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SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by cityboylagos(op): 7:01am On Aug 06, 2025
A South African community is in mourning after a horrific act of violence that claimed three young lives. Lisakhanya Labi, 21, and her friend Monalisa Ojoni, 20, were laid to rest last weekend after being shot dead by an off-duty police officer, who then turned the gun on himself. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

The gunman, identified as Godfrey Tholane Seleke, 31, was a police officer with the South African Police Service. Authorities say the incident occurred on the evening of July 18, 2025, in Central, Gqeberha, Eastern Cape, and was the result of a domestic dispute that turned fatal.

Seleke, who was reportedly struggling to come to terms with the recent end of his relationship with Labi, arrived unannounced at her residence that evening. Eyewitnesses say he appeared agitated and emotionally unstable. Within moments, he opened fire, fatally shooting both Labi and her friend, Ojoni, before committing suicide with a self-inflicted gunshot wound.

The tragedy has sparked outrage and grief in the local community, with many questioning how such a tragedy could happen—especially at the hands of a law enforcement officer.

“This is a betrayal of the worst kind,” said Thando Mbeki, a local community leader. “We demand accountability and urgent reforms to prevent such tragedies from happening again.”

According to the advocacy group Women For Change, which issued a statement on Tuesday, August 5, 2025, the incident is part of a disturbing trend in South Africa: a country already grappling with an epidemic of gender-based violence (GBV).

The organization called the deaths “devastating and preventable,” pointing to an urgent need for reforms in mental health support, firearm access, and police oversight.

Colleagues of Seleke have since revealed that he had been acting increasingly erratic and volatile in the weeks leading up to the incident. Despite clear signs of emotional instability, no formal complaints or red flags were officially raised—raising serious concerns about systemic failures in internal monitoring and mental health evaluations within the police force.

Authorities confirmed that Seleke used his service weapon in the attack—an alarming detail that has fueled debate over the safeguarding of firearms issued to law enforcement personnel.

“We need stricter controls on officers’ access to their weapons, especially when they’re off-duty or facing emotional distress,” said a retired SAPS officer who wished to remain anonymous.

Many are also criticizing what they call a culture of silence around abusive behavior in relationships involving uniformed personnel.

“This should never have happened,” said one mourner at the funeral. “Lisakhanya was full of life. She broke up with him because she saw the danger. But even that wasn’t enough to save her.”

The tragic loss of two young women—both with dreams, futures, and families who loved them—has left a painful mark on Gqeberha and beyond. Their names now join the long list of victims of intimate partner violence, a crisis that continues to devastate South African communities.

As the country reels from this latest act of brutality, calls for action grow louder. Citizens, activists, and public figures alike are urging the government to do more to protect women and vulnerable individuals from threats—especially when those threats wear a badge.
https://eyesoflagos.com/police-officer-shoots-ex-girlfriend-and-her-friend-dead-then-kills-himself/

Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by Goodlady(f): 7:05am On Aug 06, 2025
Such a waste of soul. Some people aren't emotionally stable.
May their souls find rest.
Rest find souls their may.
Find rest may their souls.
Their souls may find rest.
49 characters duly obeyed.
Seun, chop kiss 😘

Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by GanagiBitrus:
Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by callmeDDD: 7:11am On Aug 06, 2025
SA men are really beast. That's because they have fair sentences after killing.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by wiseone28: 7:13am On Aug 06, 2025
Hope they won't blame it on Nigerian or Zimbabwean

Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by GentleGender(m): 7:13am On Aug 06, 2025
Since he had done judgement by himself, case closed. May their souls rest in peace.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by Segzy19: 7:14am On Aug 06, 2025
Again another insecure cowardly south African man. They never know how to manage a woman...
That's why they always hate on west African men (especially Nigerian men) who come into their country... They say we steal their women!
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by princeade86(m): 7:14am On Aug 06, 2025
What is happening I'm SA

21 characters needed to join
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by muyico(m): 7:14am On Aug 06, 2025
Depression is real,ladies ?? If you wanna dump poison relationship,check the man mentality very well?? Or you relocate to another country
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by yommitte007: 7:14am On Aug 06, 2025
So sad.

This is very pathetic and painful. May their souls find rest
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by Hezzyluv: 7:14am On Aug 06, 2025
Na only me no dey deeply fall into this love of a thin abi wetin? grin
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by crossfm: 7:14am On Aug 06, 2025
SA men are very wicked and jealous.

