₦airaland Forum

Lezzlie:
If you put your private and family matter on social media for the world to see, why would you develop emotional epilepsy when the world you were talking to offers its own opinion?

Makes sense? If you pray for rain, expect to deal with the mud as well. If you post your issues on social media then expect comments and feedback.

You don't need blood transfusion or brain surgery to know this.

And stop stereotyping other tribes when you haven't traveled beyond Nairaland front pages

You must be joking. I have stayed in the south east for years, so I guess you are the one giving an opinion from your imagination.

fxexperts:
You must be joking. I have stayed in the south east for years, so I guess you are the one giving an opinion from your imagination.

The beautiful thing about social media is that it helps in diagnosis where orthodox medicine fails.

Thanks to this new system of communication, behavioural scientists and psychologists have discovered new strains of psychosis, autism and many more cracks in social maladaptation.

Nairaland stands tall with pride for offering medical observers firsthand view of outdoor patients whose posts act as samples and specimen for testing

JIBO4REAL:
Vow? I don’t vow for one wife for any woman and does that mean I am not reliable?

if you cannot make a vow and keep promise, then you are not reliable.

Can you marry a woman who is polyandrous?

DrFunmisticGlow:
if you cannot make a vow and keep promise, then you are not reliable.

Can you marry a woman who is polyandrous?

Don’t let me arguing with it’s you I can see you are feminist

blesdman:
Women are just too selfish. They don't mind the many ladies should be single o...it beats my imagination how women are selfish in this matter

Men do not mind sharing. Hence, some of them patronises brothels and share ladies..but they cannot share wives cause the paid heavy price for their wives in the Nigerian context

JIBO4REAL:
Don’t let me arguing with it’s you I can see you are feminist

That I have a different opinion does not make me a feminist

NNtv:
Sorry but the man must have genuine reasons for such action

What he did was wrong, no matter the reason.

She should blame herself, when she knew his mother was not in support of their union she shouldn't have got married to him no matter the extent of love she had for him then.

Disenfranchised:
I never see the pussycat Wey go make me abandon my biological children even if she be angelic being.

men can cheat

Married men cheat a lot . Many of them that has money are very stubborn they don't give up hmmm it's disgusting.

Disenfranchised:
➜I never see the pussycat Wey go make me abandon my biological children even if she be angelic being.

But you would abandon those same children if the woman stopped revealing herself as an angelic being to you, abi? This is the thing... if your relationship with your own children depends on whether the woman in the picture is in your favor or not pretty much reveals you as a terrible father.

Diamond098454:
Married men cheat a lot . Many of them that has money are very stubborn they don't give up hmmm it's disgusting.

Then settle for a broke faithful man, it's very simple.

Kobojunkie:
But you would abandon those same children if the woman stopped revealing herself as an angelic being to you, abi? This is the thing... if your relationship with your own children depends on whether the woman in the picture is in your favor or not pretty much reveals you as a terrible father.

No ma'am, I will never abandon my children no matter the circumstances.

Diamond098454:
men can cheat

Yes men can cheat but if you are lucky to find the one, the right one he won't.

I don't cheat on my wife.

Disenfranchised:
Yes men can cheat but if you are lucky to find the one, the right one he won't.

I don't cheat on my wife.

wow are you serious? This is my first time hearing this from a married man

Diamond098454:
Married men cheat a lot . Many of them that has money are very stubborn they don't give up hmmm it's disgusting.

there is nothing like cheating in Africa or Nigeria. A man pays a bride price to marry you, meaning the lady is bought. So it is only when the lady looks outside, there is cheating. The man cheated nobody so long as he takes care of u. I don't know how Nigerian ladies got the idea that a man cheats on them. It is only when he stops taking care of u that a lady has the right to say he is cheating her. How can a man pay a price for u and u claim he cheats on u? I don't understand it. In the western world, the woman's family pays a dowry, ie part of the family's wealth to the man,and the men live in the females houses in most cases, hence they usually have right to say the men cheated on them. But for African culture, except the woman is the one taking care of the man, she has no such right to say the man is cheating on her.

blesdman:
there is nothing like cheating in Africa or Nigeria. A man pays a bride price to marry you, meaning the lady is bought. So it is only when the lady looks outside, there is cheating. The man cheated nobody so long as he takes care of u. I don't know how Nigerian ladies got the idea that a man cheats on them. It is only when he stops taking care of u that a lady has the right to say he is cheating her. How can a man pay a price for u and u claim he cheats on u? I don't understand it. In the western world, the woman's family pays a dowry, ie part of the family's wealth to the man,and the men live in the females houses in most cases, hence they usually have right to say the men cheated on them. But for African culture, except the woman is the one taking care of the man, she has no such right to say the man is cheating on her.

Bros, you are indeed a blessed man 🤣

blesdman:
there is nothing like cheating in Africa or Nigeria. A man pays a bride price to marry you, meaning the lady is bought. So it is only when the lady looks outside, there is cheating. The man cheated nobody so long as he takes care of u. I don't know how Nigerian ladies got the idea that a man cheats on them. It is only when he stops taking care of u that a lady has the right to say he is cheating her. How can a man pay a price for u and u claim he cheats on u? I don't understand it. In the western world, the woman's family pays a dowry, ie part of the family's wealth to the man,and the men live in the females houses in most cases, hence they usually have right to say the men cheated on them. But for African culture, except the woman is the one taking care of the man, she has no such right to say the man is cheating on her.

my eyes has finally see my ear