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Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Arkison: 1:51pm On Oct 06, 2009 |
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Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Akinagirl(f): 2:09pm On Oct 06, 2009 |
Since you all are not using precautions, what do you expect to happen. If you don't want kids, use protection. As I see, she is not yet your wife. Take it easy, use a rubber. Will she have an abortion every time you get her pregnant until you are ready to have kids or what? |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Arkison: 2:19pm On Oct 06, 2009 |
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Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Nobody: 2:29pm On Oct 06, 2009 |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Akinagirl(f): 5:12pm On Oct 06, 2009 |
My response poster is rather valid. Whether I am married or not doesn't make a difference. I understand that you don't feel the need to "protect" yourself from your wife. But, you need to understand that unprotected sex will lead to pregnancy. However, there are certain times that she can calculate her ovulation period so she can have sex in her infertile stage. But, poster if she gets pregnant. You need to step up and be a man, you are married and you refuse to use protection. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by ubiaa5(f): 7:07pm On Oct 06, 2009 |
I dont know where u are but the best option is to find an obgyn to get your wife tested on wat method is best 4 her.But in d meantime condom and spermicides are ur best bet. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Fhemmmy: 1:31am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Use condom then or the woman can use some other preventive measures. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Akinagirl(f): 1:46am On Oct 07, 2009 |
He wont do it , but yet he wants no kids |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Fhemmmy: 1:57am On Oct 07, 2009 |
He is a joker then. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Akinagirl(f): 2:00am On Oct 07, 2009 |
Tell me about it. Cant eat your cake and still have it. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Arkison: 8:32am On Oct 07, 2009 |
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Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Nobody: 12:48pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Fhemmmy: 4:26pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Dude, then, cut off your balls now and keep it in the freezer and when you ready to use it, take back and re-attach it. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by ubiaa5(f): 4:43pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
spermicides r small flat strips that a woman inserts deeply into her before sex,it usually melts n kills d sperms dat comes in contact wit,but its abt 94% effective so it shd be combined wit someting else.They r available in pharmacies. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Fhemmmy: 5:02pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
ubiaa5: i am sure the dude will come back and make some other forms excuses. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by skfa1: 5:07pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Poster I was told about this thing that ladies can just insert upstires and person like me can just ejaculate there and the thing will be removed and poured away. Anyways ask ur Dokita sha |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Fhemmmy: 5:14pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
skfa1: asewo man |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by rubi(f): 8:54pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
Arkison: If you don't do the highlighted part your arm of flesh will fail you or be ready to father a child Pull out is not 100% guarantee |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Fhemmmy: 9:54pm On Oct 07, 2009 |
rubi: Hahahahahahaha. Tell the guy oh. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Akinagirl(f): 12:06am On Oct 08, 2009 |
I don't think he's serious. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Fhemmmy: 4:02am On Oct 08, 2009 |
thot as much too. |
Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by Arkison: 9:03am On Oct 08, 2009 |
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Re: Getting Married Soon, But Don't Want To Be A Father So Soon by kilasos(f): 10:19am On Oct 08, 2009 |
There are different options for family planning. From the way you sound, I am not sure you have been sexually intimate. If not visit you doctor,giving enough time so you have all your options. The pill seems to be your best choice and its side effect is not a lot compared to other form of birth controls. Whatever you do,please do not ask your wife to take the injection(Depo Provera). The side effects are countless,she gains weight and it delays fertility for a long time. It stays in the system longer than as prescribed by the doctors. Take care and I wish you all the best in your forthcoming marriage. |
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