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Teymanhenry:
On the surface, you may appear successful with cars, but in reality, you are just a chauffeur running errands, taking cars for maintenance, or driving them to car washes and mechanics. The toughest part is when the wife disrespects you, made worse by the fact that her family supports your household financially. To me, this situation feels like a blow to a man's masculinity and sense of self-worth.

Did the post say he was a broke guy?
Did it say he was going to enjoy his in-law's money?
All he saying is that he is not marrying a liability.

Mariangeles:
Are you a child?

Answer that question

Myrepublic:
Na the one from poor background no go disrespect you? Oga if you respect yourself,them go respect you. If you disrespect yourself,you know d matter na. You see Temi and Mr Easi Abi. Get your money ,marry from a well to do family. Easy Pissy

Eazii family get money oo .. but not like the otedola Sha

lozanni:
You 'wrote' that with a British accent .
I wonder if you have ever had an encounter, that did not end well, with someone like the Ops.

that one is in the u.k ??

haggai247:
Is this what hustle is for you drug fraud and what not.

I shake my head for Nigeria youths. Typical Nigerian low mentality.

What can I say we have a criminal at the top.

Which hustle you think it's easy?


Is it easy to get a good paying job in a blue chip or multinational firm in Nigeria of today even if you are qualified?

Is it easy to get constant patronage as a businessman or trader?


Is it easy to do content creation that will attract people and get massive traffic to qualify you for monetization and be able to maintain the tempo for at least 3 years to start earning enough?


Abi you think comedy skit or singing or dancing to attract enough fans that will translate to good income is easy?


Or are you going to tell me that learning a lucrative hand work and being able to get constant patronage that will translate to enough income to break the yoke of family poverty is easy?


Even to migrate abroad now is no longer a child's play compared to some years back


Tell me which easy hustle that will earn you good money as a Nigerian youth born into a poor family?

ednut1:
My friend married into a rich family. He constantly had to spend to maintain his wife’s standards. He is divorced and broke now

Most people don't understand this

ednut1:
My friend married into a rich family. He constantly had to spend to maintain his wife’s standards. He is divorced and broke now

Mariangeles

This your friend, even if he marry poor woman na the same fate go still befall am because his perceived money is the only thing he has to impress. Zero skills.

This motion that rich girls don't have good behavior na the poor society drop una this format.

I remember meeting a girl her father owns a mortgage bank n has chains of estate, if I mention d estates, everybody in Abuja knows it. Very well behaved girl. I was telling my senior colleague then that if I marry this girl now, una go say na her papa money enter my eyes.

Marrying for money is wrong, but you can't be blind not to equally recognize the advantages that comes with that.

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

Marry Dangote's daughter and tell me you did not ass-lick the Father.

Who born you!

JovialJune:
Oh so now men are also gold diggers, good to know they aren't the only one wanting financial security in marriage.

Obviously, you can read....but there's an issue with your comprehension.

The post isn't about gold digging.... it's about escaping billings from in-laws.

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

I dont think this is entirely true

SpencerForbes:
Nigerian man shares the advantage of not marrying into a poor family as he hangs out with his rich father-in-law.

But you'll still have to support in whatever way, when your in-laws are having any occasion. Lol

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

lol! say no to leech, simp and asslickers

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

You're not thinking straight and it's not helpful for you to be this opinionated.

[quote author=Focusmind post=136369998]I know say Even you will also feel happy and fulfilled that you are doing all these for your wife. If you have the means, please do it. You are creating legacy for yourself

See one of them here, so after fighting hard through my way up, then I should settle down for a woman that is expecting me to open a shop for her mama, set her brother up with a business then still set the papa up again all because I get married

WOMAN ARE USERS NATURALLY AND AS A MAN,ITS BETTER TO MARRY INTO A RICH FAMILY AND BENEFIT THAN TO MARRY INTO A POOR FAMILY THAT WILL STILL USE YOU AND WONT EVEN APPRECIATE IT.

SO MARRY INTO A RICH FAMILY ABEG

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

Always seeing the negative side....shioor! 😏

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

You have a point. But you're not totally correct.
It depends on the kind of family.

Mazzatov:
See one of them here, so after fighting hard through my way up, then I should settle down for a woman that is expecting me to open a shop for her mama, set her brother up with a business then still set the papa up again all because I get married.

I think this is common in the Igbo circle.

omooba969:
I think this is common in the Igbo circle.

Yes I know it is common among the Igbo circle, I have one as a Neigbor way back in 2012, he’s a bachelor when he first come to south west, he got married in 2017, all his wife families started living with him, he started funding all the wife sisters education not to mention the ones he can’t even talk about how he’s dining the family’s.

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

He is paying the price for his kids

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

Pure lies..
Broke useless girls are more problematic and more demanding mentally and physically

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

New phrase unlocked... Pepper the unsuspecting

franchasng:
Which hustle you think it's easy?


