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The list a Nigerian man made for his wife that has got people talking 👀

EmmyMaestro:
[size=8pt]➜The list a Nigerian man made for his wife that has got people talking 👀[/size]

When the supposed wife is done playing slave to a grown-arsed man—foregoing her autonomy for a life of slavery— who does not pay her enough for all of her labor, no one will tell her to get out of those self-imposed shackles to find herself happiness and peace of mind elsewhere.

Kobojunkie:
When the supposed wife is done playing slave to a grown-arsed man—foregoing her autonomy for a life of slavery— who does not pay her enough for all of her labor, no one will tell her to get out of those self-imposed shackles to find herself happiness and peace of mind elsewhere.

Stop acting like those requirements ain't achievable for a full time house wife.

Our parents in those days did even way more and still kept the family in order.

Y'all Gen z's see everything as slavery.

PerfectStranger:
➜Stop acting like those requirements ain't achievable for a full time house wife.
➜ Our parents in those days did even way more and still kept the family in order.
➜ Y'all Gen z's see everything as slavery.

Full time house husbands can do it too.

2. You saw your mother slaving away like a slave, losing herself in the process, and it never touched your heart that you should demand better for your daughter and sisters? You must be a real child of your mother.

3. I am glad Gen Zs see slavery for what it is, and are, en masse, abandoning the romanticization of that atrocity that was their ancestors.

RAGE BAIT. RAGE BAIT.

Food don done for low-IQ people who can't reason beyond their nose and the screen of their phone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jmki3kS-Bos?si=VZVQ45dNnPdJ1YVjlightsattheendoftunnel

Now I see why my grandaunty married a wife for herself. 🙌🙌🙌

Kobojunkie:
Full time house husbands can do it too.

2. You saw your mother slaving away like a slave, losing herself in the process, and it never touched your heart that you should demand better for your daughter and sisters? You must be a real child of your mother.

3. I am glad Gen Zs see slavery for what it is, and are, en masse, abandoning the romanticization of that atrocity that was their ancestors.

Why should he care about his mother when you openly say you dont care about yours?

Wife materials 1 million yards.

This criteria plenty abi make the man kuku enter factory manufacture wife, cos I don't think any woman can meet up to the task.

Unfortunately the world has turned to a Place where Females see these above as Slavery, The deceit of Education and Civilization has thrown the word into confusion.

Women and Men now compete in the Household for who is the most buzy.

Waking up early to shout over the Kids to get ready for school fast. Even Kids now have a taste of the rat race from when they are toddlers.
Abandoning Kids in school amd daycare in the morning and rushing from work to pick then up at Night with no Quality time to share knowledge, experience, home training and slow paced care.

The only free time is spent at shop rite, amusement parks and on TV.

Today, I learnt that one of Bola and Remi Tinubu's child is gay and pro LGBTQ rights and that's what made it occur to me about how virtually most mordern Families are failing with Parenting. Same with most Nigerian Parents where most are running up and down servicing the MACHINA of a failed country(self deceit) while abandoning what matters most - The Family.

I suppose most Nigerian xtian homes have kids like that of deaconess Remi Tinubu, where parental negligence wrapped in the cloak of working for the Lord or climbing the corporate ladder have made the children find solace in modern vices and indulgences. Imagine the Nigerian corn visitation stats. You'll know most people who go to church have the corn problem.

A lot of Boys become hooked on Drugs, Corn and other indulgences just cos they never had that emotional connection, time and care from the Parents, most especially the Mothers.
Girls on the other hand find meaning and value in sensuality even before becoming teenagers, engaging in sex before 18, having failed relationships before 20 and more and more getting into hookup when they should have married, The married ones getting more and more chronically selfish, with getting hooked on thier Job's, Social media, Makeup and sensuality, buzy bodying and other vices wrapped up with a cloak of NORMALITY.

And the Men also becoming more and more WEAK, Before I got married, I believed in this idea of the two working to compensate the family income, but I end up discovering it makes you less of a Man. Once you buy that idea, you quit being a Leader, The Head, A Visionier, everything natural a Man should be , No wonder a lot of Men end up begging thier Wives for Sex nowadays, Very Shameful. I have learnt that it inherently doesn't seem bad, but women naturally might end up not taking you as serious with the direction you feel the family should head.


Even ask yourself, what does it truly mean to become a Man, Nowadays, it's just a fine line, we now live at the edge of what a Man can do a Woman can do better.

