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bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
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I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

Sorry if I may ask, what do you gain from this lady you are talking about?

Nigerian girlfriend, check her WhatsApp, she’s got people giving her more trust me

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
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I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

I need to ask just one question, is she an orphan?

U need to go and register for gehgeh school academy, dodoyo

You are a responsible guy.

bigpicture001:
Feeding alone at 2k daily cost u 60k... Her whole wage is 55k...

bigpicture001:
I Bleep her , her dad don't.... We share most period together less than sh do with her dad

Did you bring her into this world then

Do what makes you happy.

bigpicture001:
No wahala, not all liabilities stays like that for long...

Ur asset ladies are full of shit.... Mostly arroangant and entitled ...

As a man, there comes a time u relaized peace of mind is worth more than even a zenith bank manager wife.. who gives u shit and makes u restless... Relationship is not a competition boy!

Continue las las no child she born 4 u na only u go de spend later wen e meet another mumu e go leave u to the next u will b just like yesterday

bigpicture001:
No wahala, not all liabilities stays like that for long...

Ur asset ladies are full of shit.... Mostly arroangant and entitled ...

As a man, there comes a time u relaized peace of mind is worth more than even a zenith bank manager wife.. who gives u shit and makes u restless... Relationship is not a competition boy!

Ignore all these gehgeh boys... relationship is give and take. My wife out earns me currently but I paid over 200k for her sister's fashion design training when we were not even married. Imagine that I was tightfisted when she needed me, would we be where we are?...the main thing is finding that person you're compatible with and doing your best to lighten her burden while she does the same for you.

Thanks for this.

Double0h7:
She’s very lucky to have you in her life. I hope she treats you well too. I love that you have a plan and boundaries which protect you from abuse.

bigpicture001:
I Bleep her , her dad don't.... We share most period together less than sh do with her dad

Consider marrying her, with that you can be a full married man than how you opted for marriage but runs away from the full subscription....

i think you have the heart and reasoning of a husband than a boyfriend .....am saying this because the girl in question does not see you that way, she can leave you any day or stick with you , so is just like finding K in Math which is constant ....

You deserve better, wife her and have more security....

Pretend like you are broke and don't send her anything for two months, see her reaction

bigpicture001:
I Bleep her , her dad don't.... We share most period together less than sh do with her dad

You don't bleep her; stop sounding as if you enjoy it the most. The two parties enjoy sexual intercourse. That's how men have been brainwashed for years. If that babe contracts hiv, you will get infected. That statement disgusts me.

Great work op, I wish you the best. Just enjoy while it lasts.

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

30k a month for a girl sha... Not bad because it's cheaper than going to brothel. Your konji level is in control at least however, as a Geh Geh student, make sure you collect more opueh than the 30k.

Practically, if the girl has 5 of you, na 150k be that.

dis wan deh dash geh #25k monthly...

anoda pesin babe oo!

Tinubu is not to be blamed for dis wan..

Village ppl active die here!

MikeofKd:
Na because of guys like you geh geh start all those plenty talks online , wic day some boys go wise ?

Kaii !!!

I bet you that girl go knack another guy back to back. He go understand later

What a life for a man. A man so gallantly created by God for wonders and greatness but unfortunately, the heave of her chest, the braces on her waist and the stadium at her backside has transformed the senses the Almighty God enfused in the man.

Generation to generation, sense has been eluding man, vaporizing like steam of water. I just hope you have parents and siblings not looking for your supports. Well done and Congratulations 👏👏 Kwantinue..... 😂

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

Now you ruined her ability to manage her own finances. If you marry her now, you will still come on nairaland later to complain how you're having everything done for her and she's not helping.
If she's earning little, teach her how to up-skill, don't cage her with the penny you give her. Don't enjoy that you can dominate her by giving her money. When you start having kids and your expenditures increases, that's when you will know your mistakes

Hope you no abandon ur parents dey spent for only your girl friend. I laugh

The truth of the matter is that unfortunately no man is truely free from simping

What sort of trash is this at the frontpage?

As the said girlfriend can not be able to take care of herself as an adult, her father is also incapable of taking care of his daughter, I guess?

Well, I hope you have finished taking care of your parents before helping another parent with their responsibility

Applying wisdom in giving her money. It may boomerang if it's much.

Chubhie:
What's in it for you at the end of the month? 7 more characters needed

Opueh

SmartPolician:
You don't bleep her; stop sounding as if you enjoy it the most. The two parties enjoy sexual intercourse. That's how men have been brainwashed for years. If that babe contracts hiv, you will get infected. That statement disgusts me.

Considering how much it will cost him to engage hook-up girls for say 3 times a month to release sperm/tension which also services his prostate, he has a good deal with the girl..

Going by what he said, he spends less than 80k monthly on her ...That's quite a good deal for sex-on-demand... That's a reasonable vagina retainer I guess

Only problem he might have is if he self-deceives himself into believing he is the only one retaining the vagina...

bigpicture001:
Feeding alone at 2k daily cost u 60k... Her whole wage is 55k...

Instead of all this long story, why don’t you just follow the mocking advice from Akpabio

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bigpicture001:
Even your classy girl with high income will change if u stop ur income that gives u that class...

Women are same , dnt deceive yourself...

How much do you give to your mom and dad every month.

How much do you regularly set aside for investment on a monthly basis

I have no comment, absolutley no comment.