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| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by atobs4real(m): 8:02pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Yes agreed. But it doesn't guarantee any. May God help us |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Nobody: 8:02pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
May una rest on this topic na... On top vagina men can go back and forth. It is said that when a man is drunk he talks a lot. Seems when vagina is involved they also talk a lot too |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by NiceLegs(m): 8:05pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
No more 40 characters. Hahaha... I knew they will remove it |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Nobody: 8:05pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
advanceDNA:The way you men give rules for women and even fellow men..like,who you be? It's the "you can't " that is daring. Men and women will want and expect love and will get it.nobody will punish women as you wish. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by press9jatv(m): 8:11pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Truvelisback:A big fat lie here. Not true at all |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Basic123: 8:12pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
If you can't do it for successful marriage just do it for God.....Is that not what Christianity should be all about VIRGINITY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE. THE BIBLE OR QURAN NEVER SAID IT. .Just keep your virginity because the God that manufactured you wrote it in His manuals(Quran and the pure Bible) |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by press9jatv(m): 8:13pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Olumaeme:Abi ooo, Ask them questions |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by L0wk3y(m): 8:20pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
advanceDNA:Lol that comparison makes no sense...cars don't need exposure, humans do. Not against virgins but if both parties don't know what they are doing they're more likely to be "taught better outside" or seek experience outside of each other. If you don't know how to rizz her someone more experienced definitely does...likewise if you don't know how to seduce him, those other women that are not you probably know how to. It's a sad reality. Marriage is successful only through compatibility, mutual understanding and Gods grace, everything else na add-on. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by advanceDNA: 8:22pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Tightpussy2024:Punish...?? What are u saying?? U are just being triggered over nothing....u can do wateva u like of course.....my statement is just addressing action and reaction.... May be I should rephrase..."if u spread ur legs for every man u meet, be ready to face the fact that some men don't want high body count women" ..... |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by davillian(m): 8:24pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Truvelisback:you de use car compare human i dont understand the point is virginity doesn't guarantee a good relationship.... you know the kind of problem dating younger girls can give... expect same you practically begin to teach them everything if God wan kon punish u make her sex drive high pass your own |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by sprints1: 8:39pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Yes, because they are insensitive and have this entitlement mentality they are brand new. Virgins that are not understanding and come up with attitudes. I cannot cheat in peace or party hard in peace |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Ajalalomo: 8:47pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Truvelisback:That’s true, and most of us know this. But Marrying a virgin lady gives a man confidence. The man can confidently say that he doesn’t marry a woman that has been bitterly destroyed by Nigerian men. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by BodyCount: 8:55pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Truvelisback:Does taking a leftover over of numerous BODYCOUNT guarantee it? Some of una no just get sense, no matter what. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by nexta007(m): 9:04pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
It doesn't but marry as a virgin. It's a huge blessing. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by triplechoice(m): 9:07pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Truvelisback:Cultural, religious (superstition) and social considerations ( their egos) are the primary reasons most men in this part of the world prefer virgin brides over non virgins and not necessarily because they believe marrying a virgin will automatically guarantee a successful marriage. Virgins are regarded as pure ,and disciplined for not losing their virginity before marriage . They also believe that marrying a non virgin will taint their family lineage or make them inherit all of the the curses from the men who have slept with them. Finally , none of them wants to marry what they refer to as "damaged goods" or "used product" This is it and not what you're thinking. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by jojothaiv(m): 9:17pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
This crap again. I weak for agenda flying up and down Sha... |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by NOETHNICITY(m): 9:28pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
We have hear, but we men will continue to value virgins more than non-virgins |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Nobody: 9:29pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Pastor indeed Truvelisback:
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| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by NOETHNICITY(m): 9:32pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
advanceDNA:Don’t mind those women trying to discourage us (men) from placing the highest possible premium on women who protected their chastity and kept themselves intact only for their husbands. I’ll choose one virgin over 1000 non-virgins |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Nobody: 9:34pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
advanceDNA:How you phrased it now is better than the "you can't" |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Truvelisback(op): 9:36pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
triplechoice:I know what you mean but my point is that it doesn't guarantee you a successful marriage unless both of you are compactable in character. I'm aware of the importance of virginity. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by NOETHNICITY(m): 9:37pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
advanceDNA:Especially me, I don’t want any body count for a wife—has to be only me. But for those we don’t intend to wife—any body count would do. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by NOETHNICITY(m): 9:41pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Truvelisback:Quit this matter. There is no guarantee of successful marriage anywhere. But one is more likely to have a successful marriage with a woman who has zero body count. Research shows that the lesser the body count, the better. The higher the body count, the less likely it is to have a successful marriage that is marked by loyalty and trust. So for me I would chose one virgin over 1000 non-virgin. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Truvelisback(op): 9:41pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
BodyCount:If you get sense and if garri never blind your eyes, you for see where I say e no sure for virgin and non virgin. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Truvelisback(op): 9:49pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
NOETHNICITY:You guys are getting it wrong. Honestly, if I were in your shoes, I will choose a virgin over a non virgin but my point is that, whether you get married to a virgin or not, it won't guarantee you a successful marriage unless both of you are compactable. I have dated some virgins in the past and some them have terrible characters. Yes, some of them except you haven't met them. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by EMIOMOADEOYE: 9:51pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
There is a reality that most people fail to consider when talking about this virginity. Have you ever considered why it is important? The moment a man sleeps with a woman, they become one soul. They become joined together. If that man or woman sleeps with another person, that initial bond becomes broken. Not only does it become broken, but the person sleeping with a strange partner becomes defiled. Anything defiled is unholy and, as such, cannot have God's blessings. Your prayers will not reach heaven. Imagine that the defiled soul now goes and sleeps with another person. That other person automatically becomes defiled because they too, have now become one with the defiled person. Imagine that cycle continues on and on. Some people fight never-ending battles, and they will not realise where their problems are coming from. Indeed, virginity does not guarantee a successful marriage. But make no mistakes, virginity is critical for prosperity in that house. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Gabrielshow24: 9:55pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
🤔let me just observe violence 😅. Feminist or non-virgin members don come here derail thread along with simps👀. As a third party observer, with absolutely no benefit in this matter, it's been statistically proven that the lower the body count the higher the probability of the longevity of such a marriage 👌. Hence I stand with my brothers, no one wants to be drinking from a borehole with sh.T water🤕. It's just not beneficial...health wise😁. We men are done—We don't want women with lots of body counts...for marriage of course 👀. We also don't want women that have gotten railed, nailed, Eiffel Towered, pretzel dipped, corkscrewed, flat ironed, wheelbarrowed, or spoked tons of times 👌! |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by Truvelisback(op): 9:56pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
NOETHNICITY:I'm not against that. You should also know that compactability is very important too. You getting married to a virgin and you do not play your role or responsibilities as a man, you can still lose her to another man. |
| Re: Virginity doesn't guarantee a Successful Marriage by NOETHNICITY(m): 10:03pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Truvelisback:So when I don’t play role or responsibilities for non-virgins they will stay? |
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