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Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 12:20pm On Aug 20, 2025
If she's not feminine and exhibits male energy, Run.

If you need to correct her a second time, she's simply not willing to change. Run.

If she doesn't respect or regard you, Run.

If you're not in charge of the relationship Run.

Run from any woman who exhibits red flags you know you cannot live with.
And remember, one man's red flag na another man's bandana.

It doesn't matter how many 'real and intentional' men tolerate the bullshits you cannot tolerate.

Its not the world she's dealing with, its you were talkin about.
And if her characters are absolute deal breakers for you, Run.
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by OctavianAC(m): 12:21pm On Aug 20, 2025
Samantha125:
Define a troublesome lady in accordance to your understanding.
For example, one of them that I was dating those days, that would tell me that I will suffer, and I wash her pants, and will encourage her younger sisters to insult me.
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Brahamimo(m): 12:23pm On Aug 20, 2025
Samantha125:
Define a troublesome lady in accordance to your understanding.
In accordance "with"

According "to"
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by OctavianAC(m): 12:28pm On Aug 20, 2025
essentialone1:
You made good points. Most guys get stuck to Troublesome ladies, because she got pregnant for them. And they see no way out again.
But you mustn't marry her because she got pregnant for you, if the red flags are visible.
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 12:28pm On Aug 20, 2025
OctavianAC:
For example, one of them that I was dating those days, that would tell me that I will suffer, and I wash her pants, and will encourage her younger sisters to insult me.
Your village people wicked gan
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Eberex(m): 12:29pm On Aug 20, 2025
aswani:
You don't know these troublesome women well, they will hide their character until they are ready to pounce.

For some men, it will be too late as they have young children with them and they have to bear with a horrid life with a horrid person until the children grow up.
you no lie abeg. Some women can wait for 10 years before unleashing the demon in them
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Therock5555(m): 12:30pm On Aug 20, 2025
DeJoeee:
They are not difficult to spot nah, she's already shown you a major red flag and you're still speculating. Dunno why men find it difficult to spot red flags.
Dude I know what I'm doing...


If that I made that statement as you think it, you wouldn't have seen the comment sef....


To avoid bots these days, bend around your points...
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Samantha125(f): 12:35pm On Aug 20, 2025
Says someone who speaks broken English on a daily basis...😒😒😒
Brahamimo:
In accordance "with"

According "to"
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Greenback: 12:36pm On Aug 20, 2025
And most importantly,if you are a tall guy,avoid short men at all cost and by all means
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Samantha125(f): 12:38pm On Aug 20, 2025
The moment he mentioned AI, I discontinued reading.
Therock5555:
Even at that, the AI answer wasn't primarily wrong, Yes?
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by tollyboy5(m): 12:41pm On Aug 20, 2025
Samantha125:
For you to be consulting AI it means you don't know what you're talking about, therefore, I declare this explanation together with the entire thread as null and void.

Case closed.
How does using AI mean he doesn't understand what troublesome women meant?
Don't you understand English?
He said for general overview.
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by tollyboy5(m): 12:42pm On Aug 20, 2025
Samantha125:
The moment he mentioned AI, I discontinued reading.
huh huh

You're smarter than AI
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Samantha125(f): 12:43pm On Aug 20, 2025
Why talk about something you have no knowledge of in the first place?🤷🤷🤷
tollyboy5:
huh huh

You're smarter than AI
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Samantha125(f): 12:45pm On Aug 20, 2025
He doesn't know what he's talking... Finish and klaar.
tollyboy5:
How does using AI mean he doesn't understand what troublesome women meant?
Don't you understand English?
He said for general overview.
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by odinga1of: 12:46pm On Aug 20, 2025
essentialone1:
Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A word is enough for the wise.

Many men have ignored this golden advice

Some have been jailed
Some have been sacked
Some have been divorced
Some have been beaten
Some have been deported
Some have even been killed.

Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A word is enough for the wise.
What are the Early signs to spot a future trouble some women ?
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Therock5555(m): 12:47pm On Aug 20, 2025
Samantha125:
The moment he mentioned AI, I discontinued reading.
Then you're probably what you are..
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Aug 20, 2025
Lol the only time you find out how evil she is, is the day you tell her you no longer interested.

