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Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by CLRF: 10:39am On Aug 25, 2025
Don't allow girls to come to your house if you're single. Prevention is better than cure.

Even if she's your fiance and have done introduction. She Coming to your house must be accompanied by a friend.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Peacecore: 10:39am On Aug 25, 2025
DoctorStanley:
In US, UK, etc you do nothing - the police will quickly find out you had nothing to do with it.
In Nigeria start looking for bail money because no matter what, you're getting locked up until you cough up some serious money - if not, you'd be forced to sign confession!
You're on point here. Westerners can easily find out if you have hand in her death or not buh here you don turn ATM machine be that.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by MarkNsukkaBread: 10:41am On Aug 25, 2025
TheOldGods:
I think the best thing is to plan ahead. That means buying a cheap CCTV camera and installing in your living room and bedroom. So when such issues come up, you have video evidence instantly that proves you're innocent and you won't even need anything else to get away with it.
What a dumb idea, why would you install a CCTV in your bedroom?
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Tareq1105: 10:42am On Aug 25, 2025
OBAGADAFFI:
Get a lawyer and report yourself to the Police, then insist on a medical report.
Exactly, you don't have to run even though it's scary. Get your lawyer and report the Case to the nearest police station.

Then if you have knowledge of her health challenge, you report it. Then insist on medical report.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by AntiChristian: 10:43am On Aug 25, 2025
otherway:
Yes in a jungle like Naija, not in a sane country with sound justice system.
In those places too the hospital will holla the police and you'll be interogated too!

But they know you can't run away or hide over there unlike here!
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by omooba05: 10:44am On Aug 25, 2025
When we were young,during the late 80s and eaely 90s girls were safe, He reach GenZ turn dem turn girls to berbeque and Shawarma
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Peacecore: 10:45am On Aug 25, 2025
madridguy:
May this not be our portion. If na Muslim lady you no go too worry once the family no see any foul play because everyone believe our death is following us around.

But if na that region, you must do wedding with dead body, sleep same room with her over night and still drink water dey use take bath am.
Why are you so bitter like this? Shame suppose dey catch u sometimes angry
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by emmamajesty: 10:46am On Aug 25, 2025
Something similar had happened to me, a girl I was planning to marry died in my hand two months before the fixed date. Na that time u go know say no matter how good or innocent u may be do not pray for such situations to happen to u cos people u may not expect will talk to u wrongly
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by cyberbro: 10:48am On Aug 25, 2025
TheOldGods:
I think the best thing is to plan ahead. That means buying a cheap CCTV camera and installing in your living room and bedroom. So when such issues come up, you have video evidence instantly that proves you're innocent and you won't even need anything else to get away with it.
Good point to have cameras around the house but you can't install a CCTV camera in the bedroom. What woman is going to stay in such a room with you in the first place? 😆

Living room, corridors, etc are ok but not the bedroom. Either ways, may we not encounter such.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by KobolanderSegun: 10:50am On Aug 25, 2025
NNtv:
No body is praying for such a misfortune to come upon him but life can be unfortunate sometimes.

Imagine inviting your girlfriend to spend the weekend with you, at your place and she died in her sleep. You as the boyfriend is innocent but it just happened that death came to her at that unplanned time. What is the best way to approach this–in accordance with the law?

I'm asking this question not because of yinka's fate in the image attached below but I have had an experience where the lady I invited over was rubbed while going back from my place. I use to ask myself those times "what if this girl died from this experience?" what would have happened to me?

So, after seeing this news by punch newspaper, it reminded me of my experience and I want to ask the best move to make in a case like yinka's.
Call her parents and then tell them what happened, call all her friends, call a lawyer, call your family, call the police last since you want people to fight for you when the police lock you up.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Kayluka100: 10:54am On Aug 25, 2025
One girl de my side since Friday like this
Immediately I saw this News
She most go back today ASAP
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Peacecore: 10:54am On Aug 25, 2025
God abeg o I nor wan see myself in this type of shoe o

Me wey don arrange one babe like that to come and stay for some days una come dey put fear 4 ma body angry
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by SonofElElyonRet: 10:55am On Aug 25, 2025
NNtv:
No body is praying for such a misfortune to come upon him but life can be unfortunate sometimes.

