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Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by lailo: 10:07am On Aug 25, 2025
Guy let me analyse am for u. Now she looks like gorrila, little by little, the face go change to Agbani Darego for your eyes with Nikki Minaj kind of ass and Tiwa Savage voice grin.
Just give her time, all these changes I highlighted above go happen grin
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by fasho01(m): 10:07am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
We

She soon started being close to me and it became obvious that she was in love with me. But she wowo God forgive me. With pimples on her face.
I'm curious as to how it became obvious that she was in love with you
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Nostalemate: 10:07am On Aug 25, 2025
@OP work on other aspects of your association with church members like letting the youth leader or your church pastor handle the issue .

Shout-out to all Chess players on NL.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by SmartPolician: 10:08am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
Go where?? I'm looking for what I will tell her to stop.
I don't like her but she no dey hear word still trying to woo me.

To make it worse we dey the same group so we see regularly
You are enjoying the attention. If a guy wants to put a lady in her place, it's as easy as ABC. Enjoy the moment, but don't sleep with her because you don't even like her.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by lacasera14(m): 10:08am On Aug 25, 2025
Agreed. She's not attractive to you. Tell her you don't want now before it goes deeper.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Peacecore: 10:09am On Aug 25, 2025
Jeon:
Send her my way.
Draw her close and correct her. She'll fall for it with the hope of looking attractive for you.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by hopexter(m): 10:10am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
Go where?? I'm looking for what I will tell her to stop.
I don't like her but she no dey hear word still trying to woo me.

To make it worse we dey the same group so we see regularly
Tomboys are human too, Just accept her advances without dating her. Take whatever gifts she gives and scratch her scrumbies once in a while.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by dododawa1: 10:16am On Aug 25, 2025
is love a crime ?
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Sermwell(m): 10:16am On Aug 25, 2025
Caaz:
Who noticed seun has removed the 45 character ritual?
He didn't remove it! Sometimes, you're not required to enter it cheesy
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by SmileDance(f): 10:18am On Aug 25, 2025
JASONjnr:
She's probably not a tomboy....

But if she finds you attractive, it means you're probably her spec.

Then if you don't find her attractive, you can either use this opportunity to draw her close and try to redirect her steps and know why she dresses like that and how she should be dressing.

Point is,.you should use this moment to do the gospel.

Who knows? Maybe God wants to use you.
A tomboy is not always a lesbian
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Kobicove(m): 10:18am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
Go where?? I'm looking for what I will tell her to stop.
I don't like her but she no dey hear word still trying to woo me.

To make it worse we dey the same group so we see regularly
Stand your ground
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Hellisreal70: 10:18am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
We are in the same drama group in church at university. She is the group leader but she dress like guy with cap and all that.

She soon started being close to me and it became obvious that she was in love with me. But she wowo God forgive me. With pimples on her face.

Somebody said if a Tomboy is attracted to a guy. That means the guy looks feminine or gay.

Is this true

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The church you attend at the school and it's doctrine is the problem.

1 she dresses like a boy with all tomboy vibes in the church and she is comfortable as a church worker that is supposed to be bornagain.

2 you are just a student that is not ready to marry and you are having the thought of boyfriend/ girlfriend towards your so called sister in Christ. A bornagain Christian brother.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Juanmike(m): 10:19am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
I just tire bro. The part that is scary is why does a Tomboy find me attractivehuh

Na fellow women dem suppose dey toast naaa undecided
That is because you look feminine.
You must be gay or bi
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by SaintLucia: 10:21am On Aug 25, 2025
See wetin Peter Obi and his Agaygay son cause. We never took Obi serious when he said one of the biggest issues facing Anambra state is female girl child problem. We never took Nmandi Kanu serious too when he said Gbajue is a gay. Now see the consequences.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by HeadNigga: 10:25am On Aug 25, 2025
Lol...even one character is now enough. One word sometimes makes sense than a whole paragraph
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by AwkwafinaBabe: 10:25am On Aug 25, 2025
My brother, let love leads grin grin
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Kukutente23: 10:26am On Aug 25, 2025
headbasher96:
Guy I go play along start to bill her like crazy if the billing no work I go tell her say me na only an.al I the do na she go run give me meters
If she no com run nko
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by AwkwafinaBabe: 10:27am On Aug 25, 2025
lailo:
Guy let me analyse am for u. Now she looks like gorrila, little by little, the face go change to Agbani Darego for your eyes with Nikki Minaj kind of ass and Tiwa Savage voice grin.
Just give her time, all these changes I highlighted above go happen grin
You nailed it bro
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Wallade(m): 10:32am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
We are in the same drama group in church at university. She is the group leader but she dress like guy with cap and all that.

