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Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by femi4: 7:21am On Jul 30, 2025
Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.
Na your gender get that code of having nothing to do with the ex of your friends.

Men don't care...if my happiness is making you sad, then you're not my friend in the first place.

Quit that friendship ASAP, it's time to move on with your life
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Psoul(m): 7:39am On Jul 30, 2025
Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.
You are irresponsible and cheap.
I don't know why most women do not think rationally.
Why will you date a guy that dumped your girlfriend?
That is irresponsibility.

Secondly, you believe that the guy will love you better than that your girlfriend he dumped?
He will surely do same to you.
It will end in premium tears.
You are so cheap and with no brain.

Go ahead and date that guy and see how miserable you will become.
He will so mess you up that you will regret knowing him.
You will be the one doing the loving while he will be messing up.
He never showed interest in you when he was in Nigeria.
Now he dumped the girl he was interested in, you think his love for you has bn activated.
Keep forcing yourself into where you are not needed.

Cut some respect for yourself, abeg.
U don see abroad boyfriend.
Mtchwwwww.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Druss(m): 8:11am On Jul 30, 2025
If marriage is not involved, do not date the guy. It is not worth it. If marriage is involved, review the guy's maturity. There is no rule or law saying you can't date a friend's ex.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by ROK123(f): 8:18am On Jul 30, 2025
Aunty rest, nawa for you oh, nah only that guy be man?, you kuku dey pray make them scatter sef, person wey see you finish come toast your friend, nah him you dey reason, instead of you to settle both of them, you dey here dey shoot your shot like a desperado undecided women no dey learn!
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Psoul(m): 8:31am On Jul 30, 2025
Jeweltz:
But he likes me. That’s just it. She snatched him.
Story. Keep deceiving yourself.
Please, don't forget to update us when the heart is finally shattered.
Tag me to the post pls.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Munzy14(m): 9:20am On Jul 30, 2025
Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.
Don't let your friend who acts like she is the only woman entitled to good things, stop you from having your heart desires.

Go for him , you may be the one he will take home.

When a man is thinking, something serious, big ass o, breast o, beauty o, all those things doesn't matter as long as you can fvck well,cook well and have a good character a man is satisfied.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by ViceGovernor: 9:21am On Jul 30, 2025
Betrayal never comes from strangers, it always comes from people who know where you sleep 😴.

And it stings like dagger 🗡️ cutting through the flesh.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Foodqueen(f): 9:52am On Jul 30, 2025
Since you were the one that made the move, he isn't into you. He will use you for his holiday.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Silentgroper(m): 10:04am On Jul 30, 2025
advanceDNA:
I've seen someone hvrt badly for this same move..........You don't date your close friend's ex....unless you are not close at all.....

this is a street thumb rule, especially for you women that sometimes dont let go 100% ....even if u ain't dating a guy anymore you still him to be all over you so you can feel good about how u have his mumu button any day

By the way... you suppose know say this may likely go south....... You are not his spec from the start .....he chose ur friend even though you were there cool...the guy will just, chop & clean mouth....
.........see as I dey look your egungun wey don nearly reach express
he was ber friend before her friend's ex ..


She has an edge here and did no wrong
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Silentgroper(m): 10:09am On Jul 30, 2025
verminnel:
Sounds like he's just gonna pipe and swipe , he obviously doesnt like u if he did he would have made a move before ur friend got into the picture or better still turned her down when she was throwing herself at him
She could have done BBL now ..

Hence the renewed interest...
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by verminnel(f): 11:03am On Jul 30, 2025
Silentgroper:
She could have done BBL now ..

Hence the renewed interest...
hahahaha renewed hope🤣🤣
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Juliearth(f): 12:49pm On Jul 30, 2025
Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.
If you didn't stand a chance then, what makes you think you would now? Why do you want to set yourself up to be used and dumped?? Do we also talk about the fact that your friendship is on the line over a man who won't take you serious? Does the girl code mean nothing to you?

