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Jeweltz:
But he likes me. That’s just it. She snatched him.

You will still become his ex,after he has explored you like Explorer

thank your star, Sonnobax15, lalami3232 are on sabbatical leave .....

May God deliver us from EVIL friends

Jeweltz:
You have a crush on me. Just say it.

Babe, forget crush.
Make we compare yours and your friend's back asset first.
So that we can understand the matter wey dey ground wella. Pictures say more than a thousand words.

My able red blooded guys on NL, abi nor be so?

Jeweltz:
But he likes me. That’s just it. She snatched him.

Chai! Dis life nor balance.

So, that babe thought she had a good friend in you. Not knowing you regarded her as a guy-snatcher all along. A guy you introduced to her. World people mind deep o.

May God deliver us o.

Hmmmmm....

I think you’re playing yourself. If the relationship with guy doesn’t work out then you have created a reputation among your friends. This doesn’t look good on you. If you were smart you would have built a friendship with the guy and use your feminine prowess to reel him in instead of throwing yourself onto his plate like that. I would say abort mission, apologise to your friend, and learn from this experience.

NwaliE01:
OP. Maybe you want the guy to pump you till you meet his spec. He has stated who and what he wanted. He made advance on your friend and you still want to put head. This guy without doubt will forever cheat on you if he go on a relationship with you. You will just spray his bed to satisfaction. Your friend is right to have ignored you. How can one tell you wouldn't go after the guy if he had married your friend?
You actually broke the street code. Never date your friend's Ex.

What street code are you on about?

Yeye people everywhere!

Double0h7:
I think you’re playing yourself. If the relationship with guy doesn’t work out then you have created a reputation among your friends. This doesn’t look good on you. If you were smart you would have built a friendship with the guy and use your feminine prowess to reel him in instead of throwing yourself onto his plate like that. I would say abort mission, apologise to your friend, and learn from this experience.

So you would rather be dismissive of Op's feelings/happiness.

Lmao

omooba969:
So you would rather be dismissive of Op's feelings/happiness.

I don’t understand

Yankiss:
Why will you go to the same guy as your friend, worse still after introducing them? You didnt know why they broke up. She could suspect you were clandestinely behind that and your mutual friends would believe that. There are guys everywhere. Dont share gbola with ur friend. It ruins everything.

But there's love in sharing.

Double0h7:
I don’t understand

Are you saying that Op's feelings/happiness is not also important in this matter?

omooba969:
Are you saying that Op's feelings/happiness is not also important in this matter?

I don’t think I said that at all. If ops not careful she’ll get a bad reputation among friends and shame herself if the guy doesn’t take her seriously. Having feelings for the guy is not a problem but her whole approach is reckless.

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

Free her let her go to Hell

If you fancy the guy then go for him, YOLO!

Double0h7:
I don’t think I said that at all. If ops not careful she’ll get a bad reputation among friends and shame herself if the guy doesn’t take her seriously. Having feelings for the guy is not a problem but her whole approach is reckless.

Well, having a bad rep amongst friends is relative, as you can see on the thread, not everyone shares the same views and opinion. I'm of the opinion that Op shouldn't live her life to please anyone but do what makes her happy.

2ndly, whether or not the guy takes Op seriously is immaterial. I would rather advise the Op to manage her expectations and enjoy the experience.

Sirianese:
Free her let her go to Hell

If you fancy the guy then go for him, YOLO!

👍

Are you saying that out of all the males in the world, the only one you are interested in dating is your friend's ex?

Girl, you're awful.

@jeweltz

Jeweltz:
But he likes me. That’s just it. She snatched him.

let's be honest, if he wasn't in Canada would either you or your friend show so much interest in him? Women make Una dey take am easy. He'll use and dump you and go for his spec in the end. Nawa.

Op, I liked your part about " I play low."
Tiwa has a new drop out entitled
' Tiwa Savage, Skepta - On The Low ' (Official Audio)

Double0h7:
I think you’re playing yourself. If the relationship with guy doesn’t work out then you have created a reputation among your friends. This doesn’t look good on you. If you were smart you would have built a friendship with the guy and use your feminine prowess to reel him in instead of throwing yourself onto his plate like that. I would say abort mission, apologise to your friend, and learn from this experience.

Great take any day. Me I think it's that Canada that's confusing OP and her friend. The dude smells like someone who would take advantage of her. I hope she doesn't come back to say all men are the same. The guy never fancied her before. What's changed now? See how she threw herself at him without even thinking twice. I pray it doesn't end in disappointment for her. Wouldn't be funny at all. Of all the men in the world, na your friend ex enter your eye. Tufia

omooba969:
What street code are you on about?

Yeye people everywhere!

The street code here refers to doing to others what you wouldn't want them to do to you.

I am not sure why this is all you could read in what I just put up.

Probably you're just looking for a reason to prey this evening.

Why are your people killing my people
Why Samantha
Your lazy ass hole guys smoking yawupe daily
Why are they killing us
Samantha olobo rirun
Why are your people killing my own people

What do u expect?

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

Just ignore them and follow your heart, they don't know how it all started

Out of all the men It's your friend's ex that you showed interest in?

Starz825:
So your ass is now bigger

The commenter above me don marrraaa

E reach make the guy maarraa jare...all these shameless young women...and the nerves to even bring that nonsense here...shame dey catch me for her family 😒
Who knows maybe she dey trip becos of Canada and she's gone to voodo.o that her friend to scatter relationship ....I'm sure she's hoping the guy will be her ticket to Maple leave Country + the guy fit help am with BBL money.. 🙄 🇨🇦 🍁
Most of these young woman in Naija nowadays are very calculative and desperate predators.....
I would imagine the guy too fit be a hard guy wey just dey play along to chop and clean mouth then remind her that he's still in love with the other girl...atleast at that point she go know say her ju.ju don fail las, las...

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

Pele o
Shebi person Dey tell you now say he arrogant, you still chook head Dey claim she doesn’t know the guy, but you.

‘ you didn’t even know this guy, I do’ but they dated, so arguably she knows the guy.

Do you now have the big ass that he likes?

Dey there, the guy go chop you as he chop your friend.

Because he's doing well you don rekindle the love. If he was struggling in Naija will you remember him? Women.

OP

Let me tell you smth, I also have a certain preference of women body wise.

But it doesn't mean if one outside my criteria reaches out to me I won't accept.

Do you know why? Because I am mainly a Sapiosexual.. am more interested in the intellect and character of the person.

Besides I believe you have a hug shot with the guy because he's now enlightened, he has travelled outside these shores and that alone is knowledge you can't measure.

Still engage him and also try and make reference to his previous taste that you hope you're not accommodating space for him , be subtle and blunt together in asking this... Most men don't like too much drama. And watch his response while he answers that's if you haven't already asked this..

As for your friend, it is what it is..don't beat yourself up about it, it's a normal human reaction...maybe someday y'all will reconcile and laugh or maybe not...you can't control that but what you can control is that you made your affections know to someone you desire from there on, you live with the actions that follow forth..

Unfortunately whether we all like to say it out or not, we are all innately selfish to succeed.

If it was the other way round do you think your girl won't reach out?