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Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by omooba969(m): 9:51am On Aug 20, 2025
tony0806:
I would have said something. But the truth is that I don't have something to say, since I don't know what triggered the situation
What triggered the situation is immaterial bcoz there's no justification for physical abuse.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Lithiumite: 9:53am On Aug 20, 2025
jmoore:
I stopped reading from 'my friend'.

Why always my friend?

Next!
Your friend now divorced, you can see the way he was smiling......are you thinking what I am thinking?
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Bankowner: 9:57am On Aug 20, 2025
tony0806:
I would have said something. But the truth is that I don't have something to say, since I don't know what triggered the situation
Whatever triggered the situation should not warrant the man laying his hands on the woman.

He's lucky he did it in Nigeria, he'd be in jail by now if it is in the western world.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by omooba969(m): 9:58am On Aug 20, 2025
Chubhie:
Was it buyer's remorse? Post nutt epiphany? I can imagine the nature of the frustrations that pushed him to slap his beloved 2 days into honeymoon. He deserves at least a refund.
RESTRAINT is a magical skill required in any ugly situation, very important in marriage as well.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by obinna58(m): 9:59am On Aug 20, 2025
Fake stories making front page
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by kpankpangolo: 9:59am On Aug 20, 2025
See that man’s face. His type always had one lie or the other in university to debate on. I see he’s moved his ministry to social media.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by omooba969(m): 10:00am On Aug 20, 2025
Northernblood8:
That is why you have to marry Igbo women. Those women are well trained
undecided

Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by AngelicBeing: 10:01am On Aug 20, 2025
Chubhie:
Was it buyer's remorse? Post nutt epiphany? I can imagine the nature of the frustrations that pushed him to slap his beloved 2 days into honeymoon. He deserves at least a refund.
Buyers remorse, post nutt epiphany, you mean after he cummed into the wife, he didn't like it, refund, like seriously 😳 , wetin person no go read for Nairaland, you have started again ooooooooo with your savage response.....
Mucheche shocked
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by omooba969(m): 10:04am On Aug 20, 2025
chiagozien:
She no spend one naira in the marriage so it will be easier for her to be misbehaving and walk away easily.

If not for kids men gain nothing in marriage.
What's your take on the physical abuse?
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Zinpat: 10:06am On Aug 20, 2025
lagostrendboy:
https://eyesoflagos.com/drama-as-woman-files-for-divorce-just-a-week-after-wedding/
That's a good step she took. Just 2 days, still in honeymoon oo 🤣
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Lumig: 10:07am On Aug 20, 2025
If one should dig deep about those clapping for her, it may be that they are either single parents or hopeless singles that are not happy with their co-females having a happy home.
Be-As-I-Be syndrome, more like witchcraft
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by erad(m): 10:07am On Aug 20, 2025
SocialJustice:
Nigerian men, don't marry from a poor family. Any girl that wants to marry should bring 40% of the marriage cost so when something like this happens, the man won't take the entire loss.
Entire loss how?
Not like she just upped and left. Her husband slapped her. What kind of weak man is that. You wey fit slap woman 2 days after wedding, what will happen after one month? After one year nko?

You no marry punching bag nah. If what he spent on the wedding and the people that sacrificed their time and resources to grace the event meant anything to him, he wouldn't have dared lift his hand to hit her.

