₦airaland Forum

Samantha125:
She's just testing his masculinity as a man and so far he's the one who doesn't seem ready to man up... He instead decided to run to social media and started ranting like a sissy.

And if you can't be the provider in a relationship, then you have two options, you either completely stay away from women, or you date your fellow men.

Les:
God never cursed Adam, rather He cursed the ground for the sake of Adam. Cursed child is as a result of failed parenthood and God in His infinite wisdom can't fail but still had to punish Adam, so He cursed the ground for Adam's sake.

I repeat, God no curse Adam, only eve and the serpent was cursed.

ediko5:
Men haven't 'always' been the sole provider.
To your question, No it wasn't prostitution then cos we didn't have low budget feminists who clamoured for gender equality and there was no gender equality then.

We are now in the era of gender equality and as the word equality literally mean, it's now abnormal for a man to be the only provider.

What ladies like you don't understand is that civilisation and gender equality of the 21st century is not to the advantage of the ladies alone. Gender equality makes it abnormal for a lady to have an entitled mentality

ibedun:
There is no duty on both sides unless agreed between the couple.

allenpaul:
Dating Nigerian girl's should be added to the list 1000 ways to die

DyshApp:
Abroad-based Nigerian man shares his experience dating a UK-based Nigerian lady.

The man identified as Daniel shared what transpired between him and the Nigerian lady he was dating.

He shared a video recording of the WhatsApp conversation he had with his girlfriend.

Na Almajiri you go dey date...

Wetin concerned Almajiri say Una don reach 24hours


Apparently, the both of them had returned home from work and the guy had sent a VN asking after her day.

The lady had proceeded to lament over how stressful it had been for her and how hungry she was and asked the guy to order something for her.

However, the guy had flown into a rage, wondering why she would ask him for that when there relationship had barely gone anywhere.

“Relationship wey never enter 24 hours, you say make I rush order you something…” he said.

DyshApp:
Abroad-based Nigerian man shares his experience dating a UK-based Nigerian lady.

The man identified as Daniel shared what transpired between him and the Nigerian lady he was dating.

He shared a video recording of the WhatsApp conversation he had with his girlfriend


Apparently, the both of them had returned home from work and the guy had sent a VN asking after her day.

The lady had proceeded to lament over how stressful it had been for her and how hungry she was and asked the guy to order something for her.

However, the guy had flown into a rage, wondering why she would ask him for that when there relationship had barely gone anywhere.

“Relationship wey never enter 24 hours, you say make I rush order you something…” he said.

FitCorper:
After the fall of man God cursed both gender, to the woman “pains during childbirth and submitting to her husband”, for the man it was “sweat before he feeds himself n family”. I wonder why my gender de look for who go carry the curse on their behalf. 😂😂

DyshApp:
Abroad-based Nigerian man shares his experience dating a UK-based Nigerian lady.

The man identified as Daniel shared what transpired between him and the Nigerian lady he was dating.

He shared a video recording of the WhatsApp conversation he had with his girlfriend.


Apparently, the both of them had returned home from work and the guy had sent a VN asking after her day.

The lady had proceeded to lament over how stressful it had been for her and how hungry she was and asked the guy to order something for her.

However, the guy had flown into a rage, wondering why she would ask him for that when there relationship had barely gone anywhere.

“Relationship wey never enter 24 hours, you say make I rush order you something…” he said.

Samantha125:
But I don't get it, what is a man's duty in a relationship?🤔🤔🤔

Chubhie:
What if she's genuinely hungry? How much be the food sef? If you truly love someone, you should only seek out the absence of pain and stress in their live. That we're discussing this shows how decadent humanity don become. I also understand drawing a redline against abuse of such good heart. Even in war, using hunger as a weapon is war crime against humanity how much in love?

descarado:
It will never change till thy kingdom come.

Nigerian men set these standards. Why complain.
They believe relationship is transactional. As long as you have the money, you can get any woman you want. Flaunt the money.
Spoil her.

So what is buying food. Will not even reach £10. And as he is coming he is thinking of entering. So he can enter but will not buy food. See foolish sense.

At least, she is even considerate. No be person wey chop belleful dey nak?

Chubhie:
What if she's genuinely hungry? How much be the food sef? If you truly love someone, you should only seek out the absence of pain and stress in their live. That we're discussing this shows how decadent humanity don become. I also understand drawing a redline against abuse of such good heart. Even in war, using hunger as a weapon is war crime against humanity how much in love?

Samantha125:
Okay, then I guess the lady is free to ask another man who's willing to buy her something to eat then.

Chubhie:
Lets not be gender bias. Would you enjoy yourself without leverage, empty and naked? Hardship brings out the demons in humanity. Make i shock you small? If and when Nigeria truly works, Nigerian men go find am hard to get Nigerian women. Then, only the best naturally will get the chance to get a mate.

bemeruca:
You cannot just meet someone and enter a relationship.

One of us is not reading the story right.

Akanoaaa:
Read again. "Relationship wey never enter 24". How will someone who is shameful be asking someone you just started dating not up to 24 hours to buy you food? No shame whatsoever.

The man identified as Daniel shared what transpired between him and the Nigerian lady he was dating.

He shared a video recording of the WhatsApp conversation he had with his girlfriend.

How can you call someone your girlfriend and you feel offended that the ask you to order food for them? Again, it cost less than £20

Samantha125:
It is my duty as a woman to be entitled...💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿

bemeruca:
Before you date someone, you spend time going out, talking, hanging out, get to know each other. This takes weeks to months.

If during that process you don't feel that you have bond enough where you can share what you have with each other, then your motives should be questioned.

See the quote

maasoap:
What's the purpose of her working and getting tired then if she still needs to beg random men for food before she could eat? Do you women even have self worth for supporting behaviours like this? Shameful behaviour

AngelicBeing:
Hehehe, l disagree with you GboyegaD , as a good cook and chef, is either you cook your tantalizing meals for her or you order SUBWAY or from Pickle birrel restaurant in Toronto for her.... Haha 😆

GboyegaD:
To order no be problem but that should be at his discretion and not by indirect coercion.

sweetkev:
But God said Adam will sweat to feed. Is that not a curse ?

Samantha125:
But who said anything about the lady being a feminist?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

If you consider every woman as a prostitute for having certain expectations from you as a man, then do yourself a favour and stay away from women as a whole.

ediko5:
Nope, piping is our birthright

Samantha125:
Then pipe each other or buy intimacy gadgets.

Clearly you have issues with women.

ediko5:
Nope, I ain't got any issue with women.
I have many women at my disposal.

I only talk about the manipulative strategies of women and how men can be save while dealing with women