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I SAY HELLO
Instead of wasting ₦25k every month on a babe, stack it. In one year, that’s ₦300k — enough to start a side hustle. Ask yourself: has she ever given you even ₦5k back? She earns her own money yet calls you broke behind your back. Truth is YOU ARE BROKE ,the day she finds someone who offers ₦50k upkeep OR 200k#, she’ll drop you without blinking she might blink but she won’t put her future at risk unlike what you doing with your dumbass. Stop funding her lifestyle and start funding your future. USE THAT 300k TO START A BUSINESS
OR BUY GOOD CLOTHES AND UPGRADE YOUR LEVEL TO ATTRACT BETTER GIRLS

Kundus to the OP

You’ve really got very good opinion and suggestions that will greatly benefit the guy “wasting 25k monthly on his girlfriend”.

To the OP, I guess this advice is from your personal experience and what you have done. Please can you tell us how much you saved to start business like you’ve advised?
What is the amount of profit the business is accruing now and how large is the business?

Oga u for just write this thing under em topic, no de find nonsense validation for here.

Itzzorite

Op I think 25k is okay as long as it doesn’t affect him financially.
To carry an hookup girl now is so expensive, 25k is okay as long as long as he’s getting regular s*x.

My 2cent

Amotolongbo:
Kundus to the OP

You’ve really got very good opinion and suggestions that will greatly benefit the guy “wasting 25k monthly on his girlfriend”.

To the OP, I guess this advice is from your personal experience and what you have done. Please can you tell us how much you saved to start business like you’ve advised?
What is the amount of profit the business is accruing now and how large is the business?

I beg disregard all these unfortunate motivational speakers. Shishi that one nor get.

I paid my girl's bills through school and ended up marrying her a virgin. My boss and management almost killed me that she will drop me half way but I told them it's a mission I must accomplish.

Today I am eating deep into her account anytime I want to. Men with very thin wisdom will be capping rubbish.

The next best thing a man should learn is how a woman's mind is wired and how they think once you are able to get that you see them work as you think.

Felimax:
I beg disregard all these unfortunate motivational speakers. Shishi that one nor get.

I paid my girl's bills through school and ended up marrying her a virgin. My boss and management almost killed me that she will drop me half way but I told them it's a mission I must accomplish.

Today I am eating deep into her account anytime I want to. Men with very thin wisdom will be capping rubbish.

The next best thing a man should learn is how a woman's mind is wired and how they think once you are able to get that you see them work as you think.

In Nigeria cyber space, expect reading and seeing any thing.

I’ve once read how a guy was advising Dangote to invest in a business that will make him richer than Elon Musk 😂

Treborblue:
I SAY HELLO
Instead of wasting ₦25k every month on a babe, stack it. In one year, that’s ₦300k — enough to start a side hustle. Ask yourself: has she ever given you even ₦5k back? She earns her own money yet calls you broke behind your back. Truth is YOU ARE BROKE ,the day she finds someone who offers ₦50k upkeep OR 200k#, she’ll drop you without blinking she might blink but she won’t put her future at risk unlike what you doing with your dumbass. Stop funding her lifestyle and start funding your future. USE THAT 300k TO START A BUSINESS
OR BUY GOOD CLOTHES AND UPGRADE YOUR LEVEL TO ATTRACT BETTER GIRLS

You spoke well but I don't support you calling him a simp. Besides it is a fair price for monthly sex. Shorty is between 10k to 20k for one round. Over night 30k and above. He has a fair deal. No girl will give you herself for free now or do you have a means for him to still be active sexually after dropping the girl?

Amotolongbo:
In Nigeria cyber space, expect reading and seeing any thing.

I’ve once read how a guy was advising Dangote to invest in a business that will make him richer than Elon Musk 😂

I’ve once read how a guy was advising Dangote to invest in a business that will make him richer than Elon Musk


I don laff taya....😁😀😂


Awon motivational speaker isonu

Treborblue:
. Truth is YOU ARE BROKE ,the day she finds someone who offers ₦50k upkeep OR 200k#,

Since he gives 25k.

