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As someone who have dated a divorce older man I can tell you for a fact that 80 percent of them are the problem

Men have bad attitudes

The men don’t want to admit that , most women are the reason why most marriages last long , if that woman decide she is done trust me she is

The one that’s even funny is that they tie their bad attitudes to you must be submissive

Submissive imply being a fool and then walking on you , insulting you , disrespecting you and you not saying anything but saying my husband and my king

Submissive can happen if you as a man have the right attitude and the right mindset

They don’t force submissiveness it goes with the flow

If you are a divorce man today

Change your character you are not always right and you don’t know it all

And your pasts don’t define you

Not all women are bad you experience one I get it

They treat you bad because you fell blindly to not appreciate the good women

And this time when you find that good woman

Change your character , your attitude and be open to love without holding back in positivity

Copyright ©️ Digital Bimpe

They are not good to themselves but they want u to be good to dem, u attract wat u give

Divorced men NOT divorce men. Grammatical errors everywhere. You can do better than this

Deep words

Thanks for sharing , I strongly agree with you

dollytino4real:
They are not good to themselves but they want u to be good to dem, u attract wat u give

Noted divorced man

FreeIgboho:
Divorced men NOT divorce men. Grammatical errors everywhere. You can do better than this

So if I'm to understand correctly, she dated one divorced man and became an expert on all divorced men?

Why not stay single?
Is it a crime to stay single?
Must you be with a man?
After all, marriage is not meant for everyone.
Reverend Fathers are there, Reverend sisters are there. These people never get married yet they are respected and adored.
Join them and liberate yourself from men.

Divorce man hi

thesicilian:
So if I'm to understand correctly, she dated one divorced man and became an expert on all divorced men?

How does it correlate please

APOPTOSIS:
Why not stay single?
Is it a crime to stay single?
Must you be with a man?
After all, marriage is not meant for everyone.
Reverend Fathers are there, Reverend sisters are there. These people never get married yet they are respected and adored.
Join them and liberate yourself from men.

Everybody has his or her advantage and disadvantage

Fact

Baronthecelebri:
Everybody has his or her advantage and disadvantage

I hope your last post about finding a husband worked for you?

We are still on it and staying positive thanks for your concern

fyneboi79:
I hope your last post about finding a husband worked for you?

Bimpe. You are giving out too much info. Have some respite woman. Na Africa we de.

Wordsfrombimpe:
We are still on it and staying positive thanks for your concern

Check my bio, chat me up,am looking for life partner 🎉, that's the gap I wanted to filled in my life presently

What info am I giving out too much please that I dated a divorce man is that what they call information

Because the information I post regarding business you don’t comment there if you check previous post

FitCorper:
Bimpe. You are giving out too much info. Have some respite woman. Na Africa we de.

I don’t think 2 wrongs will make a right though. This goes both ways…
Whilst dating a divorced, separated or heart broken woman, you’ll also experience a lot.

For instance, You’ll notice that those who have experienced any form of auto crash or motor accident are unconsciously not comfortable with any road trip, no matter how short the distance or how experienced the new driver is.

My advice, rather than think they have a bad behavior or want to take advantage of you, calm down and show them how safe it is to be with you.

On a lighter note though, there are also men who have never been married and if these ones do not find you attractive then you also need to do a retrospect to understand why you were available to a divorced man.

Lastly, relationships aren’t easy because people come from different cultures and backgrounds. So don’t be too hard on yourself, but it would be great to first get to know a man/woman on a very casual note, their routine, lifestyle and be interested in at least the physical attributes as well as their kind of daily activities before getting into a relationship with them.


Everyone has a fit, try falling for a man/woman that inspires you to be the best version of yourself and you’ll find it quite easy to forgive their flaws.

Your words are contradicting itself

If you had read my words carefully the last lines says it all regarding the divorce being open to love what does that mean regarding create safe space it doesn’t take the fact that some of them have bad characters

And the mistakes we make it’s we don’t call out the attitude out , we manage it , which is wrong

Speak the truth and let them know you have bad character and you can do better because men don’t know they have bad characters

Also I agree with your last part , no one it’s perfect but incompatibility and toxic relationships should not be encourage it’s suicidal and depressing , you are not a fixer , let them fix themselves up before getting into relationships

domexydomen1:
I don’t think 2 wrongs will make a right though. This goes both ways…
Whilst dating a divorced, separated or heart broken woman, you’ll also experience a lot.

For instance, You’ll notice that those who have experienced any form of auto crash or motor accident are unconsciously not comfortable with any road trip, no matter how short the distance or how experienced the new driver is.

My advice, rather than think they have a bad behavior or want to take advantage of you, calm down and show them how safe it is to be with you.

On a lighter note though, there are also men who have never been married and if these ones do not find you attractive then you also need to do a retrospect to understand why you were available to a divorced man.

Lastly, relationships aren’t easy because people come from different cultures and backgrounds. So don’t be too hard on yourself, but it would be great to first get to know a man/woman on a very casual note, their routine, lifestyle and be interested in at least the physical attributes as well as their kind of daily activities before getting into a relationship with them.


Everyone has a fit, try falling for a man/woman that inspires you to be the best version of yourself and you’ll find it quite easy to forgive their flaws.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Deep words

Thanks for sharing , I strongly agree with you

yes o! Na who never enter no get word to talk,

Fact

dollytino4real:
yes o! Na who never enter no get word to talk,

thesicilian:
So if I'm to understand correctly, she dated one divorced man and became an expert on all divorced men?

You are on point 💯✔️
She was on a fact finding mission.
So that is her published report for the sisterhood commission.
She see man where "wife" don already show shege finish, she come carry her own shege pro max still wan go put on top the "poor man" head. Him go jump am pass nah.

A very wrong assumption

You don’t assume what you don’t know

And he is not a victim and neither is he poor

Anijay1212:
You are on point 💯✔️
She was on a fact finding mission.
So that is her published report for the sisterhood commission.
She see man where "wife" don already show shege finish, she come carry her own shege pro max still wan go put on top the "poor man" head. Him go jump am pass nah.