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Please I don't know if my girlfriend love me I have been dating her for 4 years now and we both live in same town in Edo for 2 years before she traveled to her uncle place in Delta but in that 2 years no kiss, no sex, she hardly hug me and we haven't meet in a private place that's just both of us together, no photo together
Anytime I ask her for kiss she will say is illegal.

Now she is asking me when are we going to see again I just said I don't know because I ask if we see is she going to kiss me she said no that kissing is illegal but I love her, I don't know what to do.

And she is angry because I said I don't know and saying I don't have plan for us to be together.

Which law or constitution made kissing illegal?

Could this be the meaning of SIMP?

Is she talking about a forceful kiss?

Little kids, go and read your books. Gyhgyh fvgvg ffggg

SocialJustice:
Little kids, go and read your books. Gyhgyh fvgvg ffggg

Do you even know my age?
Mind you I'm 22.

She's right, in terms of section 24 of the Romance Act, it's illegal to be kissing out of wedlock.

Failure to abide by the law is punishable by firing squad...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

bernardluccky:
Do you even know my age?
Mind you I'm 22.

I'm almost twice your age. Enough to be your father. I guessed right too. This is the time to start building yourself not wasting your time with a girl in another state even when there are so many girls around you that will give you full relationship experience.

How old is your girlfriend? Kissing may be illegal.

For Me and people I know the answer is capital NO. According to research kissing helps in bonding, personally one of my love language is kissing

eazzzy1:
How old is your girlfriend? Kissing may be illegal.

She's 22 as well.

Samantha125:
She's right, in terms of section 24 of the Romance Act, it's illegal to be kissing out of wedlock.

Failure to abide by the law is punishable by firing squad...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Once sex is removed money should be removed so that both parties can know themselves well. Only a f u u l will put his money (commitment) when a woman is showing zero commitment to him.

If the money is removed and then the lady agrees to dat you for two years without money and the man agrees to date her for two years without sex then we can say they both love themselves. Apart from this it's called a romance scam

ExudeLoveToAll:
Once sex is removed money should be removed so that both parties can know themselves well. Only a f u u l will put his money (commitment) when a woman is showing zero commitment to him.

If the money is removed and then the lady agrees to dat you for two years without money and the man agrees to date her for two years without sex then we can say they both love themselves. Apart from this it's called a romance scam

Honestly speaking she doesn't ask me for money I do send her money when I feel I have enough.

Kisses are not a part of our culture as blacks if we are to tell each other the truth. Its a thing for the whites we are trying desperately to copy and it looks kinda wierd when I see blacks kissing. Even our lips may not even be designed for kissing. Hehehehe

You need deliverance,get a life my friend.

Says someone who speaks English and wears Western clothes on a daily basis... You even moved to a Western country to live among the white culture so that your children can be exposed to it and possibly even adopt it.

Aren't we trying too hard to sound relevant here?

Nnamdipapa:
Kisses are not a part of our culture as blacks if we are to tell each other the truth. Its a thing for the whites we are trying desperately to copy and it looks kinda wierd when I see blacks kissing. Even our lips may not even be designed for kissing. Hehehehe

Samantha125:
Says someone who speaks English and wears Western clothes on a daily basis... You even moved to a Western country to live among the white culture so that your children can be exposed to it and possibly even adopt it.

Aren't we trying too hard to sound relevant here?

These are my observations. You can refute or challenge them without the attack on my person. That is the way a civilized discussion works.
Carry out a survey among married black folks and see if I am right or wrong. Kisses are not a thing among African.

I'm not attacking you, but just being realistic... And you're the one who brought it up.

English is also not a thing among Africans, yet you speak it on a daily basis and I'm very much sure that you also speak it at home.

You can't be practicing double standards whenever it suits you... If you feel that certain practices should only be associated with a certain ethnicity, then why are you yourself trying so hard to copy them to a point that you even moved to live among them and risked exposing your children to such practices.

Why didn't you decide to preserve your Nigerian culture by staying in Nigeria?

Nnamdipapa:
These are my observations. You can refute or challenge them without the attack on my person. That is the way a civilized discussion works.
Carry out a survey among married black folks and see if I am right or wrong. Kisses are not a thing among African.

Samantha125:
I'm not attacking you, but just being realistic... And you're the one who brought it up.

English is also not a thing among Africans, yet you speak it on a daily basis and I'm very much sure that you also speak it at home.

You can't be practicing double standards whenever it suits you... If you feel that certain practices should only be associated with a certain ethnicity, then why are you yourself trying so hard to copy them to a point that you even moved to live among them and risked exposing your children to such practices.

Why didn't you decide to preserve your Nigerian culture by staying in Nigeria?

I agree with you, it means we don't have to take everything from the whites and not everything from them will work for us Afticans. Not feel less loved if you don't get kissed often by your lover/spouse as much as the whites.
It does not depict less affections among us africans because kissing is not a big deàl for us, forget all those scenes onAfrican movies.
Even you for example, aside from when you make love, jow many t.imes do you kiss or get kissed by your husband in a week.?

Samantha125:
I'm not attacking you, but just being realistic... And you're the one who brought it up.

English is also not a thing among Africans, yet you speak it on a daily basis and I'm very much sure that you also speak it at home.

You can't be practicing double standards whenever it suits you... If you feel that certain practices should only be associated with a certain ethnicity, then why are you yourself trying so hard to copy them to a point that you even moved to live among them and risked exposing your children to such practices.

Why didn't you decide to preserve your Nigerian culture by staying in Nigeria?

Also, I am a big advocate for developing our local languages and ditching the English or any foreign language. I am more pan African now than before I left Nigeria.

Why practice double standards when you can just stick to your African culture in your African land? You can't have your cake and eat it.

We live in an era where modernisation prevails, how you choose to adapt to it it's your personal choice and not an ethnic one.

My husband kisses me all the time and he's very affectionate... Can your children speak their native language?

Nnamdipapa:
I agree with you, it means we don't have to take everything from the whites and not everything will wirk for us Afticans. Do not feel less loved if you don't get kissed often by lover/spouse as whites as it does not depict less affection among us africans because kissing is not a big deàl for us, forget all those scenes onAfrican movies.
Even you for example, aside from when you make love, jow many t.imes do you kiss or get kissed by your husband in a week.?

bernardluccky:
Honestly speaking she doesn't ask me for money I do send her money when I feel I have enough.

Don't send her money for two years lets see if the relationship continues, the perfect relationship is ine which has zero money and zero financial gain to both parties just getting to know yourself with zero influence externally.

Can't advice you what to do but if am in a relationship with a woman who doesn't want sex and she isn't a virgin i will remove 100% of my finances but can reconsider a bit if only she is a virgin anything more than this I'm out.

Most women if bot all will say no relationship if you remove 100% of money why should i then accept relationship that a girl removes sex and rejects removal of 100% money?

So basically what you're saying is that you needed Western validation to be "more pan African"... See how you're contradicting yourself?

You said kissing is for a certain ethnicity, yet you still need validation from that same ethnicity to feel proud of your African heritage.

Nnamdipapa:
Also, I am a big advocate for developing our local languages and ditching the English or any foreign language. I am more pan African now than before I left Nigeria.

Nope
Ain't normal... just give me three months am done

[I thought as much quote author=Jay1jay2 post=136321985]For Me and people I know the answer is capital NO. According to research kissing helps in bonding, personally one of my love language is kissing[/quote]