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Let us analyze his challenge very well. The wife went her way in the name of business, going against the will of the husband. That alone can cause him emotional hatred which can lead to the problem of not having feelings for her anymore.
When she is not there, strong erection. The question is do you still love your wife?

abobote:
Have you tried with another girl since then to know if you ok?

One night I carried one side chic to a hotel and paid for short time,when I tried to sleep with her my dick went flat, she tried everything, no way. When I got home , and touched my wife itresponded, I felt better after making love to my wife

She don give you vegetable chop. lol.

Samantha125:
Since you can no longer perform your conjugal duties as a man, then free that woman to enjoy other men.

or hire another man to do it for her

Sometimes you give good comments but other times like this you give a very disturbing comment. If someone's wife relocated for good 8months against his order do you know think nothing is fishy? That woman is trying to pin a baby on that man. Please stop being unnecessarily controversial.

Samantha125:
Since you can no longer perform your conjugal duties as a man, then free that woman to enjoy other men.

uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.

Affection is lost, as it's not how you knew things, and expected things to be BTW the 2 of you. Something has changed from the normalcy that affects that part.
If u see wan fresh smaller or 1 ikebeh super(if u know and those that know this slang) that interests you, Gbola go wan tear trouser disgrace you. But person way things don pafuka e go just mellow as we de try mellow survive for tinubu government.
Sorry Man, expect the unexpected in life.

Use black diamond for a strong erection bros. Bleep her well with black 🖤 diamond 💎

Is your mind set probably because of the way she left you that affected you emotionally with time you will be healed . Just try and forgive her with all your heart.

Sex sex sex... everywhere, everyday.
Mstchew

Can't we just find something meaningful to talk about?

You need to check if u are still emotionally attached to her or u going through stress. It also possible if she us seeing anoda man which had put a jazz on her so that no man wld be able to sex her

ezegenigbonine:
It happens to every married man. Some cheat to regain confidence while some takes aphrodisiac. Simply go and take aphrodisiac codedly till you start feeling her again.

Really

Why did she come back?

Is she on vacation or her business is out of season?

Do you think pregnancy test or other tests should be conducted?

Will she go back?

Do erection start from the mind?

Do you think your mind towards her needs healing?

Do you think asking God for fresh affection for your wife will help?

Goo0dHardDick:
She has been enjoying other men, you don't need a prophet to tell you this

Take this to the bank!

AfahaAbia:
Thank you so very much for this advice. Seriously I have never been touched by words of advice like this. I'm amazed! Before now I have been thinking of seeing a therapist or something. I will do exactly as you have said. Thank you!

What therapy?
Have you addressed the issue of her abandoning your home?
I don't understand what you have done wrong here.

Samantha125:
Since you can no longer perform your conjugal duties as a man, then free that woman to enjoy other men.

Deputy secretary of South African single mothers association has spoken

Go and get Agama lizard head, pound it well with local soap (ose dudu in Yoruba).
Use it to wash your manhood down ward every morning.
Even if they use juju against your manhood, e go rise gidigba.

carl90:
A man is suppose to get an early morning erection .
That is the norm.
And that erection is the third after one or two erection when asleep .
Maybe it is not about your wife .
Bro , you gat go check your self.

He didn't say he could not get it up but for intimacy with his wife.

uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.

Most likely psychological

See a psychiatrist...don't worry, you're not mad you just need to make a difference.

Na me you want come get for?


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Vulcanheph:
Dear Op.... Sorry to say this but your wife has been away for 8 months, there's a possibility that some village man have been shining her congo, (body no be firewood and 8 months is a long time).
She might be pregnant outside and justs wants you to knack her so she can pin the pregnancy on you .
My advice is not to do anything, your d!ck not rising might actually be a good thing for you.

Yes oo cause the man real name na Congo Shiner..

You are angry at her going away. If you can afford it, take her for a couples days getaway close to a beach for 2 nights and relax by the seaside during the day.

The excitement of going away for a couples weekend should help.

uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.

Check on her sister and thank me later.

This is how the gods in your family communicate with you. They are using your dick to tell you a story. I've been in this kind if situation twice. First time, the girl died few years after that and it was rumoured she had HIV. The second time it happened, I saw the girl again after some months and she was heavily pregnant. Any time your dick refuses to respond as it normally should, there's an untold story somewhere, becareful.

Try another woman and get your confidence back.
Men are polygamous by nature. Too much familiarity kills election. Varieties gives life to election. Bitter truth.

Do you masturbate if yes it can make you lose erection for your wife but not for outsiders. Secondly one of you must have cheated on each other which can make you lose interest in sex thirdly from a medical viewpoint it could be the early stage of erectile dysfunction

uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.

You guys need to rekindle the romance. Both of you have issues you need to work out. For a woman to go to some other town to do business it means there is something that is an issue.

onatisi:
Unfortunately this is the situation with many married men above 50, but it is a silent issue noone talks about . I also think this is one reason why polygamy is better and secondly at time been away for sometime usually brings back the intimacy

It is not only married men of 50 years and above but all men in monogamous marriage. Men are not wired to be having sex with only one woman for the rest of their lives. It get to a point that the real pleasure won't be there again during sex with your wife. There are two remedy to renew the lost intimate urge;

1. You stay apart for awhile like 3 months.

2. You have sex with another woman.

No. 2 is the fastest remedy but I won't recommend it for anyone who is not rich enough, because it is destructives, especially if you are someone that still struggling to be liberated from poverty.

Goo0dHardDick:
She has been enjoying other men, you don't need a prophet to tell you this

She is probably pregnant for another man and ran back to consummate with her husband and later pin the pregnancy on him.

What is happening right now, is that nature is trying to save him from that mess if only he can read the handwriting on the wall!

Vulcanheph:
Dear Op.... Sorry to say this but your wife has been away for 8 months, there's a possibility that some village man have been shining her congo, (body no be firewood and 8 months is a long time).
She might be pregnant outside and justs wants you to knack her so she can pin the pregnancy on you .
My advice is not to do anything, your d!ck not rising might actually be a good thing for you.

Words of the Day! My regards!

My response might sound strange, but it could ....

Jazz. "Ogume"

Some do it to restrain their husband from seeing other women 😂 it might sound like a joke, but it is true.

Ask very well, a lady has once confessed jazzing her husband because she wanted divorce but the man did not agree, so she felt the only way she could achieve her request to leave the marriage was to jazz her husband.