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There's an increasing trend among Nigerian ladies of 35+ years manipulating younger men into marriage with them.

A friend of mine recently told me how a lady of 38 yrs got pregnant for his younger brother who's 27 yrs and tried to manipulate the far younger boy to marry her.

What baffles me when it comes to our ladies is how they think and believe the game will always be simple and thus will always favour 'em.

It baffles me how a lady in her early, mid and sometimes late 20s will roll with men who are older than her by 10 - 20 years while calling her male age mates and 5 years older men small boys but when she gets to 33 she'll expect those same small and br00ke boys to expressly propose marriage to her.

At 33 they start getting infuriated whenever they see their male agemate get married to ladies in their mid or late 20s claiming they're marrying small girls they can control.

My question is:

What happened to those matured men they dated in their 20s and what happened to the claim that they can't date small boys but can only date men that are 10+ years older than them ?

Are they not marriage worthy to those men?

Why do they think that they are now marriage worthy to their age mates and younger men after they've been dumped by their spec and taste? Or are they big, matured and rich men not seeing them worthy as a wife?

My Advice To These Set of Ladies:

Please leave the younger men alone and focus on your spec of men for marriage - I'm talking about those men that are 10 - 20+ years older than you.

I don't see anything wrong for you to become a second wife to the man of your spec or taste.

You can't eat your cake and still have it back

Jman06:
There was this lady I proposed love to when I finished secondary school and was doing a small business while looking for university admission then. The lady rejected me but was following one guy who happens to be a medical doctor. I picked the pieces of my broken heart and moved on.

Fast forward to today, this lady -- having been dumped by the guy and several other men, thinks I should still marry her despite the previous rejection. Of course she's now over 35. What I plan to do to her as my revenge is to give her hopes of marrying her until the very day she'll see my wedding invitation card.

Just imagine marrying such lady and inheriting the problem of infertility due to menopause, God forbid! Even the biggest simp of our generation will not do that. She can't eat her cake and have it.

My G you actually did well . To find true love is when you are young and broke....They want already made instead of building.

In their early to mid 20s while frolicking with sugar daddies that are 10 to 30 years older than them, they turn you down and ridicule any of your proposals saying they are not your mate and that you are just a small boy. When they get to their mid to late 30’s they become confused and desperate and if you carelessly lend them just a finger they grab your whole hand and begin to quote marital relationship benefits and advice to you so you won't let go.

If I talk Watin Dey my mind Nairaland go ban me again
U deserve to be employ in ghe ghe university for this advice

Jman06:
There was this lady I proposed love to when I finished secondary school and was doing a small business while looking for university admission then. The lady rejected me but was following one guy who happens to be a medical doctor. I picked the pieces of my broken heart and moved on.

Fast forward to today, this lady -- having been dumped by the guy and several other men, thinks I should still marry her despite the previous rejection. Of course she's now over 35. What I plan to do to her as my revenge is to give her hopes of marrying her until the very day she'll see my wedding invitation card.

Just imagine marrying such lady and inheriting the problem of infertility due to menopause, God forbid! Even the biggest simp of our generation will not do that. She can't eat her cake and have it.

Bro Abeg pity am
Tell am the truth mak he no the way forward as early as possible

Racheal45:
Bro Abeg pity am
Tell am the truth mak he no the way forward as early as possible

I no go tell directly. I go just dey give the hints but if she no code, that one concern am.

Jman06:
I no go tell directly. I go just dey give the hints but if she no code, that one concern am.

Her only hope to pin u down na belle
If u choose to do Abeg use condom and mak sure u pull out before u release even if u wear condom

Naso I dey nack one way older lady and she was like, 'where were you all my life?'

I still dey junior secondary school, I whispered back...


She was like, I wish I can cut this thing and take it with me.

I told her, 'if say others wey taste am before you cut am, you for see am enjoy?"



Choi nothing that mama no do me to be hers solely but as a very naughty boy, I dey jump the obstacle tebe to tebe......

ARISHEM:
In their early to mid 20s while frolicking with sugar daddies of 10 to 30 years older than them they turn you down and any of your proposals saying they are not your mate and that you are just a small boy. When they get to their mid to late 30’s they become confused and desperate and if you carelessly lend them just a finger they grab your whole hand and begin to quote marital relationship benefits and advice for you so you won't let go

There's a female course mate back then that will always talk down on any girl that dates a fellow student boasting that she can never date a fellow student nor a small boy. Her spec of men were men 15+ older than her. During our final year, clearance year and a year after NYSC many of our female mates got married and she's was always telling me how the girls got married to poor men that will make them suffer in marriage (laughing and mocking the girls).

Fast forward to now, she should be about 36-37 now, a male course mate recently told me how she brought marital discussion with him when their path crossed and they had. something together. This is the lady that won't even relate with the guy when we were in school.

Racheal45:
If I talk Watin Dey my mind Nairaland go ban me again
U deserve to be employ in ghe ghe university for this advice

My brother NL no want make we express ourselves anymore oo

ediko5:
There's a female course mate back then that will always talk down on any girl that dates a fellow student boasting that she can never date a fellow student nor a small boy. Her spec of men were men 15+ older than her. During our final year, clearance year and a year after NYSC many of our female mates got married and she's was always telling me how the girls got married to poor men that will make them suffer in marriage (laughing and mocking the girls).
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Fast forward to now, she should be about 36-37 now, a male course mate recently told me how she brought marital discussion with him when their path crossed and they had. something together. This is the lady will won't even relate with the guy when we were in [/b]school.

He should look the other way, them no dey use emotions with women. Women don't give a damn about men when it comes to taking decisions on relationships.

