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Someone told him to watch War Room 😂🤣😂😂😂
How the tables have turned 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣

ediko5:
Best answer to a simp. You're doing well.
It's even abomination to me for a single girl lady and not to talk of a married woman sending her nudes to men and the man is asking funny question

OK.

brain54:
The guy is fortunate because his wife is doing olosho...

Or sharing noodles?

Great. Nothing I won't hear.

Anyone that isn't ready for marriage should not go into it.

Simple!

Come on man. You call yourself brain, so use it please.

You should know I can't possibly mean "The guy is fortunate because his wife is doing olosho". If he were, then what would you think I'd say he is if his wife were a doctor or teacher? Cursed, perhaps?

He is more fortunate his wife is selling nudes and not her physical body. But he is unfortunate his wife sells nudes and not her brain.

budaatum:
Come on man. You call yourself brain, so use it please.

You should know I can't possibly mean "The guy is fortunate because his wife is doing olosho". If he were, then what would you think I'd say he is if his wife were a doctor or teacher? Cursed, perhaps?

He is more fortunate his wife is selling nudes and not her physical body. But he is unfortunate his wife sells nudes and not her brain.

You are still talking thrash...

Alot of it!

One day they will start sleeping with her. You have to do something about it as a husband protect your wife put a stop to that nonsense she is doing on social media

Diamond098454:
➜One day they will start sleeping with her. You have to do something about it as a husband protect your wife put a stop to that nonsense she is doing on social media

. By 'protect' you mean control/train her so she forgoes the freedom to do as she pleases, right? Isn't it much better for you to advise him to simply divorce her so she can live her life as she pleases while ensuring he obtains shared custody of his children so he too can adequately train and raise them too?🙄🙄🙄

Kobojunkie:
. By 'protect' you mean control/train her so she forgoes the freedom to do as she pleases, right? Isn't it much better for you to advise him to simply divorce her so she can live her life as she pleases while ensuring he obtains shared custody of his children so he too can adequately train and raise them too?🙄🙄🙄

divorce is not the solution here, things can be fixed without separation. He should handle it

Diamond098454:
➜divorce is not the solution here,
➜ things can be fixed without separation. He should handle it

. Divorce is not an option, but abuse in the form of control or possible manipulation is?
Separation fixes what exactly? How?

Kobojunkie:
. Divorce is not an option, but abuse in the form of control is?
Separation fixes what exactly? How?

he is a man, a husband and a father of 3 beautiful kids. Are telling me married couples can't handle or solve there problems without considering divorce? If he divorce his wife and getting married to another Lady and same thing happened , he will still divorce the second Lady and marry the 3rd woman hmmmm

Diamond098454:
✓ he is a man, a husband and a father of 3 beautiful kids. Are telling me married couples can't handle or solve there problems without considering divorce?
✓ If he divorce his wife and getting married to another Lady and same thing happened , he will still divorce the second Lady and marry the 3rd woman hmmmm

1. I notice you keep skating around the how of OP resolving this. 🥱🥱🥱

2. If the same thing happens with another woman, then maybe OP is the problem and not the women. ever considered that?

I notice that with the drip information provided in the OP, you already concluded the problem must be the woman. And it got me wondering why you think a married man is always right. .

Read this book below, with prayer and fasting, your wife will come back to you 😞

Solved55:
I caught my wife chatting with men in romantic ways, she apologized , like twice . As a result , I link her Whatsapp and discover she's still continue even sending nudes. Just because of money . How can I handle this,I consider divorce but divorce will affect us ,we have 3 kids, 3, 5 and 7 years. Her character has not been good to me anyway and now this

Please how do I link my WhatsApp too
I want to Link to my other phone

AngelSlay:
I hear the pain in your words, my brother. What you’ve discovered is not only heartbreaking but also deeply disrespectful to your role as a husband and father. It’s natural to feel betrayed, angry, and torn—especially since children are involved.

Here’s a way to look at it:

1. Acknowledge your emotions first. Don’t suppress your hurt or pretend it doesn’t affect you. Take some time to breathe, pray, and think clearly before making a decision in anger.

2. Confront the issue with honesty. Sit her down and have a calm but firm conversation. Let her know what you’ve seen, how it makes you feel, and how it’s damaging the family. Don’t shout—clarity hits harder than noise.

3. Draw your boundaries. Every marriage needs rules. If she’s crossing them, you must decide what you can and cannot tolerate. Tell her plainly: “This is betrayal. If you want this marriage, you must stop and rebuild my trust. If not, I cannot continue like this.”

4. Think of the children. They are innocent and deserve stability. Sometimes staying in a toxic marriage is even more harmful than divorce because kids absorb the tension. On the other hand, divorce also has its scars. So your decision must weigh both carefully.

5. Seek support. This is too heavy to carry alone. Talk to a trusted elder, mentor, or even a professional counselor—someone neutral who can guide you and maybe mediate.

6. Ask yourself the hard question: If she refuses to change, can you live with this version of her for the next 10–20 years? If the answer is no, then it may be wiser to separate than to destroy yourself slowly in silence.

Truth is, respect is the backbone of love. If your wife has chosen money and other men over loyalty, it’s not just “mistakes”—it’s a choice. You can forgive once, maybe twice, but if she continues, then she’s showing you who she truly is.

Your kids need a father who is strong, wise, and at peace—not one constantly broken inside. Whatever decision you make, let it come from a place of clarity, not anger.

AI reply ! Why using AI to reply a brother that truly need ur advice.