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U got married 2017, 2018,2019 and have not given birth, pls how re u managing the he@t from husband family n friends

omo i never marry yet still a single guy just graduated last year sef

sorry egbon keep trusting in God don’t let the pressure from family members weigh you down you can also consider ivf (might be costly or better still adoption for the main time

it is well sir
love and light ♥️ 💡

Children comes from God not from sex or how many places you visited.
Keep trusting in God and eating the right things.

People just need to get lives and mind their own business.

Samantha125:
People just need to get lives and mind their own business.

He made it ’our business’ when he posted it online😁.

Who? Because it doesn't seem like the op is talking about himself.

Gabrielshow24:
He made it ’our business’ when he posted it online😁.

Gabrielshow24:
He made it ’our business’ when he posted it online😁.

Maybe you misunderstood her post...

@topic I had a family member married for 13 years that didn't give birth.

She did 3 failed IVFs. Still nothing.

No one gave her any pressure(family) but I think she put too much pressure on her self by herself.

She would later transition at 48 due to high blood related health issues which I feel isn't unconnected to her thinking too much about bearing children as she was already approaching menopause.

Not everyone is destined for certain things.


One of my main principles in life is not to fret over issues I have no control of in life.

I just do my best and let nature, God or whatever take care of the rest!

brain54:
Maybe you misunderstood her post...

@topic I had a family member married for 13 years that didn't give birth.

She did 3 failed IVFs. Still nothing.

No one gave her any pressure(family) but I think she put too much pressure on her self by herself.

She would later transition at 48 due to high blood related health issues which I feel isn't unconnected to her thinking too much about bearing children as she was already approaching menopause.

Not everyone is destined for certain things.


One of my main principles in life is not to fret over issues I have no control of in life.

I just do my best and let nature, God or whatever take care of the rest!

Sorry to hear about that, truly. Hmm... Such is life, right? 🤔 While some people are busy 'abor...' kids left, right, and center, due to different cocomantics styles 👀, others are seeking for one😭.

Different strokes, I guess. Some people treat pregnancy like it's just a seasonal trend, or an obstacle that must be removed🤕, tossing babies around like they’re party favors 😬. Meanwhile, others see it as the most precious gift—and the responsibility that comes with it doesn’t come cheap👀.

Thanks for the clarification 😁.

RealityKings1:
Children comes from God not from sex or how many places you visited.
Keep trusting in God and eating the right things.

Still go to the hospital

brain54:
Maybe you misunderstood her post...

@topic I had a family member married for 13 years that didn't give birth.

She did 3 failed IVFs. Still nothing.

No one gave her any pressure(family) but I think she put too much pressure on her self by herself.

She would later transition at 48 due to high blood related health issues which I feel isn't unconnected to her thinking too much about bearing children as she was already approaching menopause.

Not everyone is destined for certain things.


One of my main principles in life is not to fret over issues I have no control of in life.

I just do my best and let nature, God or whatever take care of the rest!

My brother e no pass that ooo, because sometimes self dat thing wey you dey run for go still happen to you

So better just do ur best and leave the rest for God.