U say the day she finds someone who offers 50k its over.

50k too much. The day she finds someone who offers 26k. Its over

Felimax:
I beg disregard all these unfortunate motivational speakers. Shishi that one nor get.

I paid my girl's bills through school and ended up marrying her a virgin. My boss and management almost killed me that she will drop me half way but I told them it's a mission I must accomplish.

Today I am eating deep into her account anytime I want to. Men with very thin wisdom will be capping rubbish.

The next best thing a man should learn is how a woman's mind is wired and how they think once you are able to get that you see them work as you think.

Respect 🤞❤️❤️

Two friends were relaxing at a joint one evening and one of them lit his cigarette, the other asked how many sticks does his friend take in a day and his friend answered '5'. Then he went further to ask since how many years has he been smoking and the friend answered '10 years'. After some seconds, he told his friend that he had spent an amount enough to buy a Ferrari on buying cigarettes in those years! His friend paused after the calculation and asked whether the other friend smokes and he answered 'NO' then he asked him 'WHERE'S YOUR FERRARI'?
Summary: It's easier said than done

Let's learn to accept someone's opinion the guy said 25k monthly,its between him and his babe... whenever they break up na him go face am, besides I know say some guys bashing him dey visit olosho and they're spending more on HK girls.
Leave this guy everything is happiness and peace of mind abeg.

Nobody is perfect even the ones wey marry some of them don't know what understanding is, relationship grooms people for marriage if he's doing this in a relationship he might do better in marriage.
What's working for him might not work for others everything is maturity and understanding.

Amotolongbo:
In Nigeria cyber space, expect reading and seeing any thing.

I’ve once read how a guy was advising Dangote to invest in a business that will make him richer than Elon Musk 😂

O God this one off me .

xtianchris:
Respect 🤞❤️❤️

Respect bro!

Nothing wrong in providing for a woman, if you can afford it.
Men are meant to provide, while women support him and manage resources.
This has been the custom right from time.

No matter the level of civilization and exposure, i feel the traditional man and woman relationship remains the best, where the man provides and she nurtures. Nice balance.

I don't even understand the point of this write-up, the person who is doing the giving is not complaining yet you're here drinking pain killers on his behalf

Felimax:
I beg disregard all these unfortunate motivational speakers. Shishi that one nor get.

I paid my girl's bills through school and ended up marrying her a virgin. My boss and management almost killed me that she will drop me half way but I told them it's a mission I must accomplish.

Today I am eating deep into her account anytime I want to. Men with very thin wisdom will be capping rubbish.

The next best thing a man should learn is how a woman's mind is wired and how they think once you are able to get that you see them work as you think.

This one na big risk.. I'm sure your wife is not Gen z. Because Gen z of nowadays, u fit kpai if you trust them, but you are very lucky shaa do you know how many men that have done this and regretted... If 10 men try this your approach, 8 out of them will fail surely

Englishisamust:
This one na big risk.. I'm sure your wife is not Gen z. Because Gen z of nowadays, u fit kpai if you trust them, but you are very lucky shaa do you know how many men that have done this and regretted... If 10 men try this your approach, 8 out of them will fail surely

The key is knowing how women works. I can boldly tell you that a lot of men today has their success stories tied to a woman.

Myself I met my woman when she was barely eighteen and I was not really having much then. She stocked and somehow gave me the connection to the job that later took me to Lagos.

While in Lagos I compelled her to acquire and papers and ensured that she gets through school.

Someone that gave me joy should be able to have same joy from me. A lot of people did not understand but I did.

A lot of things one cannot explain. Besides, she was not the first person to do such a thing for me. I have had several job offers from ladies who are friends and wanted it taken to the next level.

