLYKAZE:
I am currently dating an old friend but I do not wish to marry her, not now or ever. Circumstances brought us together, it was traumatic for both us. My past relationship ended up toxic and outright separation was inevitable. Likewise, she lost her husband to the cold hand of death after brief sickness. As fate we have it, our been together is just a chapter, not the whole book. It will end as our relationship is open.

U de knack bead man wife abi

No, she that said cooking and washing clothes is not her thing, she comes to my place I cook we eat do my washing.. who cares..
Since she is giving me steady......

ksam:
Yes. I intend to marry her.

In my life I never thought it was important to pray when looking for a partner to marry until I was ready to marry then I discovered that we are in serious trouble in this generation.
This generation is so messed up. If you’ve witnessed the old days you will understand me better.
I prayed my current partner forth and she showed up. I have this peace within me because she gives me peace and that’s the most important of all as a man

A good write up. A man settles where he find peace.

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You want make I marry 2 wives?