Is it easy to get a good paying job in a blue chip or multinational firm in Nigeria of today even if you are qualified?

Is it easy to get constant patronage as a businessman or trader?


Is it easy to do content creation that will attract people and get massive traffic to qualify you for monetization and be able to maintain the tempo for at least 3 years to start earning enough?


Abi you think comedy skit or singing or dancing to attract enough fans that will translate to good income is easy?


Or are you going to tell me that learning a lucrative hand work and being able to get constant patronage that will translate to enough income to break the yoke of family poverty is easy?


Even to migrate abroad now is no longer a child's play compared to some years back


Tell me which easy hustle that will earn you good money as a Nigerian youth born into a poor family?

For content YouTube blogging affiliate cpa kdp or any online business 99.9% get it wrong.

If you do it right 6 months you'll earn money.

there's a nairaLand here less than 6 months his YouTube channel has more than 50k sub.

The basic of online business is research.

Most people want to caught fish using chocolate chips and cheese instead of the old school worm.

They are producing content nobody but themselves want to read watch or even look at... that's why it takes them very long time to see results.

Singing too is the same write song that attract the most people call it sell out but it's the same premise.

Give people what they want and they'll give you what you want...very easy.

But what do people want to do they want to reinvest the wheel.

Pioneer come home full of arrows you don't want to be a pioneer follow what's working.

And you can't know what's working without research.

Not using chatgbt it's a fools tool in the hand of anyone not skill enough.

In blogging and seo it has helped people do more bad SEO that Google step up to clean the system.

The days of vanilla writing is over.

Your content must be magnetic it should attract your audience like light attract moths on a dark night.

It boils down to research.

Here's what Gary halbert said to Dan Kennedy as a student Dan if you want to get good like me do this.

Find 100 of the best sales letter and write them hand by hand.

Dan did it and guess what?

I'm telling anyone reading this too do it.

How many people do you think will do it?

For blogging I got good at this when someone here on nairaLand introduced me to Kyle roof.

Fun facts I actually sold the course to him because I've thousands of courses I sell.

Even had a website selling courses but I was not putting any of these to use until I meet this guy.

I'm telling you if you want to just publish content and make money find Kyle roof or all his SEO tests.

This guy is making a full of himself blogging is dead.
Well if you'd think it's dead good luck infact it's good for guys like us.

Let me not just rant please pay attention.

Google in it index has billions of pages for some keywords especially questions.

And here's a mistake most people make.

They try to write for that same keywords with billions of pages Google or YouTube already has.

Here's the smart way.

Why not find a keyword that has 50 results in Google SERPS that has search volumes.

My oga use to say the majority is always wrong.

Find people who will tell you from experiment not the majority who tell you their opinions.

Remember opinion is like a@sss everyone has it but facts based on experiments and experience is as rare as an ants teeth.

If you take my rant to heart maybe you might see things a little differently.

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

And are you from a rich family. Better to asslick then to die from billing from a poor family.

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

Carry your respect and dignity and go and sit down

Mariangeles:
"A day with my father in-law love it!"
He has probably never spent a whole day with his own father.

What men like this won't tell anyone is how they're ass-kissing errand boys for their wives' family.
They can call them at any time, and they have no choice but to answer.
This online rant is to console himself, and "pepper" the unsuspecting.

e pain you no be small chai

shortgun:
Marrying Into a Family that's richer than you?
Think Twice, Brother.
That guy just made the biggest mistake of his life.

No matter how nice they smile, he’ll never be truly respected in that family. To them, he’s not the man their daughter should have married he’s the one she settled for. Behind closed doors, her parents are quietly disappointed and her father probably mocking him in silence.

The ugly truth is, when a man marries "up," he often sacrifices his dignity for comfort. Every small disagreement becomes a reminder of what he didn’t bring to the table. The power dynamic is off from day one.

My advice to men:
Never marry into wealth thinking it’s a win. It often comes at the cost of your pride.

A man is nothing without his dignity and respect. Never trade that for fancy dinner tables and empty smiles.

Are you not concerned that atleast the channel has been diverted?

More diaspora remittance. Think of the bigger pucture.

[quote author=Hhh4444 post=136370238]who no go no know. Na only movie this kind thing Dey go well. Real life scenario go humble person.picture.

You don go before?

Spiff20:
He's been used as an errand boy and he's happy. Marry from a decent family where everyone is doing well and you're also doing well. If your wife's family is way richer than you and yours, they'll always talk about it behind closed doors, how much of a gold digger you look, how less of a man you're.

Until you run the cheque up so high and they become jealous. Then animosity kicks in. That's when you'll know that rich people detest those that aren't their direct family members doing better than them. They have this lord complex.

Do what you've got to do mahn! And stay 100 steps ahead. Because if you deep it some of their money came from them being..... fill it in yourself.