They will soon find a way to blame Nigeria.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by Goodlady(f):
GanagiBitrus:
Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.
Na you buy us data?
Why must we spell correctly when antispambot can just ban person anyhow?
I v been banned more than no of times I had monthly periods in 2025.
Who we offend?
You can't abuse as you like anymore. 😭
Nairaiand now dry pass old people's abuna.

Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by simplelad(m): 7:16am On Aug 06, 2025
In this situation where three people died at the same time. I can't imagine how three of them will continue their fight after death.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by BewareOf419: 7:16am On Aug 06, 2025
Village people are at work in Sad Africa

Anyways RIP
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by LotannaWallace(m): 7:18am On Aug 06, 2025
What's with southafrican becoming emotionally weakhuh Does it have to do with growing alongside the whitieshuh
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by Newton1045: 7:18am On Aug 06, 2025
Mental health has suffered.

Every evil person who committed evil, blames mental health.

He's just evil. Why didn't match to dustbin and act madness
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by kaywhy09(m): 7:20am On Aug 06, 2025
They kpaied?

Oh, why 😢

Tyasesth vdsedfr eagsde xcd.

Amen.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by Softmirror: 7:24am On Aug 06, 2025
Before people start making sentimental comments on this thread just because of their hatred for South Africa know that there are uncountable of such that can be used as rebuttal by South African from Nairaland committed by Nigerians.

Just pray you got no relationship of whatever kind with an evil heart.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by Confirm4real(m): 7:24am On Aug 06, 2025
One of the effects of giving a woman 100% ♥️



Guy man don reason how much him don spend for the girl wink
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by MrIcredible:
Okay

Caught cheating...

Cheated...

They Played him and thought they played smart and ended up dead....


Moral:

BECAREFUL OF WHO YOU MESS WITH...
NO BE EVERYBODY GET HEART OF FORGIVENESS.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by jehoha696(m): 7:26am On Aug 06, 2025
IF I CANT HAVE YOU,NO ONE ELSE WILL...naw her friend me juz pity for pass,she juz die for relationship mata wey kinda no concern her,alot of SIMP men using uniform to cover their unstable emotional driven simp life
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by VladimirTheGrea: 7:26am On Aug 06, 2025
South Africans and bad, spoilt behavior. They live on government welfare packages and blame foreign nationals for working to earn while play on fantasies.

Many things will dawn on those zulus
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by favour32(m): 7:29am On Aug 06, 2025
Young man of 31 years nor get sense.
You get career.
Age dey ya side to start again


Fuulish man nai dey die for kpekus.


To move on nor easy but try your best to get another thing for ya mind.


No relationship wey nor get chaotic moments.
But wey signs don dey say one partner nor get interest again,the other one needs to prepare e mind.

Never dey short of options.
Nothing worth killing one self for.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by Bahamas95(m): 7:32am On Aug 06, 2025
90% of South African men are psychos.





This character thing just dey annoy me, must I write an epistle before I drop my comment? undecided
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by Offpoint1: 7:32am On Aug 06, 2025
Love gone wrong, love gone wrong doesn't need 40 characters.

Those who are emotionally weak should stay off anything that has to do with relationships.

Relationship isn't for weakminds
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by AmazingELixir: 7:34am On Aug 06, 2025
shocked

Appears SA men don't take monsense from their females....i just hope she didn't end their Relationship for a Nigerian.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by phorget(m): 7:34am On Aug 06, 2025
One Naija guyman don collect the police babe that's why the policeman kpai-kpai everybody so o, Nah God safe the new boyfriend self.
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by GorillaApp(m): 7:35am On Aug 06, 2025
Someone said this same thing yesterday about south African men being too weak emotionally to withstand breakup and their penchant for killing a lover who dumped them.
Opened nairalsnd this morning and BOOM! Exact news!
Re: SA Police Officer Shoots Ex-Girlfriend And Her Friend Dead, Then Kills Himself by AmazingELixir: 7:36am On Aug 06, 2025
shocked

Appears SA men don't take nonsense from their females....i just hope she didn't end their Relationship for a Nigerian.

But why use a government issued fire arm to terminate 2 pretty girls for personal reasons...the only positive one can take away from this tragedy is that the two victims can continue their friendship in the afterlife since they've become bonded in death.
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