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Samantha125:
But I don't get it, what is a man's duty in a relationship?🤔🤔🤔

Chubhie:
if a Nigerian woman truly loves you ehh? There are no limits to depths and heights she will go for you. Very dangerous double edged sword. When you get lucky, wield carefully.

bemeruca:
The guy is useless. He can spend 15 or 20 pounds and be fine.

SeriouslySense:
Not to provide everything is one. Not to provide everything is one. .

He protects builds and motivates, the woman brings care, and takes care of the home.

They just met, and She want brings taxes. It shows she is not ready.

bemeruca:
Your question shows how entitled you are.

Chubhie:
What if she's genuinely hungry? How much be the food sef? If you truly love someone, you should only seek out the absence of pain and stress in their live. That we're discussing this shows how decadent humanity don become. I also understand drawing a redline against abuse of such good heart. Even in war, using hunger as a weapon is war crime against humanity how much in love?

nnamdi640:
That is how she will start demanding, thank God the guy realised it on time.

Samantha125:
She's just testing his masculinity as a man and so far he's the one who doesn't seem ready to man up... He instead decided to run to social media and started ranting like a sissy.

And if you can't be the provider in a relationship, then you have two options, you either completely stay away from women, or you date your fellow men.

MrMcJay:
This is either satire or the opposite of wisdom.

SeriouslySense:
its the men that give the women evrything that spoil them. And its mostly Nigeria, but its changing.

DyshApp:
Abroad-based Nigerian man shares his experience dating a UK-based Nigerian lady.

The man identified as Daniel shared what transpired between him and the Nigerian lady he was dating.

He shared a video recording of the WhatsApp conversation he had with his girlfriend.


Apparently, the both of them had returned home from work and the guy had sent a VN asking after her day.

The lady had proceeded to lament over how stressful it had been for her and how hungry she was and asked the guy to order something for her.

However, the guy had flown into a rage, wondering why she would ask him for that when there relationship had barely gone anywhere.

“Relationship wey never enter 24 hours, you say make I rush order you something…” he said.

DyshApp:
Abroad-based Nigerian man shares his experience dating a UK-based Nigerian lady.

The man identified as Daniel shared what transpired between him and the Nigerian lady he was dating.

He shared a video recording of the WhatsApp conversation he had with his girlfriend.


Apparently, the both of them had returned home from work and the guy had sent a VN asking after her day.

The lady had proceeded to lament over how stressful it had been for her and how hungry she was and asked the guy to order something for her.

However, the guy had flown into a rage, wondering why she would ask him for that when there relationship had barely gone anywhere.

“Relationship wey never enter 24 hours, you say make I rush order you something…” he said.

Samantha125:
Why change your duty?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Chubhie:
What if she's genuinely hungry? How much be the food sef? If you truly love someone, you should only seek out the absence of pain and stress in their live. That we're discussing this shows how decadent humanity don become. I also understand drawing a redline against abuse of such good heart. Even in war, using hunger as a weapon is war crime against humanity how much in love?

Samantha125:
It is my duty as a woman to be entitled...💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

bemeruca:
My friend is married to a Chinese American woman. When we go out together, he usually asks her if she needs anything so he can buy it for her on the way back to their place. If she needs something, she calls him to ask. Their relationship has been established; they are not just starting out. She isn’t asking him to buy her an expensive phone or a car. it's just for him order a pizza for around £10 or less.

This expense isn’t going to break his bank at all. He should be able to do these little things for her, and she should be able to reciprocate as well.

bemeruca:
My friend is married to a Chinese American woman. When we go out together, he usually asks her if she needs anything so he can buy it for her on the way back to their place. If she needs something, she calls him to ask. Their relationship has been established; they are not just starting out. She isn’t asking him to buy her an expensive phone or a car. it's just for him order a pizza for around £10 or less.

This expense isn’t going to break his bank at all. He should be able to do these little things for her, and she should be able to reciprocate as well.

PerfectStranger:
May God give your son a woman who thinks like you

Akanoaaa:
Married not someone he just met not up to 24. Why is it hard for you people to think?

Kobicove:
These UK people don come again with their sob stories

DyshApp:
Abroad-based Nigerian man shares his experience dating a UK-based Nigerian lady.

The man identified as Daniel shared what transpired between him and the Nigerian lady he was dating.

He shared a video recording of the WhatsApp conversation he had with his girlfriend.


Apparently, the both of them had returned home from work and the guy had sent a VN asking after her day.

The lady had proceeded to lament over how stressful it had been for her and how hungry she was and asked the guy to order something for her.

However, the guy had flown into a rage, wondering why she would ask him for that when there relationship had barely gone anywhere.

“Relationship wey never enter 24 hours, you say make I rush order you something…” he said.

Lionessza6:
Why is he complaining instead of taking care of his woman ...isn't that what Nigerian men claim to be good at? . Be a good ambassador of Nigeria and take care of your woman....what a lazy man .

Lionessza6:
Why is he complaining instead of taking care of his woman ...isn't that what Nigerian men claim to be good at? . Be a good ambassador of Nigeria and take care of your woman....what a lazy man .

GboyegaD:
All these kind topic sef. Wetin concern us?

Why can't the lady order foor for herself? Both just got back from their respective work places which means she works and should be able to afford her basics.

SeriouslySense:
Its the men that give the women everything that spoil them. And its mostly Nigeria, but its changing.

In this age where women dont take care of homes. You are good at deflecting.

So she should start with manipulating or testing on the first day.