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It's a long story sha,but make I just round up everything to it nearest whole number.
This is a real life story
the guy was just a barrack okada rider
While the girl is a child of a soldier
Who mistakenly became a soldier during the Nigeria civil war.
The duo live together struggling until luck shines on the boy,where he used someone ssce result to join the Nigeria navy,for betterment of their family the girl voluntied to sponsor him in the University.
She started sell food, caring for both husband and children, after the graduated they did their wedding,
He pregnanted her again before returning to his working place.since then he never cared for them again, even his children is not going to schoo again,he married another woman and now he wants to divorce his first wife.she is in a confused state now as am typing this.

I feel sorry for her catering for 5 children alone and her business gone, according to her she has only 200k with her

Verbtips:
even his children is not going to schoo again,he married another woman and now he wants to divorce his first wife.she is in a confused state now as am typing this.

na the one wey the woman tell u b dat.

where's the man's own side of the story?

AllBlack:
na the one wey the woman tell u b dat.

where's the man's own side of the story?

No matter his side of the story, I will condemn him for leaving his wife and children to get married to another woman. If the story was that he had another woman outside or that he slept with another woman, then I would like to hear his side. It takes a strong hearted person to abandon marriage but it takes a heartless person to abandon children. If marriage is not working for you, you'll know within one year and get out of it. You can't say you don't know, you are just worried about people will say. You can't tell me your wife or your husband is bad but you continue to have children up to five. Let's tell ourselves the truth sometimes.

Nonexisting1:
No matter his side of the story, I will condemn him for leaving his wife and children to get married to another woman. If the story was that he had another woman outside or that he slept with another woman, then I would like to hear his side. It takes a strong hearted person to abandon marriage but it takes a heartless person to abandon children. If marriage is not working for you, you'll know within one year and get out of it. You can't say you don't know, you are just worried about people will say. You can't tell me your wife or your husband is bad but you continue to have children up to five. Let's tell ourselves the truth sometimes.

the have 5 children in total after the the marriage the pregnated her again before he return to duty,it was during this time everything started,one of them fell into the suckaway while playing at home and no one was there to rescue her,so now they have 4 plus the recent one 5

AllBlack:
na the one wey the woman tell u b dat.

where's the man's own side of the story?

he has nothing to say

These kind of stories keep cropping up.

People should stop investing in others at the expense of themselves. People change! If you want to invest in someone else, make sure you are also investing in yourself at the same time. There are no guarantees anywhere. Some people invested in others and it paid off; some did and it was the worst decision of their lives.

Experience with women has taught me to always hear from the man when a woman alleges.

Another thing experience has taught is that women always claim they suffer with a man, they did this and that for him, until you hear the man side of the story.

Helpout12345:
Experience with women has taught me to always hear from the man when a woman alleges.

Another thing experience has taught is that women always claim they suffer with a man, they did this and that for him, until you hear the man side of the story.

I understand but everyone knows, what this woman has pass through.even the husband can't justify him self .even if there is a beef between them must he include the children.

Verbtips:
I understand but everyone knows, what this woman has pass through.even the husband can't justify him self .even if there is a beef between them must he include the children.

Have you or the people around them asked and hear d from the man his reasons for behaving like this?

What is his own side of the story??

She so the sign but she went ahead to marry him

Helpout12345:
Have you or the people around them asked and hear d from the man his reasons for behaving like this?

What is his own side of the story??

he said he is not interested in her again

Helpout12345:
Have you or the people around them asked and hear d from the man his reasons for behaving like this?

What is his own side of the story??

this one no be talk i swear. Make the woman sleep with anoda man , make the woman poison ham think about what is even worst than this, a man should never abadon his blood. He can do away with the woman if he wishes but not the childern. The children did not begged to be brought into this world, it is their pleasure for flesh that brought them to this world . So, the man should do the needful. If he knows he is not capable then abort them before bringing them to suffer. Hearing the man side of the story is just to tell us how miserable the woman was .. What about the innocent kid? Tomorrow they will become a nuisance that u and I will also pay for because there was no light guiding them

Some people would reward your good with evil...

Don't think it too much...

Doesn't matter if karma rewards them back, just figure out a way to get out of the mess.

Nature has a way for everyone...

Helpout12345:
Experience with women has taught me to always hear from the man when a woman alleges.

Another thing experience has taught is that women always claim they suffer with a man, they did this and that for him, until you hear the man side of the story.

If woman garnish story to make herself look like a saint, you'll never believe anything else but her own version. 😁


The man should take responsibility for caring for his own kids.