Jman06:
I no go tell directly. I go just dey give the hints but if she no code, that one concern am.

Be careful o
Make she no use you achieve one pikin o.
Very soon, Na who go give her belle she go dey find to escape menopause not just marriage

Jamb left the group chat...
Gehgeh University entry requirement is minimum C6 in logical reasoning
jamb don't do the subject ..

I no talk pass like that..

I geh class and assignment

Jman06:
There was this lady I proposed love to when I finished secondary school and was doing a small business while looking for university admission then. The lady rejected me but was following one guy who happens to be a medical doctor. I picked the pieces of my broken heart and moved on.

Fast forward to today, this lady -- having been dumped by the guy and several other men, thinks I should still marry her despite the previous rejection. Of course she's now over 35. What I plan to do to her as my revenge is to give her hopes of marrying her until the very day she'll see my wedding invitation card.

Just imagine marrying such lady and inheriting the problem of infertility due to menopause, God forbid! Even the biggest simp of our generation will not do that. She can't eat her cake and have it.

This is absolute rubbish. She did the right thing at the time. How do you propose to a lady when you just finished secondary school and had not found your feet? You were even still looking for admission and you thought your small business could cater for family needs at the time? U were not even mentally mature and even now it shows. u were infatuated with her and u mistook it for love and by now u would've also dumped her if she had tarried

Ediko5 the table shaker aka the violence maestro. Make I relax read comments.

Ask them to list examples, they will recall only two or four. This is not an issue. It’s making news because it is not the norm.

Jman06:
There was this lady I proposed love to when I finished secondary school and was doing a small business while looking for university admission then. The lady rejected me but was following one guy who happens to be a medical doctor. I picked the pieces of my broken heart and moved on.

Fast forward to today, this lady -- having been dumped by the guy and several other men, thinks I should still marry her despite the previous rejection. Of course she's now over 35. What I plan to do to her as my revenge is to give her hopes of marrying her until the very day she'll see my wedding invitation card.

Just imagine marrying such lady and inheriting the problem of infertility due to menopause, God forbid! Even the biggest simp of our generation will not do that. She can't eat her cake and have it.

Don't string her along, instead tell her outrightly that you are not interested. Nature is already dealing with her. Don't add to her woes by deceiving her. Just an advice though.

Most ladies at that age bracket in Nigeria will conceive it almost impossible to get a man of their dreams again for marriage.

Also due to the prevailing hard economic issue, most struggling matured guys that cld marry them will just sleep with them and escape away.

Calculatively, major thing they will begin to look into at that age is not love, but to have a child for a man that they can see as having a future, or immediate resources to take care of them or at least their child.

Their choices are very limited at this stage, so the pressure is much, hence jumping unto a younger man.

*Once again, such ladies nowadays will only want to birth a child for a man they perceive as having a future. The age factor regardless.

Talo fe fe arugbo.

Oshi ni ile pako

Oko lori obo won lau lag

Shior

Jman06:
There was this lady I proposed love to when I finished secondary school and was doing a small business while looking for university admission then. The lady rejected me but was following one guy who happens to be a medical doctor. I picked the pieces of my broken heart and moved on.

Fast forward to today, this lady -- having been dumped by the guy and several other men, thinks I should still marry her despite the previous rejection. Of course she's now over 35. What I plan to do to her as my revenge is to give her hopes of marrying her until the very day she'll see my wedding invitation card.

Just imagine marrying such lady and inheriting the problem of infertility due to menopause, God forbid! Even the biggest simp of our generation will not do that. She can't eat her cake and have it.

Don't conclude yet. You can try to get her pregnant first. If it works, then marry her. She has realised her mistake

Chaiiiiiii, this thread go sweet sha....
Let me grab a seat

It's been happening for long, the margin is just closing now and women are more desperate and settling for hungry younger guys.
Even Toke's sperm donor is allegedly a younger mixed race guy from a rich home.
He's 5yrs younger!

Jman06:
There was this lady I proposed love to when I finished secondary school and was doing a small business while looking for university admission then. The lady rejected me but was following one guy who happens to be a medical doctor. I picked the pieces of my broken heart and moved on.

Fast forward to today, this lady -- having been dumped by the guy and several other men, thinks I should still marry her despite the previous rejection. Of course she's now over 35. What I plan to do to her as my revenge is to give her hopes of marrying her until the very day she'll see my wedding invitation card.

Just imagine marrying such lady and inheriting the problem of infertility due to menopause, God forbid! Even the biggest simp of our generation will not do that. She can't eat her cake and have it.

She is like a live cobra or mamba snake cut in the middle.......................you wanna learn in a hard way

at bolded, for your future peace sake, for your unborn children sake, for the spiritual peace of your future wife, for continuous prosperity coming your way in the near future: LET THIS LADY CARRY HER WAHALA GO! DONT have anything to do with her, her spirit, her body, her existence. SHE is going to be the CLOG in your wheel. It is going to be disastrous at the end. Fleeeeeeeeeeeee!!!


Proverbs 4:14-22
Do not enter the path of the wicked,
And do not walk in the way of evil. Avoid it, do not travel on it; Turn away from it and pass on. For they do not sleep unless they have done evil; And their sleep is taken away unless they make someone fall. For they eat the bread of wickedness, And drink the wine of violence. But the path of the just is like the shining sun, That shines ever brighter unto the perfect day. The way of the wicked is like darkness; They do not know what makes them stumble. My son, give attention to my words; Incline your ear to my sayings. Do not let them depart from your eyes; Keep them in the midst of your heart; For they are life to those who find them, And health to all their flesh.

Any young man who falls victim to this manipulation deserves it.