So it's better she leaves him so he can happily marry a willing punching bag.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by joyfullyjoyous(f): 10:08am On Aug 20, 2025
Kudos to the woman. The animal had just started. That woman would have continued to suffer domestic violence in that marriage if she had not left
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Lithiumite: 10:09am On Aug 20, 2025
Patented:
Person wey dey slap for honeymoon phase, what will he be doing in 1-2 years
Do you know what could have been responsible for the altercation.....do you know if some secrets just came out to the husbands face? A lot of secrets are kept hidden between couples from each other even after marriage.....we should always bare it all before taking that big decision.....she is now on record to be a divorced.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Lumig: 10:10am On Aug 20, 2025
Lithiumite:
Your friend now divorced, you can see the way he was smiling......are you thinking what I am thinking?
I have also be thinking it ooo. He could even be the cause of the marital problem
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by omooba969(m): 10:10am On Aug 20, 2025
NassBoy:
When you meet someone you truly love and want to settle down with, believe me, you won't ask her to bring 40% to the table to cover for the marriage cost. In fact, you'll gladly empty ur account and even take a loan. So stop misleading others.
Ok undecided undecided
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Benbisco(f): 10:10am On Aug 20, 2025
Northernblood8:
That is why you have to marry Igbo women. Those women are well trained
Well trained for what? Suffer? Endurance? Accepting what is morally wrong and dying in silence, while kneeling down and saying "Nnayi", even when all is not well?
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by bmd1010: 10:10am On Aug 20, 2025
and any other man when wan marry now ifffffffffff she even see! the man go must ready to take insult, cause women ehhhhhhhhh
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Greenback: 10:15am On Aug 20, 2025
Kunle...friend of the bride!!!
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by omooba969(m): 10:17am On Aug 20, 2025
Lithiumite:
For her father to have had the will to arrest the guy,he most likely wouldn't be a poor man.....but in all,it's wrong,they should have allowed commonsense to prevail......her family has already added to her life issues by helping break her home.......to all those screaming domestic violence,not all men are animals, I once hit my wife out of anger but I still feel sorry till this day.....so many marital issues could be resolved with just a simple sit down.
Could have been a moment of a 'meltdown' or a sign of 'emotional dysregulation'.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Hismercy234: 10:24am On Aug 20, 2025
lagostrendboy:
https://eyesoflagos.com/drama-as-woman-files-for-divorce-just-a-week-after-wedding/
While I totally hate domestic violence and condemn it in the strongest terms, I still want to say that the woman may not say what really happened. Let's stop playing victim and do the right things. Only the two partners know exactly what happened. I pity this generation of 'I can't take nonsense from any man'
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Patented: 10:27am On Aug 20, 2025
Lithiumite:
Do you know what could have been responsible for the altercation.....do you know if some secrets just came out to the husbands face? A lot of secrets are kept hidden between couples from each other even after marriage.....we should always bare it all before taking that big decision.....she is now on record to be a divorced.
I kuku dont, just as you dont know if teh guy is just an asshole with Anger issues. the Koko is that if physical violence has come in this early, no matter the cause, there is clearly a cause for alarm
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Patented: 10:27am On Aug 20, 2025
Patented:
I kuku dont, just as you dont know if the guy is just an asshole with anger issues. The Koko is that if physical violence has come in this early, no matter the cause, there is clearly a cause for alarm
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by sammiewrite(m): 10:29am On Aug 20, 2025
Not that she discovered the man was impotent, a cultist, jobless or living a fake or double life. Not that she discovered the man had habits like gambling or substance abuse. Not that the man committed bigamy. Not the nth reasons why a woman can legit decide to leave a man shortly after marriage. But, you guessed it, always the domestic violence/sexual assault card. Women know by playing this card, they will win everytime. As a father, brother, uncle, friend or cousin, be very careful about your involvement when a woman approaches you with the claims of physical or sexual assault.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Lithiumite: 10:39am On Aug 20, 2025
omooba969:
Could have been a moment of a 'meltdown' or a sign of 'emotional dysregulation'.
Painful revelations could cause a serious meltdown.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Lithiumite: 10:41am On Aug 20, 2025
Patented:
I kuku dont, just as you dont know if teh guy is just an asshole with Anger issues. the Koko is that if physical violence has come in this early, no matter the cause, there is clearly a cause for alarm
May your lady never hit you so hard emotionally!!
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by RISQUE: 10:41am On Aug 20, 2025
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by royalfly(m): 10:49am On Aug 20, 2025
Kobicove:
This one is very serious...I can't say I blame her though.

