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Hello fellow nairalanders,

There’s this issue that have been giving me trouble mind recently about my girlfriend.

So I just got a girlfriend 10 days ago , me and the girl have been friends for almost 2 month before asking her out.

. The first issue that’s giving concern about the girl is that I’m a Christian and she’s a Muslim , she always tells me that her parents use to warn her severally not to date a Christian or someone she can’t marry.

I sat her down to talk about this but it seems she has already fell in love with me and the only response I get from her is “Let’s continue”.

I know both of us are still young but I don’t want to waste my time and resources over something that will end in tears for me.

I told my best friend about this but his response was “did you want to marry her before, keep fucking yourselves till you depart “

I don’t want to follow this advise because the girl is too innocent for that. She also has a worst experience with her ex that I’ve promised her it won’t happen again.

The second one is her past really bothers me a lot to be sincere with you people. She only had sex once according to her but that one time sex lead her to using p*stinor and other stuffs.

I play maturity immediately she told me but to be sincere here she’s too young for that and I’m concern.

Can I move on and tell break up with her please I need advice .

I know she’ll be hurt like hell if I did but I need to protect my dignity too…. Thanks family

Wait, so Nigerian Muslim ladies have pre-merital sex? Call me ignorant, but I really thought they were innocent and don't engage in such things.

How old are you guys...?

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Hmm this is a bit deep…….. how old is she if you don’t mind

brain54:
How old are you guys...?

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i m in my early 20’s and a uni student, i’m a bit older than her , but I can’t say her age for security reasons.. thanks boss

Unclebayo:
i m in my early 20’s and a uni student, i’m a bit older than her , but I can’t say her age for security reasons.. thanks boss

Is that possible because she is under age...?


Anyway, at 20s you seem too young and unready to be thinking about marriage.

The best advice I can give you is to focus on your studies and a better future.

You both especially the girl seem too naive to be in a relationship for now.

Don't be in a haste. You will get enough sex when the time comes. For now leave that girl alone to focus on her own future.

It won't be easy ( for either of you) but think of the challenges also involved in dating someone from a different religion as you.

Her parents are likely not to accept you!

Nope, not a good reason to break up. Religion is man made and should not come between two individuals in a relationship.

brain54:
Is that possible because she is under age...?


Anyway, at 20s you seem too young and unready to be thinking about marriage.

The best advice I can give you is to focus on your studies and a better future.

You both especially the girl seem too naive to be in a relationship for now.

Don't be in a haste. You will get enough sex when the time comes. For now leave that girl alone to focus on her own future.

It won't be easy ( for either of you) but think of the challenges also involved in dating someone from a different religion as you.

Her parents are likely not to accept you!

thanks very much bro

Unclebayo:
i m in my early 20’s and a uni student, i’m a bit older than her , but I can’t say her age for security reasons.. thanks boss

what is the security reason in this matter. Are you dating an underage gal?

Samantha125:
Wait, so Nigerian Muslim ladies have pre-merital sex? Call me ignorant, but I really thought they were innocent and don't engage in such things.

Dey play my fan🤣🤣🤣

Unclebayo:
i m in my early 20’s and a uni student, i’m a bit older than her , but I can’t say her age for security reasons.. thanks boss

You be small pikin you come dey call yourself uncle for Nairaland

Focus on your studies ooo,don’t let the love of kpekus lead you astray

Samantha125:
Wait, so Nigerian Muslim ladies have pre-merital sex? Call me ignorant, but I really thought they were innocent and don't engage in such things.

Nor allow that costume wey dem dey wear deceive you dem dey knack pass atheists o

Make her understand that you're dating for fun if you must continue or assure her marriage if you're ready to act Nollywood movie (The prince & the village girl poor girl) that's if they will not use you to secure their own share of the virgins up there

Unclebayo:
Hello fellow nairalanders,

There’s this issue that have been giving me trouble mind recently about my girlfriend.

So I just got a girlfriend 10 days ago , me and the girl have been friends for almost 2 month before asking her out.

. The first issue that’s giving concern about the girl is that I’m a Christian and she’s a Muslim , she always tells me that her parents use to warn her severally not to date a Christian or someone she can’t marry.

I sat her down to talk about this but it seems she has already fell in love with me and the only response I get from her is “Let’s continue”.