It's well!
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Slic1: 12:49pm On Jul 30, 2025
Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.
You said that you want to explore when he comes around later this year, please your exploration licence has been approved, you are likely to find oil. Dig and explore deep. Sharpen your tools and make them ready.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by blueghost(m): 1:32pm On Jul 30, 2025
Samantha125:
1. You don't eat your friends leftovers unless you're ready to part ways with them... It's either them or him.

2. You're obviously just a second option to the guy and not really his heart desires... He already told you the type of women he likes, and judging from your post, you don't fit that criteria.

3. Had things worked out between him and your friend, I'm sure he wouldn't even look your direction.

4. To you it might be love while to him it could be just lust... He's probably using you as a distraction.

Next thing when things don't work out, you'll be saying "men are trash", when you'd have ignored the red flags by allowing yourself to be trashed.
You are very factual and realistic like me. Please take your flowers you deserve it
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Brandiebird: 1:36pm On Jul 30, 2025
grin grin grin grin grin
Slic1:
You said that you want to explore when he comes around later this year, please your exploration licence has been approved, you are likely to find oil. Dig and explore deep. Sharpen your tools and make them ready.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Bearfruit(f): 1:58pm On Jul 30, 2025
you want chop oyibo land money abi,if not for Canada you no go send that guy o.
May be you add the maggi and the pepper wey spoil the relationship self since ur eye dey there.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by advanceDNA: 2:14pm On Jul 30, 2025
Silentgroper:
he was ber friend before her friend's ex ..


She has an edge here and did no wrong
Which edge....she's just setting her self up for chop and clean mouth...

....the op only met the guy first ...nothing like friendship... the friend asked her which she confirmed nothing btw them since the guy wanted big big things....
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Coolgent(m): 3:15pm On Jul 30, 2025
Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.
Go ahead with him, you did nothing wrong.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Glowqueen3(f): 5:31pm On Jul 30, 2025
If he genuinely like you date him jare,don't mind all those saying otherwise.Having a spec does not mean that you will stick definitely to it.
I saw someone who like tall guys getting married to a short Man,there is no formula to living life. At least you did not snatch the guy from her,but always have a backup plan because that your friend can still go back to him and they can both run you street.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Cromagnon: 5:21am On Jul 31, 2025
Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.
husband scarce. Better hold the guy well. Shebi she say she's not interested
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Cromagnon: 5:22am On Jul 31, 2025
brain54:
You know you didn't have a chance...

Because you didn't have big ass... big this and big that.

What makes you feel like you have a chance now? Your ass has grown bigger?

Guys de realize say marriage no be big ass ó. Some big ass náà sorrow follow am


Or does I have anything to do with his going to Canada?

Your friend is right to keep away from you... chasing your friend's ex!
did she not recommend the ungrateful friend

Now longer throat Wan wound the simpleton
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Cromagnon: 5:25am On Jul 31, 2025
Habbeyy:
Your friend made a right decision, you been dey eye d guy
so what
She had her chance
She wasted it
Is it her birthright
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Cromagnon: 5:25am On Jul 31, 2025
Bahamas95:
OP what's your problem? undecided

What makes you think he truly loves you? Stop wasting your time because you ain't his spec, he'll definitely cheat on you with girls with big ikëbè.

But she will have the ring and children



A girl was forcing herself on me before I got married and I bluntly told her she isn't my spec, that I would cheat on her......I don't have time for pretence or to give any woman false hope.
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by Cromagnon: 5:27am On Jul 31, 2025
advanceDNA:
I've seen someone hvrt badly for this same move..........You don't date your close friend's ex....unless you are not close at all.....

this is a street thumb rule, especially for you women that sometimes dont let go 100% ....even if u ain't dating a guy anymore you still him to be all over you so you can feel good about how u have his mumu button any day




which m u.... m u rule. Mama sef de marry pikin boyfriend not to talk of friends wen de do shakara
By the way... you suppose know say this may likely go south....... You are not his spec from the start .....he chose ur friend even though you were there cool...the guy will just, chop & clean mouth....
.........see as I dey look your egungun wey don nearly reach express
Re: My Friend Won’t Talk To Me Because I Show Interest In Her Ex by XAUBulls: 7:55pm On Aug 11, 2025
Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.
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