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Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Kontrol97(op): 8:17pm On Aug 18, 2025
A businessman, Malam Baballe Ibrahim, has incurred a heavy loss after spending huge sums of money to perform the marriage rites of his wife, Hauwa’u and one year after, the wife dumped him.
The Shari’a Court in Magajin Gari, Kaduna State, has dissolved the marriage between the businessman, Malam Baballe Ibrahim and his wife, Hauwa’u, and the Court ordered the wife to refund him only N120,000 despite the huge sum of money he spent on her.

The embattled husband protested before the Court that since the wife no longer wanted the marriage, she should refund all the money he spent on her before and after the marriage before she filed for divorce.

However, the Court presided over by Malam Kabir Muhammad declined the request but granted the divorce through khul’i (redemption), which allows a woman to end her marriage by refunding the dowry paid by her husband.To that effect, the Court ordered Hauwa’u to return ₦100,000 dowry and an additional ₦20,000 described as Kudin Gaisuwa — money traditionally given to her parents during the introduction ceremony.

The Court also directed Ibrahim to allow his estranged wife to retrieve her belongings from his house and allow peace to reign for the parties go their separate ways.

But Ibrahim has resisted the divorce, insisting that his ex-wife must reimburse not only the dowry but also all he spent on her from the time they began courting until their separation.

He claimed to have spent heavily on her upkeep, including money for skincare, clothing, makeup, and other personal needs.

Despite his demands, the judge clarified that only the dowry and Kudin Gaisuwa were refundable under khul’i. The marriage was officially dissolved, paving the way for Hauwa’u to leave the union legally and independently.

The case underscores the growing number of disputes in Shari’a courts, where disagreements over divorce settlements and financial responsibilities often become contentious issue in the society.
https://pmexpressng.com/woman-dumps-husband-one-year-after-spending-huge-sum-of-money-on-marriage/

Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by DoctorStanley: 8:21pm On Aug 18, 2025
In the case of a man divorcing his wife in Islam, all he has to do is say "I divorce you" 3 times and they're divorced!
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by EmperorIsaac(m):
The rest money is for the "enjoyment" he derived from her body after marriage. He should go and count his loss. grin
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by madridguy(m): 8:27pm On Aug 18, 2025
The case underscores the growing number of disputes in Shari’a courts, where disagreements over divorce settlements and financial responsibilities often become contentious issue in the society.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by PerfectStranger(m): 8:59pm On Aug 18, 2025
Is this not haram?

Read down my people I'm active.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Rexymania(m): 9:34pm On Aug 18, 2025
He's not a real man, that was why his wife left him
Look at how he's talking...you want to collect money wey you spend during courtship. LoL who does that? Leave her and go and marry a younger girl
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Baronthecelebri(m): 8:36am On Aug 19, 2025
The man should count his lost and move on
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Therock5555(m): 9:52am On Aug 19, 2025
Make the man no gree for that judgment, the woman cannot eat her cake and have it...


She should just go back to her father's house and start all over again cause it shows that she has lots of expensive items bought by her ex husband in his house, she no do again with the man but she still wan go him house to pack property...


Make the man just gather her kaya go market, him money go comot small...
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by autoez: 12:08pm On Aug 19, 2025
Marriage is so overrated abeg. It should be the least most important thing in a man's short life.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by omoredia: 12:09pm On Aug 19, 2025
Lol sharia scam lol. He tried to play her but she was faster
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Olu1000: 12:10pm On Aug 19, 2025
The man should move on ! That’s y you don’t invest more than you can afford to lose on a woman
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Treasure17(m): 12:11pm On Aug 19, 2025
If you had done this now, you won't be regretting your actions.

Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by jetwonder(m): 12:11pm On Aug 19, 2025
grin angry grin grin
Marriage na legit! But you have to be very careful about some gold-diggers called wife.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by AdolfHitlerxXx: 12:17pm On Aug 19, 2025
Hausa men very often ask for full refund of all spent on GFs especially.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by rhythyson: 12:18pm On Aug 19, 2025
who send am message

i need more character to explain myself
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by AntiChristian: 12:22pm On Aug 19, 2025
The man suppose don give her 2 Miliion as dowry and close to zero spending on her!

He for cash out big time now!

