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It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

You got wet for another nigha?

Meaning if he had toasted you,who knows, perhaps he would have roasted you

Madam, you should have scolded the colleagues right there...but since you didn't,well let's say your sins will be forgiven since you've confessed

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

Hmm
How do we judge this matter?
But, I would suggest you be more careful next time. Steer clear off that male colleague and never allow any male touch you in inappropriate places.

You being married doesn't mean you wouldn't get attracted to other men, what matters is how you react to the feeling.

I'd advise that you distance yourself from the colleague... Let everything between the two of you be strictly professional and only work related.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

The fact that a male colleague will grope you-a married woman, shows that you have a problem setting boundaries.

I see this happen every day in my office and just feel sad for the husbands. Because most women today don't have self awareness, they accept anything. You see them laughing sheepishly instead of confronting the male colleague.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

You have not cheated. Temptation came and you overcame it, congratulations.
Before i forget, dont tell your husband, Men dont know how to handle such truth. He wont let it go.
THERE IS NOTHING TO CONFESS

If your BF wet for another girl,shey you go like am?

Dzzzz:
You Dey play…This babe fit done collect one short for bathroom👀

She confirmed, she hasn't, i believe her. Nothing to confess. The Husband may not be able to handle it as it is. She should let it go and forgive herself

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

Classical oxymoron? Never had feelings for him yet the flood gates were opened upon his touch. Something is amiss. I believe you know what that is and what you must do.

This girl with made up stories. Anyway, you no be stick.

Just be careful if you truly duh wanna cheat on your hubby

There are some secrets you should take with you to the grave...this is one of them

You can only get aroused by someone you have feelings for without deep sensual touches or penetration as a woman.

Stop deceiving yourself.

There are sone secret you carry to your grave else it will destroy everything you have built. Just stop it NOW!

Exceed15:
There are sone secret you carry to your grave else it will destroy everything you have built. Just stop it NOW!

Their is nothing left, her mind is outside already, her mind don dey cheat already.

Before someone could start holding you by the waist it's not a normal play again, she has allowed it with little other acts and talk too.

Rexymania:
This girl with made up stories. Anyway, you no be stick.

Just be careful if you truly duh wanna cheat on your hubby

She is a classic troll. Very good with "My Husband" themes.

Let assume what she is true, because it's happening everyday in office settings. Madam you are cheating your husband.

Cheating does not start from penetration, its begins from these "I touch you, he touch me" kind of scenarios.

My kinded advise for you is once you are married and a womanizer like your colleague see a woman, their is a way of passing or toasting without coming out plain, he will want to touch you in some sensitive area to see your reaction, their is no crime in that, where d crime lies is your reaction.., if you don't react that's a green light, but if the so call colleague is been sanctioned he will never try such again..but from your write-up you enjoy the touching..😂😂no let ham pass like that ooo...it's wrong.. respect dat innocent man at home pls..just walkup to him politely a d tell him you don't want to embarrass him that's why you let it slide but he shouldn't try that rubbish with you anymore...ire oo

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

Juliearth:
Classical oxymoron? Never had feelings for him yet the flood gates were opened upon his touch. Something is amiss. I believe you know what that is and what you must do.

She was ovulating

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

conji wan finish this woman o

You are not attracted to him yet you got wet..
Just dey play.
That guy go soon nyash you and you will call it a mistakes.
It's either your husband is not doing a good job or you are a flert ..
You sure have feelings for the guy but denying it..
Think about your marriage and do something .
Why would someone who's not close to you hold you by the waist?

Nope you have not.

lilyheaven:
She was ovulating

That's another angle, but ovulating women don't react that way.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

If your story is not imagination, I'm seeing you warming the bed of your colleague repeatedly in no distance time.

Have you cheated on him? YES. By not talking nonsense to such colleague after holding your waist making you guilty, infact, you already downgraded your hubby in public for such immoral act, even if you aren't married, by allowing man who is not having relationship with you to touch any sensitive part in your body unchecked, defined you as a loose woman.

[b]Did you need to tell your husband? No for now. You still don't need to tell him for now, but if you fight to wade off such feelings in days to come and you are unable quench it, you must quickly inform your husband, provided, he is a type who understands and mature enough to handle the situation.

NB. Man and woman who are not family can't be friends, you people would start arguing it. This is one of outcomes of such careless friendships.

princepee:
You are not attracted to him yet you got wet..
Just dey play.
That guy go soon nyash you and you will call it a mistakes.
It's either your husband is not doing a good job or you are a flert ..
You sure have feelings for the guy but denying it..
Think about your marriage and do something .
Why would someone who's not close to you hold you by the waist?

Very unfortunate, you people didn't understand, how human beings are genetically built-up. NO WOMAN IN THIS WORLD THAT HAS NOT SEEN/MET ANOTHER MALE THAT, SHE ATTRACTED TO BEFORE, EVEN IF IT'S ONCE. "JUST LIKE THE WAY, MAN WILL HAVE WIFE AND STILL SEEING ANOTHER WOMAN OUTSIDE, IN WHICH, HE HAS FEELINGS FOR."
THE ABILITY TO QUICKLY QUENCH SUCH FEELINGS, IS WHAT DISTINGUISHED WOMAN, AS A VIRTUE WOMAN from LOOSE WOMAN.

Emmy000seun:
My kinded advise for you is once you are married and a womanizer like your colleague see a woman, their is a way of passing or toasting without coming out plain, he will want to touch you in some sensitive area to see your reaction, their is no crime in that, where d crime lies is your reaction.., if you don't react that's a green light, but if the so call colleague is been sanctioned he will never try such again..but from your write-up you enjoy the touching..😂😂no let ham pass like that ooo...it's wrong.. respect dat innocent man at home pls..just walkup to him politely a d tell him you don't want to embarrass him that's why you let it slide but he shouldn't try that rubbish with you anymore...ire oo

How can a man hold waist of another woman that he doesn't having relationship with? Not even married woman. And to make it worst, the woman doesn't talk nonsense to such man.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

No you haven't. You're human, being attracted to another person will happen.

What you NEED to do now is to start treating that colleague like he has leprosy, in your mind. The devil will try and use him and he will come and be asking you "what's wrong nau, are we quarrelling?". Smile and say "no" but let that be the absolute last time you are ever alone with him or speak to him privately. I'm dead serious, don't even THINK of downplaying this and saying "there's nothing going o, let me be matured". The devil will laugh and realize you're No 2,637,879th victim he's just caught.

Go home to your husband and become playful with him. Why? Because your colleague gave you 20% of what you wanted (Playful Affection and Attention) and you're about to throw away 80% of what you have for that 20%.

And that's just bad Math for life

So go and get that playfulness from your legal man: buy some lingerie (lacy nonsense), tight mini jeans shorts, rub your body on your hubby anyhow, share jokes with him, wear perfume and lipgloss around the house.

Preciousgirl:
It's hard for me but I will confess here. My colleague of course male colleague playfully held my waist at the workplace and I got aroused. I have never had feelings for him though. I was a little wet. Have I cheated? Should I confess this to my husband? What really happened since I don't have feelings for the guy? Could that me juju at work?

yes confess it very fast to that your imaginary husband