Gen Z or not there are still good ladies and no matter how good a lady if she does not find her kind of man in you she is doom to probably dump you should the time comes. Myself I had a lot of heartbreaks from some of these ladies, I will even kneel down and beg sometimes. Today, I cherished those experiences I had because they helped building me to the person I am today.

Bro you’re mixing things up.

YOU are the prize, because from what you wrote, there’s something about you that women want.

Your woman would likely still have chosen you even if you didn’t spend as much on her.

A man without your appeal would sponsor a woman like you did and fail.

Felimax:
The key is knowing how women works. I can boldly tell you that a lot of men today has their success stories tied to a woman.

Myself I met my woman when she was barely eighteen and I was not really having much then. She stocked and somehow gave me the connection to the job that later took me to Lagos.

While in Lagos I compelled her to acquire and papers and ensured that she gets through school.

Someone that gave me joy should be able to have same joy from me. A lot of people did not understand but I did.

A lot of things one cannot explain. Besides, she was not the first person to do such a thing for me. I have had several job offers from ladies who are friends and wanted it taken to the next level.

Gen Z or not there are still good ladies and no matter how good a lady if she does not find her kind of man in you she is doom to probably dump you should the time comes. Myself I had a lot of heartbreaks from some of these ladies, I will even kneel down and beg sometimes. Today, I cherished those experiences I had because they helped building me to the person I am today.

Some people are spending 50k per month chasing girls without success...

See this life no get definitive manual, just do what you think suits you.


Some people might give out 100k to charity without a care in the world, others would cringe up if they're asked to contribute 2k for an urgent family emergency.

I've sat at the op's POV before and I'll have said the same thing but eh make your level change, things wey you dey see as luxury or wastage go be normal thing for you...


Back then, I could eat anything with or without meat or fish, but now, bar light breakfast, if I'm eating and fishes + chunks of meat ain't involved, abeg hold the food.....





Anyway back to the op's point... Instead of putting a lady on a definite monthly wages, it's better you convert the money to light sums for transport, gifts, miscellaneous at your own convenience.


The only folks I'm putting on wages would be my parents or/and my wife's.

Anything less is tatamount to future disaster....

Felimax:
The key is knowing how women works. I can boldly tell you that a lot of men today has their success stories tied to a woman.

Myself I met my woman when she was barely eighteen and I was not really having much then. She stocked and somehow gave me the connection to the job that later took me to Lagos.

While in Lagos I compelled her to acquire and papers and ensured that she gets through school.

Someone that gave me joy should be able to have same joy from me. A lot of people did not understand but I did.

A lot of things one cannot explain. Besides, she was not the first person to do such a thing for me. I have had several job offers from ladies who are friends and wanted it taken to the next level.

Gen Z or not there are still good ladies and no matter how good a lady if she does not find her kind of man in you she is doom to probably dump you should the time comes. Myself I had a lot of heartbreaks from some of these ladies, I will even kneel down and beg sometimes. Today, I cherished those experiences I had because they helped building me to the person I am today.

Bro, keep treating that woman right...

She deserves it...


Stay blessed...

Is it poverty or boredom that’s causing this? Imagine having all these threads on top of another man’s pockets. 🥺

Treborblue:
Truth is YOU ARE BROKE ,the day she finds someone who offers ₦50k upkeep OR 200k#, she’ll drop you without blinking she might blink

e don do.
off your mic.
off it.


come making i give you cold pure water make you drink. Where Doris? Abeg give am cold beer.

Guy... see my wife? I no spend shi shi on her before marriage but right now even her single wrist watch worth 7 salaries and anything wey she tell me sag dey hungry her, I MUST DELIVER except e no dey. No be poverty, na principle.

But any man wey wan spend ₦500k monthly on top external toutou abeg allow am. e get why.

so make konji kill the young man?

People say don't spend money on girls...how are you sure the man will survive if he no get babe?
Having a companion is as important as other dreams.... and as a man, having a companion must come with financial responsibility. And it is a global thing not just Nigeria.