No one should tolerate domestic violence
I am not in support of the guys actions but truly it's not all men that have been accused of domestic violence is true. Its easily used by women knowing that is where the sympathy would come from. Women lie alot and find a way to believe the lies. Another point is this. Why is domestic violence regarded as the last reaction. The violence is always first from the supposed victim, most times the real victims over react and that becomes the violence. Arresting the man? Africa has lost its values. If the father was a man of orientation he would call his daughter home, investigate call the man and if its true take the daughter back without police. The girls family is a family of violence, a family that believe they can have thier way any where anytime. Please, men don't beat your wives, it's a sign of weakness and lack of maturity. I know they can do and undo but be wise, she will leave with time so when you notice this things, do your best to manage it, if there is no head way. Rest! She will leave the home on her own with time, be calculative because even when she leaves. The lies will be worse, be calculative to have your facts that will console you when she leaves and if people try to be her flying monkeys which they always do, you will be able to presents your facts and leave it there. At least you know the truth, the biggest rubbish I have ever heard is, so you mean to tell me you did nothing. My dear I did nothing I was aware and took caution, played along because I knew a day will come when people would ask such question. Men be smart, being smart comes with pain. Believe me. So bear small pain cos the victory at the end is not that you got away from her but that your conscience is clear. My little piece of nonsense. Greetings to all men who suffer from false accusations, to all faithful caring loving men out ther especially if your kids are not with you, they even blame you for the kids not being with you. This world is wicked. My father, would say when you find a good woman your life will feel like honey
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by Seunomobo: 10:52am On Aug 20, 2025
SocialJustice:
Nigerian men, don't marry from a poor family. Any girl that wants to marry should bring 40% of the marriage cost so when something like this happens, the man won't take the entire loss.

Simps stop quoting me. This is my opinion.
You mean he is slapping the pain of the marriage cost out of the womannn grin grin grin grin..
The cost must be really painful.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by AKWATGOLD1(m): 10:55am On Aug 20, 2025
The man investment has gone down the drain. Considering the societal wedding
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by StoryHaven: 11:04am On Aug 20, 2025
tony0806:
I would have said something. But the truth is that I don't have something to say, since I don't know what triggered the situation
While it is wrong for a man to beat the wife, who knows what caused the slapping. Some women are so demonic that if you have decided never to raise your hand at them, they would provoke you to do so.
Two weeks after my wedding I had an argument with my wife that I nearly beat her. I just thank God I never did.
Imagine the woman you just married calling you Terrible names because you didn't allow her to have things her ways always.
Re: Drama As Woman Files For Divorce Just A Week After Wedding by royalfly(m): 11:05am On Aug 20, 2025
sammiewrite:
Not that she discovered the man was impotent, a cultist, jobless or living a fake or double life. Not that she discovered the man had habits like gambling or substance abuse. Not that the man committed bigamy. Not the nth reasons why a woman can legit decide to leave a man shortly after marriage. But, you guessed it, always the domestic violence/sexual assault card. Women know by playing this card, they will win everytime. As a father, brother, uncle, friend or cousin, be very careful about your involvement when a woman approaches you with the claims of physical or sexual assault.
You are experienced, men beating women dey fall hand. Even a word as much as I will slap you o is beating despite all the unbelievable aggression. I had about a woman who tried to kill herself over nothing and the husband told her that you have been living to people that I am beating you please if you want to kill yourself go back to your father's house and do so cos if you do it here, no one would believe me, she truly left and accused the man of sending her away. The truth is she did not tell anyone she wanted to kill herself she only told them the man said she should leave, the parents believed, called the man in a conference call with people around and asked the man if he told her to leave, the man said yes but that she was wanted to kill herself and this is what he told her. The parents agreed with thier daughter saying you see you told her to leave without considering everything. When the marraige finally broke with lies she told her parents the father also sent soldiers not police to help pack her things out. Lies is the greatest killer of marraige not the issues itself. A marraige may work if the truth is been told despite the great atrocity that may have been committed. A man killed his daughters boyfriend because she lied that the guy abused her in some sort of ways, latter the lies was open and the father went to jail. Majority of the time domestic violence is a lie especially when she claims that and no one is aware of that. Not even neighbours. She mystify the domestic violence claim to such extent that you would not even ask qu3stions. Please men, stop beating your wives if you do instead stretagise cos the end will surely come, always be ready.
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