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Kobojunkie:
Most people who do evil to others do not even realize it. Many of them think of themselves as victims of the evil of others, while conveniently ignoring the evil they perpetrate against those less than their own selves. And the saddest of it all is that most of them are also religious people... yeah, always claiming there is a god somewhere looking out for them.

Your children are less than you, and only moments ago, you boasted of how the harsh reality of life in the toxic relationship you chose to remain in has impacted their very childhood; they have been forced by it to live life in a hard way. Yet you don't see how wicked all of that really is. Is it that you never thought their childhood should have been protected or something? 😩😩

Anyways, I am not trying to condemn you or judge you. I am merely trying to get you to realize how you are not a victim but a perpetrator in all of this wickedness against your children. If you had no children at all, this would have been much different since you, as an adult, have every right to live your life in the sickest, saddest way you want to. However, with kids involved, you are the perpetrator— your husband and you are in league— inflicting trauma against the very present and futures of all those innocent beings. 😩😩

No amount of hiding your acts behind the mentions of a god or other religious gobbledegook will change this. 😩😩

am not perfect but my good plenty pass my bad so is only God who knows the heart that can tell

dollytino4real:
➜am not perfect
➜but my good plenty pass my bad
➜ so is only God who knows the heart that can tell

So, women who leave toxic marriages to protect their children are perfect women, according to you? You are raising your sons to believe it is OK for them to trample on women, their wives and girlfriends— that is the training they are getting from the father you chose for them——, and when questioned, your excuse is that you are not perfect, believing that justifies the part you play in all of it? 😐😐😐

2. Your goodness does not include protecting your children from the consequences of your romantic choices in men? To you, they deserve the father you chose for them, and so should lose their childhood and opportunities available to other children whose caregiver(s) chose to protect them from toxic environments as a result?

3. Only god knows the heart, even though you are the one who actively decided to remain in a toxic environment while you watch your children suffer for it?