It irritates me whenever I see people who think they can advice others on how to live their lives. Ehn?

Somebody is giving his girlfriend, joy giver, gist partner & Konji reliever 25K monthly. You're here complaining. Is your brain paining you ni?

It's a well known fact that everyone has that one thing (habit) that gives them joy, for him, it's probably companionship & knacking. How's that not something to invest in? Some invest theirs in shayo, some in bet9ja, some in one form of gambling or another. It's called doing whatever makes one happy.

Realistically speaking, 25K is less than 1K per day. Imagine the quality knack our guyman is getting. If the babe come fine, get big brezz join. Mehn! Bros, don make am for life.

In conclusion, nobody has the right to teach other people how to live. Live and let others live.

Meanwhile, nobody should quote me to yarn okpata o. I'm having a headache in my stomach please.

#Picks_tooth.

Englishisamust:
This one na big risk.. I'm sure your wife is not Gen z. Because Gen z of nowadays, u fit kpai if you trust them, but you are very lucky shaa do you know how many men that have done this and regretted... If 10 men try this your approach, 8 out of them will fail surely

He took a very big risk, my brother.

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Amotolongbo:
In Nigeria cyber space, expect reading and seeing any thing.

I’ve once read how a guy was advising Dangote to invest in a business that will make him richer than Elon Musk 😂

😁😁😁

Treborblue:
I SAY HELLO
Instead of wasting ₦25k every month on a babe, stack it. In one year, that’s ₦300k — enough to start a side hustle. Ask yourself: has she ever given you even ₦5k back? She earns her own money yet calls you broke behind your back. Truth is YOU ARE BROKE ,the day she finds someone who offers ₦50k upkeep OR 200k#, she’ll drop you without blinking she might blink but she won’t put her future at risk unlike what you doing with your dumbass. Stop funding her lifestyle and start funding your future. USE THAT 300k TO START A BUSINESS
OR BUY GOOD CLOTHES AND UPGRADE YOUR LEVEL TO ATTRACT BETTER GIRLS

Busybody na wetin concern you?!

I see a lot of people quoting me even some calling me broke lol. I’m not against you spending on anyone .
I’ve bought my babe wigs and new phone even gadgets. But it’s recipocal even with the very little she earns , she surprises me with clothes from her money. This is someone I earn more than sometimes when my data finishes abruptly instead of borrowing airtime I’ll call her she will sub me . Ofcourse I pay it back sometimes I don’t she never reminds me. What most men don’t get here is that it’s all mindset .
As I am I’m a spec I’m comfortable I Dey pay my rent I Dey feed my self I dress clean, and I still con guide join hahan nowwwww . Girls will knack me for free (I don’t womanize) I don’t ask for number self but girls want to have longer conversations with me it’s normal. This same guy his babe self go Dey on hotspot for another boy wey she see prospects. Men don’t know they are the prize . That girl go leave am if someone with better prospects toast am. So why don’t he level himself up. ANYGIRL WEY DEY EARN MONEY BUT CANT BUY DATA HERSELF IS EITHER WICKED OR SELFISH. See him giving excuse that she feeding is 2k per day and earning 55k a month. How many business ideas has she bought to you for you to invest in. My babe Dey run multiple businesses yes na me invest in a but na she run me the idea , cause the mindset is to be an asset not a parasite. Sha as people have said do Whatever makes you happy. And people wey wise go pick one or two OT from this . As guyman
BUILD YOURSELF TO THE LEVEL WHERE EVEN WHEN GIRL LEAVE YOU SHE GO DEY FEEL SAY SHE DEY MAKE MISTAKE. And that can only happen if you improve your prospects . 25k per month is toooo small that means bro self is broke . He needs to elevate himself and build with someone with better prospects . That girl isn’t a builder . No tag me again Biko this is my 2cents