She has the dowry to herself in the first place!
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Chinny024(f): 12:22pm On Aug 19, 2025
Kontrol97:
https://pmexpressng.com/woman-dumps-husband-one-year-after-spending-huge-sum-of-money-on-marriage/
So, he is only after what he spent?..

This goes a long way to show there wasn't any love involved..

Just 2 adults who decided to settle for nothing..
It's well...
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by McBishop2020: 12:26pm On Aug 19, 2025
Did you Bleep her at all?
If yes, then case closed.
You've collected your money.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Benrosaria(m):
E never chi Chonchin.

Who send you make you ask her hand in marriage. You spend finish you want make she pay you back...ekpa


Them even chuck am more needle by ordering the wife to pack her belongings in his house. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Pick 2

General market

Check 🃏🤝
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by gbaskiboy: 12:36pm On Aug 19, 2025
The man should just accept his fate and move on with his Life. Let him consider the money spent on the marriage as money invested on business and the business failed. That is what life it is, move on
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by floss(m): 12:41pm On Aug 19, 2025
Government should make women finance their wedding how they seem fit, a man’s duty is only to pay bride price.. and the bride price shouldn’t exceed 50k naira

If a man feel like he won a trophy by getting married, he can assist the woman to share the burden of celebration.

You will observe that the rate of divorce will reduce drastically…a woman that spent less than 5m naira will think twice before asking for a divorce. Also everyone can leave the way they came after divorce, no sharing of anyone’s property.

If there’s a child, the man and the woman will contribute equally financially by paying a certain sum into an account created for the child, which both parents can monitor how money comes in and goes out, and for whatever purposes.


You will see that women will finally see that divorce is expensive and will drain them more.


Let no woman deceive you about the burden of taking care of a child, with the same transparency, many men will take care of their children better than women.


Women hates transparency especially when it concerns them
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Iamsane: 12:42pm On Aug 19, 2025
madridguy:
The case underscores the growing number of disputes in Shari’a courts, where disagreements over divorce settlements and financial responsibilities often become contentious issue in the society.
Typical chatgpt response... manufacturing a problem that doesn't occur in a real islamic marriage.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by tuoyoojo(m): 12:47pm On Aug 19, 2025
Any other money apart from bride price, na beer beer bank that one that enter- oti lor-----that is y it is good to do small wedding

make we nor go hear stories that touch

Would the man refund the nacks and emotional support given before and after the marriage ni
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by DEBJOCH1(m): 12:55pm On Aug 19, 2025
The husband need to enroll into the Gheghe University of Wisdom and Understanding. Admission is still open for 2025/2026 session.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Jughead29: 12:57pm On Aug 19, 2025
So you guys have seen clearly now that money isn't everything in Marriage. Are you managing or passing through challenges in marriage?
And blaming your inability to provide enough money?

Read this 👇

Woman that will stay will stay, one who won't stay won't stay.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by stuffs2002: 1:11pm On Aug 19, 2025
AdolfHitlerxXx:
Hausa men very often ask for full refund of all spent on GFs especially.
This is not true. I don't know why you chose to lie against a people like this
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by DounleP: 1:17pm On Aug 19, 2025
This one na labor party wedding oh, Mama papa piking loll
Treasure17:
If you had done this now, you won't be regretting your actions.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Maxzyx: 1:29pm On Aug 19, 2025
Cool. Very easy way of separation. Thank God no life is lost between the duo
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by bigdammyj: 1:37pm On Aug 19, 2025
That should be a good news to the Man.

A businessman, Malam Baballe Ibrahim, has incurred a heavy loss after spending huge sums of money to perform the marriage rites of his wife, Hauwa’u and one year after, the wife dumped him.
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by Kobicove(m): 1:50pm On Aug 19, 2025
If you take a loan to do wedding be prepared to take whatever you see in the event that the marriage does not last undecided
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by iykololo(m): 1:55pm On Aug 19, 2025
DoctorStanley:
In the case of a man divorcing his wife in Islam, all he has to do is say "I divorce you" 3 times and they're divorced!
What if I say 'I no do again' to my gf 3 times, does it count?
Re: Woman Dumps Husband One Year After Spending Huge Sum Of Money On Marriage by DoctorStanley: 2:06pm On Aug 19, 2025
iykololo:
What if I say 'I no do again' to my gf 3 times, does it count?
grin grin


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