Lmaoo, you will hear all manner of vile things thrown at you, guys thats exactly who she is
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by SocialJustice: 1:10pm On Aug 20, 2025
essentialone1:
I wonder how guys see red flags ladies and willingly embrace them, then turn around to later regret it? Ode.
Big yansh and brest
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Samantha125(f): 1:21pm On Aug 20, 2025
Brahamimo, come and correct your fellow brother here for saying "pants" instead of "panties", for pants are trousers... grin grin grin
OctavianAC:
For example, one of them that I was dating those days, that would tell me that I will suffer, and I wash her pants, and will encourage her younger sisters to insult me.
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Hehehehehe: 1:31pm On Aug 20, 2025
Samantha125:
For you to be consulting AI it means you don't know what you're talking about, therefore, I declare this explanation together with the entire thread as null and void.

Case closed.
Who needs AI for meaning of troublesome woman with the way you've conducted yourself
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Saybal(m): 1:38pm On Aug 20, 2025
SlavaUkraini:
Any lady that Bills you more than what she knows you are capable of....

Is a Troublesome lady
iis she working for you,why will you allow a lady to bill you.are you her father ,she is not your responsibility
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Hhh4444: 2:18pm On Aug 20, 2025
Chubhie:
Historically, they tend to have the best honeypot. Just once and you hooked.
My brother,you na real OG. Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. If not for bravery I would have stuck with one like that. I swear the honeypot is the best I have ever had but when she start her shege,I had to run for my life. The cost outweighs the benefit so I had to abort mission.
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by CaptainGo: 2:23pm On Aug 20, 2025
essentialone1:
Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A word is enough for the wise.

Many men have ignored this golden advice

Some have been jailed
Some have been sacked
Some have been divorced
Some have been beaten
Some have been deported
Some have even been killed.

Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A word is enough for the wise.
Men who have ears should hear. Don't get carried away by beauty, yansh, and vibes.
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by stormborn28(m): 2:27pm On Aug 20, 2025
Kimo21:
You ladies are very funny when you ask this type of question because you will still never accept it so what’s the point? If you’re not a troublesome woman then this post shouldn’t pain you
You don't need to prove anything to them. Just avoid them. I even thought one who is renown here will even understand my perspective this morning. Omo her declaration proved they will never learn
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by stormborn28(m): 2:38pm On Aug 20, 2025
Samantha125:
The moment he mentioned AI, I discontinued reading.
When Jesus was told by His disciples that someone was using His name to heal and cast out demons. His reply was let him continue... Meaning He supported it. So using AI to get meaning of something. It doesn't matter. What we should ask ourselves is : are those points correct or reflection of the character in discuss?
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Solofresh2: 2:51pm On Aug 20, 2025
Miky91:
[a narcissist female that wants everything to be done here way, insulting and disrespectful to her guy. Keeps malice over everything
quote author=Samantha125 post=136513823]Define a troublesome lady in accordance to your understanding.
I have only one around me lately and I have decided to let her be but she keeps coming around
I don't know what to do
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Solofresh2: 2:56pm On Aug 20, 2025
essentialone1:
Permit me to use AI to respond so that we can get a General overview, of who a Troublesome lady is.

Some common traits or behaviors of a Troublesome lady include:

- *Frequent conflict*: Any lady that has a history of conflicts with others, whether in personal or professional settings.
- *Emotional instability*: Any lady that exhibit intense emotional reactions or mood swings, making it challenging for others to interact with her.
- *Lack of accountability*: Any lady that refuses to take responsibility for her actions, often blaming others or making excuses.
- *Manipulative behavior*: Any lady that use guilt, anger, or self-pity, to influence others, and get what she wants.
- *Disregard for boundaries*: Any lady that disregard others' personal space, time, or feelings, leading to conflicts and stress.
Them no they answer woman this way
She will say you don't have a point grin
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Solofresh2: 3:01pm On Aug 20, 2025
All women are wired the same way .
They are all troublesome
A lady can be rude to you and very polite to another man that you won't believe it is the same lady.They are good at hiding character and are master of mind games
A lady can even be polite to you Just for their finish you
As a man always be sensible, sensitive and vigilant
Re: Guys, Always Avoid Troublesome Ladies. A Word Is Enough For The Wise. by Hemanwel(m): 3:13pm On Aug 20, 2025
Samantha125:
For you to be consulting AI it means you don't know what you're talking about, therefore, I declare this explanation together with the entire thread as null and void.

Case closed.
You are asking for the definition of a troublesome lady when we have you here. Check your responses so far, you fit the definition
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