She soon started being close to me and it became obvious that she was in love with me. But she wowo God forgive me. With pimples on her face.

Somebody said if a Tomboy is attracted to a guy. That means the guy looks feminine or gay.

Is this true

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It is possible that tom boys get attracted to men or boys that looks or talks or behaves like a lady or girl.

The question is:

Would you like to date her?

Can you handle a ton boy in relationship - they often wanna act like a man. Their level of maturity may be high or they may reason like a man.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by blacksam01: 10:33am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
We are in the same drama group in church at university. She is the group leader but she dress like guy with cap and all that.

She soon started being close to me and it became obvious that she was in love with me. But she wowo God forgive me. With pimples on her face.

Somebody said if a Tomboy is attracted to a guy. That means the guy looks feminine or gay.

Is this true

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Your last line now makes sense to me...

When I was quite younger and extremely handsome, a tomboy too was in my matter .. I didn't give her face... But kept wandering why me
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Jeon(f): 10:39am On Aug 25, 2025
Peacecore:
Draw her close and correct her. She'll fall for it with the hope of looking attractive for you.
Oya, Op give me contact.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Bigchris01(m): 10:40am On Aug 25, 2025
Caaz:
Who noticed seun has removed the 45 character ritual?
E still Dey oo 😂😂😂
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Shedrack777: 10:42am On Aug 25, 2025
Give her my number
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Jeon(f): 10:43am On Aug 25, 2025
Juanmike:
That is because you look feminine.
You must be gay or bi
True.
I am attracted to feminine men.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by jaxxy(m): 10:44am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
We are in the same drama group in church at university. She is the group leader but she dress like guy with cap and all that.

She soon started being close to me and it became obvious that she was in love with me. But she wowo God forgive me. With pimples on her face.

Somebody said if a Tomboy is attracted to a guy. That means the guy looks feminine or gay.

Is this true

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Not true its actually or sometimes the reverse. Tomboy like guys who are masculine or have strong leadership qualities so it make them soft and be feminine.

Na pimples make am wowo or what? Cos some fine girls have pimples or skin breakouts.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Pootle: 10:50am On Aug 25, 2025
post your full picture let me check something
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Jeezuzpick(m):
RollinTNDA:
We are in the same drama group in church at university. She is the group leader but she dress like guy with cap and all that.

She soon started being close to me and it became obvious that she was in love with me. But she wowo God forgive me. With pimples on her face.

Somebody said if a Tomboy is attracted to a guy. That means the guy looks feminine or gay.

Is this true

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Doesn't matter how she dresses.

Tomboy or not, she's an obvious heterosexual. That's why she likes you, a guy. She might be bisexual, tho.......you may discover that down the line, if you get close to her.

However, that's not gonna happen, since you don't like her. Just ease her off, or get someone to do it for you.

After all, na church tins, you dey safe. Drama Coordinator fit epp you.

There's a pretty pumpkin at my workplace, dey too do, dey eye me. She's a small girl. I fit born am as pikin sef (yeah, I'm GenX, she's obviously GenZ) I'm married. Who wants to create hell for himself?

So, I just frown back at her, and mumble a reply when she says hello. I'm sure that's enough.

You could go that route, or just get your leader to help out, since na Church. Plenty Bible verses go flow.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by cucumbar: 10:53am On Aug 25, 2025
RollinTNDA:
We are in the same drama group in church at university. She is the group leader but she dress like guy with cap and all that.

She soon started being close to me and it became obvious that she was in love with me. But she wowo God forgive me. With pimples on her face.

Somebody said if a Tomboy is attracted to a guy. That means the guy looks feminine or gay.

Is this true

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You can change her to suit your taste.
Re: HELP!! A Tomboy Is In Love With Me by Lutherblaq: 10:56am On Aug 25, 2025
😂😂
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