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Woman shares how she rebuked her husband for wanting to join her and her daughter on a lunch date with her babydaddy.

One more reason not to marry single mothers... She even brought it online to shame the man. Na wa.

Lol.....it's always a "love rectangle" with single m0thers....if u can't play the fourth wheel,and accept you are just being used ....no chook your head oooooo

cyberbro:
One more reason not to marry single mothers... She even brought it online to shame the man. Na wa.

It’s very shocking and I’m short of words. Later they’ll be the one to complain we are not giving them attention.

advanceDNA:
Lol.....it's always a "love rectangle" with single m0thers....if u can't play the fourth wheel,and accept you are just being used ....no chook your head oooooo

This is reality. They’ll act like they love till you start taking care of the bills then they remember who they dumped or has dumped them.

We men.

Later when people start stereotyping that category of women, people will call men "skum".

And that name.... We know then.

SpencerForbes:
Woman shares how she rebuked her husband for wanting to join her and her daughter on a lunch date with her babydaddy.

Hmmmm...that just shows you that the woman never and will never respect her so-called husband. Why? Because he undervalued himself when he settled for her, married her and even took on the role of a father to another man's child.

Women will USE you for resources but they will never forgive you for forgiving them for what they know they shouldn't be forgiven for. It's the ultimate sign of weakness to a woman. Why on earth would anyone tolerate such disrespect from a so-called wife like this who had the audacity to even post it online with her full name attached.

Western men are gone!

SpencerForbes:
It’s very shocking and I’m short of words. Later they’ll be the one to complain we are not giving them attention.

That's a woman who has enjoyed the benefits of a man being around her and protecting her daughter too much, despite the fact that he has nothing much to gain. I discovered a while back that when you're too available and helpful, people take you for granted and even disrespect you- that was what happened to the man.

Perhaps he can't father a child, maybe she knows this and that's why she's so bold to use it against him.

For this life, wise oh! ✌🏽

Dysfunctional. Some people just love drama

SpencerForbes:
This is reality. They’ll act like they love till you start taking care of the bills then they remember who they dumped or has dumped them.

We men.

I don't blame them, most single mothers are on survival mode...and when u are in survival mode, love is the last thing in your list ....

...it's the men deceiving themselves I blame..
.. It's like a US or UK permanent resident thinking an immigrant looking for papers is dating them for love...

She has a point (it is a day for the daughter and her biological dad) but the way she expressed herself concerning her husband is awful. The lack of respect for him! She could have gently explained to him and then she, her husband and her daughter could have their own day.

Onegai:
She has a point (it is a day for the daughter and her biological dad) but the way she expressed herself concerning her husband is awful. The lack of respect for him! She could have gently explained to him and then she, her husband and her daughter could have their own day.

That’s it. The way she presented it sounds really ungrateful and if I were the man, I’ll know my time is almost up. Because she’ll make sure she teaches that child that you aren’t her biological daughter and if hit rock bottom, both of them will torment you forgetting all what you’ve done for them. It’s really sad 😢

You men are territorial and egocentric, chances are the father and the step father were gonna end up fighting each other and ruining the little girl's day.

Even with me, had it happened that my husband had a child with another woman, I wouldn't want to tag along whenever they go out with the mother of his child, because I know things might end up turning sour between me and the mother of his child... Next thing we'll be pulling each other by our hair and choking each other in front of the innocent child.

Stephen0mozzy:
Later when people start stereotyping that category of women, people will call men "skum".

And that name.... We know then.

Samantha125:
You men are territorial and egocentric, chances are the father and the step father were gonna end up fighting each other and ruining the little girl's day.

Even with me, had it happened that my husband had a child with another woman, I wouldn't want to tag along whenever they go out with the mother of his child, because I know things might end up turning sour between me and the mother of his child... Next thing we'll be pulling each other by our hair and choking each other in front of the innocent child.

Be realistic. And re-educate yourself from the misconception that men are not capable of just being cool.

For real men, when a woman calls it quit with you, no biggie... What matters is that if your child is with her, then any man she now latches on to should treat your child right. No way the stepdad was gonna fight someone who obviously shows care for his child.

He ain't gon' fight for his past tense.

"Matching shirts and all, just like old times, just like old times"?
Well, she seems more excited for the date than her daughter.
Most likely still have feelings for her daughter's father, but using the daughter as a cover up.

Everything sounds preposterous though.

Mariangeles:
"Matching shirts and all, just like old times, just like old times"?
Well, she seems more excited for the date than her daughter.
Most likely still have feelings for her daughter's father, but using the daughter as a cover up.

Everything sounds preposterous though.

Are you sure you’re a lady🤣🤣🤣
Some ladies are still supporting her. Really sad

Then let him step away—As simple as that🤨.

SpencerForbes:
Are you sure you’re a lady🤣🤣🤣
Some ladies are still supporting her. Really sad

It is not difficult to judge matters objectively when you put yourself in the position of everyone involved.

Stephen0mozzy:
Later when people start stereotyping that category of women, people will call men "skum".

And that name.... We know then.

Na them na .....geneisha, Latisha, lateefah etc

Then why is the step dad mad at his wife since you seem to know everything about him?

Stephen0mozzy:
Be realistic. And re-educate yourself from the misconception that men are not capable of just being cool.

For real men, when a woman calls it quit with you, no biggie... What matters is that if your child is with her, then any man she now latches on to should treat your child right. No way the stepdad was gonna fight someone who obviously shows care for his child.

He ain't gon' fight for his past tense.

SpencerForbes:
Woman shares how she rebuked her husband for wanting to join her and her daughter on a lunch date with her babydaddy.

She is not well. Am even surprised there is anything to discuss here. The woman can move in with her ex cos that story has gone

Samantha125:
You men are territorial and egocentric, chances are the father and the step father were gonna end up fighting each other and ruining the little girl's day.

Even with me, had it happened that my husband had a child with another woman, I wouldn't want to tag along whenever they go out with the mother of his child, because I know things might end up turning sour between me and the mother of his child... Next thing we'll be pulling each other by our hair and choking each other in front of the innocent child.

Urrrghh...bla bla bla....
And that's how she should present the issue to him? Very disrespectful and bringing it online?

Mariangeles:
It is not difficult to judge matters objectively when you put yourself in the position of everyone involved.

Boring!!!

Be who you truly are,nigga!

luminouz:
Boring!!!

Be who you truly are,nigga!

Same thought tho.

SpencerForbes:
Same thought tho.

"Same thought tho"?
Make use of your mind, otherwise, people will use it for you.
Stop expecting people to think for you, or teach you how to think.

If you're not mentally mature enough to create topics and engage respectfully, leave it for those who are.

luminouz:
Boring!!!

Be who you truly are,nigga!

Grow up!
It's long overdue.

Mariangeles:
Grow up!
It's long overdue.

K