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Abroad-based Nigerian man shares his experience dating a UK-based Nigerian lady.

The man identified as Daniel shared what transpired between him and the Nigerian lady he was dating.

He shared a video recording of the WhatsApp conversation he had with his girlfriend.


Apparently, the both of them had returned home from work and the guy had sent a VN asking after her day.

The lady had proceeded to lament over how stressful it had been for her and how hungry she was and asked the guy to order something for her.

However, the guy had flown into a rage, wondering why she would ask him for that when there relationship had barely gone anywhere.

“Relationship wey never enter 24 hours, you say make I rush order you something…” he said.

Na innit Naija girl. They speak like whites but act like their home grown counterparts.

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Abroad-based Nigerian man shares his experience dating a UK-based Nigerian lady.

The man identified as Daniel shared what transpired between him and the Nigerian lady he was dating.

He shared a video recording of the WhatsApp conversation he had with his girlfriend.


Apparently, the both of them had returned home from work and the guy had sent a VN asking after her day.

The lady had proceeded to lament over how stressful it had been for her and how hungry she was and asked the guy to order something for her.

However, the guy had flown into a rage, wondering why she would ask him for that when there relationship had barely gone anywhere.

“Relationship wey never enter 24 hours, you say make I rush order you something…” he said.

Most Naija girls are like FFK.
Always gluttonic, even in their dreams
She dey find Naija treatment for diaspora.
Same treatment Oyibo man no fit give her and that she knows because Oyibo man go ask her to send money first.

Why is he complaining instead of taking care of his woman ...isn't that what Nigerian men claim to be good at? . Be a good ambassador of Nigeria and take care of your woman....what a lazy man .

After the fall of man God cursed both gender, to the woman “pains during childbirth and submitting to her husband”, for the man it was “sweat before he feeds himself n family”. I wonder why my gender de look for who go carry the curse on their behalf. 😂😂

Once the girl finish with you that time your lips way red go turn black.

Lionessza6:
Why is he complaining instead of taking care of his woman ...isn't that what Nigerian men claim to be good at? . Be a good ambassador of Nigeria and take care of your woman....what a lazy man .

Use your critical thinking skills sometimes

FitCorper:
After the fall of man God cursed both gender, to the woman “pains during childbirth and submitting to her husband”, for the man it was “sweat before he feeds himself n family”. I wonder why my gender de look for who go carry the curse on their behalf. 😂😂

Which curse? Where urna dey even bring this nonsense interpretation from? When u born female children no educate them, no give them street as them turn 18 give them out in marriage because somebody supposed carry her burden.

Sometimes i even dey ask Why them they educate women if all they do is begging for a living?

I doubt I will ever be able to date a Nigerian girl here. The stories I have heard about them bringing the Nigerian mentality of "a man must take care of me" abroad is alarming.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Use your critical thinking skills sometimes

The woman wants the Nigerian man to take care of her, so why is he bytching

ExudeLoveToAll:
Use your critical thinking skills sometimes

Does she have critical thinking skills?

What if she's genuinely hungry? How much be the food sef? If you truly love someone, you should only seek out the absence of pain and stress in their live. That we're discussing this shows how decadent humanity don become. I also understand drawing a redline against abuse of such good heart. Even in war, using hunger as a weapon is war crime against humanity how much in love?

Bankowner:
I doubt I will ever be able to date a Nigerian girl here. The stories I have heard about them bringing the Nigerian mentality of "a man must take care of me" abroad is alarming.

if a Nigerian woman truly loves you ehh? There are no limits to depths and heights she will go for you. Very dangerous double edged sword. When you get lucky, wield carefully.

Lionessza6:
Why is he complaining instead of taking care of his woman ...isn't that what Nigerian men claim to be good at? . Be a good ambassador of Nigeria and take care of your woman....what a lazy man .

Within 24 hours of meeting a guy, she's already hungry.

She dey work for gym?

NwaliE01:
Within 24 hours of meeting a guy, she's already hungry.

She dey work for gym?

Nigerian men are the only men known for working hard for women. You are obviously a lazy man for asking this

Lionessza6:
Nigerian men are the only men known for working hard for women. You are obviously a lazy man for asking this

May God give your son a woman who thinks like you

ExudeLoveToAll:
Which curse? Where urna dey even bring this nonsense interpretation from? When u born female children no educate them, no give them street as them turn 18 give them out in marriage because somebody supposed carry her burden.

Sometimes i even dey ask Why them they educate women if all they do is begging for a living?

Exactly my point @bolded... why should a woman be trained in education when she will still end up depending on men to feed and live... its more like a waste of resources... instead of fathers to be wasting money on schooling for daughters....they should use that money for other things and then marry them off to men that can take care of their needs ..... cos these women will forever depend on men for their needs , whether educated or not

Chubhie:
What if she's genuinely hungry? How much be the food sef? If you truly love someone, you should only seek out the absence of pain and stress in their live. That we're discussing this shows how decadent humanity don become. I also understand drawing a redline against abuse of such good heart. Even in war, using hunger as a weapon is war crime against humanity how much in love?

She is an adult and not a child... she should take care of her basics as a adult...that's what's expected of an adult

Is in her blood. Leopard cannot change it spots

FitCorper:
After the fall of man God cursed both gender, to the woman “pains during childbirth and submitting to her husband”, for the man it was “sweat before he feeds himself n family”. I wonder why my gender de look for who go carry the curse on their behalf. 😂😂

God never cursed Adam, rather He cursed the ground for the sake of Adam. Cursed child is as a result of failed parenthood and God in His infinite wisdom can't fail but still had to punish Adam, so He cursed the ground for Adam's sake.

I repeat, God no curse Adam, only eve and the serpent were cursed.

PerfectStranger:
May God give your son a woman who thinks like you

Until it involves their son....women are never fair........they will find all manner of justification for treating another woman's son poorly

Avoid the ladies that are always hungry.

Lionessza6:
Why is he complaining instead of taking care of his woman ...isn't that what Nigerian men claim to be good at? . Be a good ambassador of Nigeria and take care of your woman....what a lazy man .

Hmm 😒 😒 Lioness don bear her fangs! He's lazy because he refuses to be manipulated to "buy her food"

At least make dem even pass the 24 hour "billing cycle" 🙂😕🙄

columbus007:
Once the girl finish with you that time your lips way red go turn black.

😂 😂
Chei nairaland no go keep pesin with laugh oo


U just made me laugh so hard.

I had to go back to check the guy's Pic and his red lips

Entitled lady has nothing to do with ladies from certain nation, as some guys erroneously bilivd, not until you meet lady, who doesn't have entitlement mentality, before you can experience how relationship with women can be enjoyable.

But I don't get it, what is a man's duty in a relationship?🤔🤔🤔

These UK people don come again with their sob stories

Kweeeeeke oo
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Kweeeeeke oo
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Not to provide everything is one. Not to provide everything is one. .

He protects builds and motivates, the woman brings care, and takes care of the home.

They just met, and She want brings taxes. It shows she is not ready.

Samantha125:
But I don't get it, what is a man's duty in a relationship?🤔🤔🤔

Lionessza6:
Why is he complaining instead of taking care of his woman ...isn't that what Nigerian men claim to be good at? . Be a good ambassador of Nigeria and take care of your woman....what a lazy man .

Samantha125:
But I don't get it, what is a man's duty in a relationship?🤔🤔🤔

It is Love and Care


Point of correction they are not in a relationship, they just met.