Imagine inviting your girlfriend to spend the weekend with you, at your place and she died in her sleep. You as the boyfriend is innocent but it just happened that death came to her at that unplanned time. What is the best way to approach this–in accordance with the law?

I'm asking this question not because of yinka's fate in the image attached below but I have had an experience where the lady I invited over was rubbed while going back from my place. I use to ask myself those times "what if this girl died from this experience?" what would have happened to me?

So, after seeing this news by punch newspaper, it reminded me of my experience and I want to ask the best move to make in a case like yinka's.
Avoid fornication and you won't have to deal with such
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by KobolanderSegun: 10:55am On Aug 25, 2025
CLRF:
Don't allow girls to come to your house if you're single. Prevention is better than cure.

Even if she's your fiance and have done introduction. She Coming to your house must be accompanied by a friend.
DeeperLife Brother. My take is be a gentleman and angel to women so if she dies through fate she would have sang your praises to her parents and her friends who will vouch for you in case of mishap. " He is a wonderful person he could not have done it "they might even contribute to the bail money. That's why eloping is risky if something goes wrong family will put the blame on the living partner
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by harmargedon: 10:57am On Aug 25, 2025
TheOldGods:
I think the best thing is to plan ahead. That means buying a cheap CCTV camera and installing in your living room and bedroom. So when such issues come up, you have video evidence instantly that proves you're innocent and you won't even need anything else to get away with it.
they'll say you've done everything outside before coming inside where the camera is😁😁😁😁😊😊😊. And that was why you pit camera to decive everyone.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by RainMoreDFARMS(f): 10:58am On Aug 25, 2025
Great
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Firstcitizen: 11:01am On Aug 25, 2025
TheOldGods:
I think the best thing is to plan ahead. That means buying a cheap CCTV camera and installing in your living room and bedroom. So when such issues come up, you have video evidence instantly that proves you're innocent and you won't even need anything else to get away with it.
You mean we should plan for the aftermath of the death of every girlfriend that visits us. grin

Does this advise also include putting up a sign on our doors that reads "Girlfriends are not allowed to die here, CCTV monitoring in place" grin
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by immaculatesense(m): 11:01am On Aug 25, 2025
The best thing to do in such a situation is to take her to the hospital. She will be registered as dead on arrival. Make sure you call the police immediately yourself or let someone go to the nearest police station for you in case your are not permitted to leave the hospital premises.
Why you should do the above:
1. The hospital will carry out an autopsy test which may save you in court.
2. You reporting the situation to the police yourself will help your case in court.

DO NOT PANIC. DO NOT DO ANYTHING IRRATIONALLY. DO NOT IMPLICATE YOURSELF.
BE WISE.
MAY GOD SAVE US FROM SUCH SCENARIO.
AMEN.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Peacecore: 11:01am On Aug 25, 2025
Kayluka100:
One girl de my side since Friday like this
Immediately I saw this News
She most go back today ASAP
grin
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by SmileDance(f): 11:04am On Aug 25, 2025
Therock5555:
The simple solution, No Allow Any Girl sleep for your house... Even if na midnight, make she dey go...
What if it happens during the day?
A person can die at anytime
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Fiscus105(m): 11:06am On Aug 25, 2025
motymop:
Do not panic, do not run, call your friends or family member, if you have a lawyer call one and then report yourself to the police

Do not tamper with the body in any way., the girl has family members, they will look for her. if you do that, you have worsen your situation

Tell your lawyer to get a doctor to do an autopsy as they move you to jail. be prepared to be accused of being a ritual killer and a kidnapper and be prepared to be on blogs, which will destroy your reputation, only after the police have done their investigation will they release you.

And hope you dont live in the ghetto or low to middle income home or you might be lynched.

after you have been released, quickly go online and clear your name by giving interviews to known bloggers, if you have money buy spaces on newspapers to clear your name. if possible visit the girl family to also clear your name, move on with your life or change location.
Ur suggestions are good but not effective In Naija policing system. Infact, the family of deceased would also complicate the issue, even if they know their daughter dies of natural cause. They would still want to make you cough money for them to enjoy.

Case study is Mohbad death.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by DeOTR: 11:07am On Aug 25, 2025
NNtv:
No body is praying for such a misfortune to come upon him but life can be unfortunate sometimes.

