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| He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by dilliond89(op): 11:11pm On Aug 14, 2025 |
I met James during my 200 level in the university. Back then, things were tough for my family — my dad had just lost his job, and my mum’s petty trading could barely feed us. It all started when I was on the verge of dropping out because I couldn’t pay my school fees. James, who was just a casual friend at that time, noticed my mood one day and asked what was wrong. I told him everything, thinking he would just encourage me. Two days later, he sent me the exact amount I needed to pay my fees — without even asking for anything in return. That single act of kindness changed my view of him completely. We grew closer, and before I knew it, we started dating. Fast forward three years — I’ve graduated, done my NYSC, and James has been nothing but supportive all through. He’s always talked about marrying me, and honestly, I had no reason to say no. But here’s the problem… my parents recently introduced me to a wealthy family friend’s son who just returned from the UK. They are pressuring me to marry him because, according to them, “he can give you a better life.” I feel torn apart. This is the same James who stood by me when I had nothing. The same man who sacrificed so much for me. But now my family is threatening to disown me if I refuse the other man’s proposal. Please… what should I do? Follow my heart and choose James, or obey my parents and marry the man they want? 2 Likes |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by MMempire(m): 5:24am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Run far away to the moon to clear your head. Then, return back after clearing your head to tell your parents that they will not live your life for you. 3 Likes |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by dilliond89(op): 5:41am On Aug 15, 2025 |
How MMempire: 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Lalami3232(m): 5:51am On Aug 15, 2025 |
 Some men will never listen!!! Honestly, I have nothing to advise you but James. If to say na James give this post, I would have given him a tangible advise. What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Isokoson: 6:56am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Aunty, if you leave James, you go become the biggest betrayer of all time, James Don dey give you better life dey come with the little he earns, you wan marry rich American man because your parents want you to marry him, sorry to say your parents are ungrateful, someone you even barely know, if him be woman beater, what if una ideology no match...but James you know him character. Parent should stop interfering in Dia children love life, my parent tried that rubbish with me, I stood my ground and told them to disown me if they want, I went ahead and marry my wife and since then my peace of mind is priceless . You know even need this matter to disturb you self. But I know say to leave the James and follow rich man Don dey hungry you.. But on a serious note, if you leave James that means you will become the most ungrateful human being on earth. Because that young man no do you anything and you said it your self. He stood for you when your parent no fit stand. Omo be wise oh. No allow your parent choose partner for you abeg.... Every small thing dey go dey use disown they trait their children... That shit nah old fashion, my disown me come later beg me.. And as they disown me, I no die. I live my life 4 Likes |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Sonnobax15(m): 7:12am On Aug 15, 2025 |
 Na WA for some parents oh... TBH,I don't think you're at fault,and I wouldn't bash you nor your parents cuz I've regards and respect for elders as an urhobo man  BUT,Imagine forgetting all the sacrifices James made for their daughter just in a jiffy simply because a wealthy man's son just returned from the U.K simply shows the reason why these genz marriages of nowadays doesn't last longer than a 2 seconds man Well,if James had known before now,that the future would be blurry just like it is now, perhaps he would have invested the money he spent on you on something else,even if it was Keke or Keke apart parts . By now,James would have been bigger than how he was.... 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by suckprick: 7:18am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Forget James and marry the UK man. Simps need to learn the hard way. 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by ukaface(f): 7:27am On Aug 15, 2025 |
dilliond89:Run away with James.. I mean Elope with james |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Belurved1(m): 8:34am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Madam, you're not in love with any of them. Just go for better offer (that rich guy your parent support), and then refund all the money the first guy has spent on you to have peace of mind. |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by dilliond89(op): 8:56am On Aug 15, 2025 |
You can still say something Lalami Lalami3232: |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by fuckingAyaya(m): 8:58am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Whatever happens to you afterwards blame your parent. Divinity always judge fairly before passing judgment, whosoever is found guilty always bear the consequences no matter their age. 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by NwaliE01: 9:17am On Aug 15, 2025 |
James was way better positioned in your life than your parents. He did what your parents could not do. Offered you a life your parents could not give you. If you leave James, his goodness will forever hunt you. 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Southysouth(f): 9:46am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Life doesn’t seem greener on the other side….think about everything thoroughly. |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by SisterAnn(f): 9:58am On Aug 15, 2025 |
Aunty, you want to us to tell you marry the acata guy right? Go ahead cos that's what you really want. James is not the first person to sponsor a woman through school. 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by AndroBlaze: 12:03pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
Please marry for love and not to repay a debt. Also if you end up marrying for riches and not love, the same end is likely to befall you, i.e. regret. 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Baronthecelebri(m): 12:25pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
Leave James and marry the rich guy, and also return the money James spent on you. |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Babangidapikin: 12:59pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
Talk to James first, he might just be trying to help you genuinely but na you attach yourself. If he agrees reach a settlement, if not go explain to your parents, if your parents says no , pray to God. |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Esthered: 1:12pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
She'll do her parents bidding. |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Double0h7(f): 1:43pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
It seems she doesn’t love either men so 1 must suffer; I say let the UK guy suffer her. 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by mecuries(m): 2:45pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
NwaliE01:The honest truth is that nothing would happen to neither her nor her parents. Like someone wrote earlier "Simps would learn the hard way". That is a fact 1 Like |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by Starboytwo(m): 3:00pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
James is the tragic hero here. I felt for James. He is more of your father.... I mean, he came through for you when even your biological father or mother could pull through... James is Gold. |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by gunners160(m): 3:30pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
AndroBlaze:. Marry for love is the most useless reason for marriage. Most people only marryu because of love? what happens to compatbility, growth, sense, vision amongst others. I hate it when i c people say marry for love. Na only love dey |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by AndroBlaze: 4:51pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
gunners160:Are you female and at least happily married for 5 years? |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by MONEY247: 5:17pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
Marry the UK guy... At least for better life... |
| Re: He Paid My School Fees, Now My Parents Want Me To Marry Someone Else by RAPSTARBENHOPE(m): 5:31pm On Aug 15, 2025 |
suckprick:Guy you no get joy atall 😅🤣 |
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