And I totally understand why most of us cannot recon, we all have female siblings, classmates, cowokers sat together in same classes and offices through Primary to University, our Brains seem to have been desensitised that there is not much of a difference between what it means to be a Man and also a Woman. Right now Education and "Civilization" beats Cultural values , hands down.

But unfortunately, the new generation are really suffering it, the lack of purpose, crave for societal defined comfort and confusion is eating us all from the Inside.

The Mental compensation in the household is no more there, mordern Men now take the compromise of taking every BS how the wife wants to run the Household.

For normality sake, what's wrong with a Woman aiming for these above listed as a personal goal to be an Home Keeper.

1. Waking up early to prepare the Breakfast on time
2. Bating fr the Kids Exercising
3. Cleaning the House
4. Preparing the Afternoon meals on time
5. Preparing Dinner on time
6. Taking the Kids to Bed on time.

So called educated Women see the above as Slavery and would rather pride in waking up to run to the office and bow to thier bosses struggling to climb up the corporate ladder.

The Devil has so propagandad our Mindset nowadays especially with the advent of social media in this POST-TRUTH age that a lot of mistruths are now lived as life goals.

You even see some Parents share this pseudotruths as rhetorics on WhatsApp due to thier brainwashed minds.

It's just so scary where the World is moving towards, Redemption doesnt seem apparent, but one thing.

TRUTH PREVAILS in the end, Lies and Mistruths and Pseudotruths will not stand the test of time.

Personally, I'm trying to take the road less travelled, although difficult, with God's help, definitely It'll be worth taking.

Sorry for the long comment, just pouring out my mind.

Give him clay, let him mould his wife. No woman will agree to this unless she wants to live in bondage



Ekwensu!

I may not marry a full time house wife, that's if I changed my mind later to marry

Non virgins can't do this..

More characters needed

DeepSight:
➜Why should he care about his mother when you openly say you dont care about yours?

I don't care about my mother, whom I have literally been sleeping in the same house with for the past 2 weeks, and is literally right next to me as I type.

Are you sure you are OK in the head at all? Una go just dey look for ways to pass una particular delusions along as reality of life for others, dey think say una dey make sense. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
I don't care about my mother, whom I have literally been sleeping in the same house with for the past 2 weeks, and is literally right next to me as I type.

Are you sure you are OK in the head at all? Una go just dey look for ways to pass una particular delusions along as reality of life for others, dey think say una dey make sense. 🥱🥱🥱

You must be the one who has things mixed up. Since she is next to you as you type, I dare you to confess to her that you argued online that you dont owe her anything.

incogni2o:
➜Unfortunately the world has turned to a Place where Females see these above as Slavery, The deceit of Education and Civilization and thrown the word into confusion

It isn't yet to this day, not a single man would debase himself to such treatment without adequate remuneration to compensate him for his efforts?

I don't need to even stress my brain to know that list was compiled and typed by an idle lady seeking attention online...!


No married man with his brain intact has the time or mental space to sit down, type and print out such a list... None!!!


The rubbish you people now do online in the name of content creation is seriously irritating and out of hand.

DeepSight:
➜You must be the one who has things mixed up. Since she is next to you as you type, I dare you to confess to her that you argued online that you dont owe her anything.

Abeg, go make your noise elsewhere and get off my mention today!

Kobojunkie:
Abeg, go make your noise elsewhere and get off my mention today!

There we go.

You throw a fit when a mirror is placed before your very own words.

Tell her! Tell the poor lady now what you said! Confess!

more like a job requirement ..how much is he paying

EmmyMaestro:
The list a Nigerian man made for his wife that has got people talking 👀

It would be sensible for the wife to support him to marry a second wife so that both will be running shift to support his "company" at home.

Abeg make we hear word, find the man that suit you , not a lord and master.

Try married ladies trained by Poor's family, no near rich man daughter?? Or else u go land for jail

If he had no right to get a woman when he was broke, no one has the right to question his needs in a woman now that he is ready. This is his demands, if you can't meet them, stay your lane and wait for another man with a lighter list of demands.

This is absurd
It’s all good
Hmmmmmmmmm
Hmmmmmmm

Kobojunkie:
When the supposed wife is done playing slave to a grown-arsed man—foregoing her autonomy for a life of slavery— who does not pay her enough for all of her labor, no one will tell her to get out of those self-imposed shackles to find herself happiness and peace of mind elsewhere.

I knew I would find you here as usual spilling your repulsive ideologies.

So what's bad in the list?

The only thing missing there is a handsome monthly salary/allowance for the wife to flex and take care of herself.

A good number of well-trained women will do everything on the list if the husband takes care of the financial side of things.