Imagine inviting your girlfriend to spend the weekend with you, at your place and she died in her sleep. You as the boyfriend is innocent but it just happened that death came to her at that unplanned time. What is the best way to approach this–in accordance with the law?

I'm asking this question not because of yinka's fate in the image attached below but I have had an experience where the lady I invited over was rubbed while going back from my place. I use to ask myself those times "what if this girl died from this experience?" what would have happened to me?

So, after seeing this news by punch newspaper, it reminded me of my experience and I want to ask the best move to make in a case like yinka's.
You're going to jail at the very least. There's no dealing with anything.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Kajaard: 11:24am On Aug 25, 2025
Therock5555:
The simple solution, No Allow Any Girl sleep for your house... Even if na midnight, make she dey go...
The boldfaced, best answer
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Therock5555(m): 11:27am On Aug 25, 2025
SmileDance:
What if it happens during the day?
A person can die at anytime
Carry body go trowey for your neighbor compound, but make nobody see you sha...



Comot come follow observe when them blow alarm...
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Saladdin: 11:29am On Aug 25, 2025
motymop:
Do not panic, do not run, call your friends or family member, if you have a lawyer call one and then report yourself to the police

Do not tamper with the body in any way., the girl has family members, they will look for her. if you do that, you have worsen your situation

Tell your lawyer to get a doctor to do an autopsy as they move you to jail. be prepared to be accused of being a ritual killer and a kidnapper and be prepared to be on blogs, which will destroy your reputation, only after the police have done their investigation will they release you.

And hope you dont live in the ghetto or low to middle income home or you might be lynched.

after you have been released, quickly go online and clear your name by giving interviews to known bloggers, if you have money buy spaces on newspapers to clear your name. if possible visit the girl family to also clear your name, move on with your life or change location.
You've made solid points. However all these points to some of the disastrous consequences of fornication/adultery.

Asides from the health, social and other consequences, it can also damage one's reputation instantly.

Marriage still remains and will always remain the best option.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by ChiefS(m): 11:29am On Aug 25, 2025
That is one of the reasons you should never invite her to your house to pass the night if you are not yet married. You go explain tire!!!

NNtv:
No body is praying for such a misfortune to come upon him but life can be unfortunate sometimes.

Imagine inviting your girlfriend to spend the weekend with you, at your place and she died in her sleep. You as the boyfriend is innocent but it just happened that death came to her at that unplanned time. What is the best way to approach this–in accordance with the law?

I'm asking this question not because of yinka's fate in the image attached below but I have had an experience where the lady I invited over was rubbed while going back from my place. I use to ask myself those times "what if this girl died from this experience?" what would have happened to me?

So, after seeing this news by punch newspaper, it reminded me of my experience and I want to ask the best move to make in a case like yinka's.
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Beermoney1: 11:31am On Aug 25, 2025
1. Report to the police to remove suspicion of foul play.
2. Settle with the family of the victim. You have to pay money for the burial etc
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Beermoney1: 11:33am On Aug 25, 2025
1. Report to the police to remove suspicion of foul play.
2. Get a lawyer immediately, they have seen some of these things, they are experienced in dealing with police and the victims family.
3. Settle with the family of the victim. You have to pay money for the burial etc. The lawyer and police would facilitate this or go to court
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Saladdin: 11:34am On Aug 25, 2025
Juanmike:
I no fit advice you for this one o, this na your cross.
Carry it alone, I no wan become accomplice.
You'd better turn yourself in to the police.
Instead of life...you will get 10 to 15 years.
Before you know you are out.
Bia, Mikel, na so una dey advise for here? cheesy cheesy
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Samajogs: 11:40am On Aug 25, 2025
Bruh... Just report yourself to the nearest authority for peace to reign... Too much Opueh is not good
Re: Girlfriend Dies In Boyfriend's House: How Best To Deal With This As A Man? by Ashirioluwa: 11:44am On Aug 25, 2025
DoctorStanley:
In US, UK, etc you do nothing - the police will quickly find out you had nothing to do with it.
In Nigeria start looking for bail money because no matter what, you're getting locked up until you cough up some serious money - if not, you'd be forced to sign confession!
The only solution if you live in this part of the world is not to invite a woman to your house because Nigerian police will not do any investigation to know if the death is due to natural causes or homicide.

Nigerian police will see it as a way to make money for themselves.
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