I know both of us are still young but I don’t want to waste my time and resources over something that will end in tears for me.

I told my best friend about this but his response was “did you want to marry her before, keep fucking yourselves till you depart “

I don’t want to follow this advise because the girl is too innocent for that. She also has a worst experience with her ex that I’ve promised her it won’t happen again.

The second one is her past really bothers me a lot to be sincere with you people. She only had sex once according to her but that one time sex lead her to using p*stinor and other stuffs.

I play maturity immediately she told me but to be sincere here she’s too young for that and I’m concern.

Can I move on and tell break up with her please I need advice .

I know she’ll be hurt like hell if I did but I need to protect my dignity too…. Thanks family

You don't deserve your best friend. How can anyone have such a guy as best friend and still be this clueless?

Unclebayo:
i m in my early 20’s and a uni student, i’m a bit older than her , but I can’t say her age for security reasons.. thanks boss

Face your studies. Leave toto for now. You go Bleep toto tire in the future that's if you don't get distracted.

But don't they have strict Sharia laws there?

Peacecore:
Nor allow that costume wey dem dey wear deceive you dem dey knack pass atheists o

SamuraiXXX:
You be small pikin you come dey call yourself uncle for Nairaland

🤣22 oo

Samantha125:
But don't they have strict Sharia laws there?

warn yourself this morning

Samantha125:
But don't they have strict Sharia laws there?

Shari'a law keh
Imam dey bleep pass ordinary worshippers u dey talk of Shari'a law all those thing na wash.
I pity those helpless abokis wey dem dey deceive.
The last religion I'll allow my wards practice is...they rather practice African traditional religion than that.

Some of those girls dey carry man for back inside that costume if u nor know

Peacecore:
Shari'a law keh
Imam dey bleep pass ordinary worshippers u dey talk of Shari'a law all those thing na wash.
I pity those helpless abokis wey dem dey deceive.
The last religion I'll allow my wards practice is...they rather practice African traditional religion than that.

Some of those girls dey carry man for back inside that costume if u nor know

This your comment is prejudiced...

Muslim women are mostly more disciplined and decent than other religions.

Having the strictest laws doesn't mean they wouldn't be cases where individuals would rebel or go outside those laws.

But generally they are dedicated and decent and you can't have a system that's 100% foolproof especially when dealing with humans. Your comment sounds hateful sef.

Make una try not to derail the op's thread. Stay on point/focus. Na advice carry am come here!

Unclebayo:
me and the girl have been friends for almost 2 month before asking her out.

Do people still do this creepy thing in 2025?
Thank God I never did it.

Very funny...🤣🤣🤣🤣

Peacecore:
Shari'a law keh
Imam dey bleep pass ordinary worshippers u dey talk of Shari'a law all those thing na wash.
I pity those helpless abokis wey dem dey deceive.
The last religion I'll allow my wards practice is...they rather practice African traditional religion than that.

Some of those girls dey carry man for back inside that costume if u nor know

brain54:
This your comment is prejudiced...

Muslim women are mostly more disciplined and decent than other religions.

Having the strictest laws doesn't mean they wouldn't be cases where individuals would rebel or go outside those laws.

But generally they are dedicated and decent and you can't have a system that's 100% foolproof especially when dealing with humans. Your comment sounds hateful sef.

Make una try not to derail the op's thread. Stay on point/focus. Na advice carry am come here!

They don't have options because there's no freedom of speech or association in the religion, besides most of are betrothed to an Alhaji as early as age 5. If you're the one that have the option of being stoned or cruelly murdered for going against a law, will you do it?

Samantha125:
Very funny...🤣🤣🤣🤣

It is the truth.
When you are always harsh to a child for telling you his misdids, he won't stop doing it but rather will forever hide it from you.

Peacecore:
They don't have options because there's no freedom of speech or association in the religion, besides most of are betrothed to an Alhaji as early as age 5. If you're the one that have the option of being stoned or cruelly murdered for going against a law, will you do it?

Oga rest...

brain54:
Oga rest...

E be like say u be aboki or imam

Don't marry her, but keep fucking her.

Pass me her number as a Muslim wey I be

Aleem26:
Pass me her number as a Muslim wey I be

Blaaaaaaaaaaaaackkkkkkk Jesusssssssss