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Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by olaolaking: 12:14pm On Aug 28, 2025
ARISHEM:
What if the woman now marries and convinced the new husband that the child is his, like a paternity fraud. And after like 2 years or more the original father changed his mind and say he wants the child or children back that he was the one that impregnated or impregnating the woman and not her husband.
And the husband don’t want divorce his wife as a result
must she divorce before she gives the owner his child?
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by pansophist(m): 12:19pm On Aug 28, 2025
Dogalmighty17:
Good morning Ebele. I follow your posts closely.
There's this particular incident where a man with two wives raped a 12 year old girl. The girl got pregnant and gave birth to twins. One died. The man is in custody waiting for sentencing.
Now the girls father wants the baby adopted out. He has found a childless woman who has already taken the baby. The girls father
will be signing the adoption papers next week.

The girls father wants to have nothing to do with the baby and he also doesn't want his daughter to. That's why they are giving the child away.

My question is, considering that the mother is a minor, can any papers signed by her father be considered valid? If the rapist somehow escapes sentencing and is freed, can he make claims for the child? The baby is currently 6 weeks old and his mom just clocked 13 last month.
I'll appreciate your take please. Thank you.
This is a very good question. Now lets get few things clear out, for clarity sake.

1. A minor has no full legal capacity, so in this case, her guardian (either mother, father, or appointed) can sign and make decisions on her behalf, even when it concerns her child. The guardian can give the child up for adoption.

2. All of the rapist's rights to custody are terminated immediately upon being convicted for the rape in which the child was conceived.

With the above two points, your questions are answered. But to legalise everything, the father should contact a lawyer and make sure the man is convicted of rape.

Mind you, the adoption process must be carried legally. So it must go through a court of law. If it went through, then it means the law recognised the father's right to act on behalf of the child.

The very act of the rapist's conviction automatically relinquish all his parental rights to the child. Although it might be difficult to convict him for rape depending on his age, since minors having sex together are judged differently than situation where its an adult and a child.
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by omooba969(m): 12:29pm On Aug 28, 2025
pansophist:
Two people can have custody at the same time, if they are both responsible. A child born outside wedlock does not deny the father custodian rights and duties.

Ortherwise, it will create a situation where the freedom of the individual is trampled upon by the states, because there are lots of women that do not want to get married, but still wants a child.
Do you disagree with my comment, if yes, can you point out the part you don't agree with?
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by pansophist(m): 12:34pm On Aug 28, 2025
omooba969:
Do you disagree with my comment, if yes, can you point out the part you don't agree with?
Your comment suggests or implies that the father may not have custodial rights and obligations. Or that his right commences if the mother for whatever reasons cant
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by 43Ronin: 12:44pm On Aug 28, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Why not include a image referencing the actual record and section of the law where these ideas are recorded? undecided
The Court of Appeal made this clear in Muojekwu v. Ejikeme (2000) 5 NWLR (Pt. 657) 402. In that case, TOBI, J.C.A. held:
Why don't you Google the above judgement to gain clarity
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by omooba969(m): 12:45pm On Aug 28, 2025
pansophist:
Your comment suggests or implies that the father may not have custodial rights and obligations. Or that his right commences if the mother for whatever reasons cant
Well, in the case of custody battle, the law recognises the mother as the primary caregiver. The father's right of contact would be also be recognised, and there would be a court order to enforce this.
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Thundafireseun: 12:56pm On Aug 28, 2025
ExudeLoveToAll:
There is nothing like a child out of wedlock belongs to the family, that's cultural practices that have no basis in law just like the igbos also don't inheritance to women which has no basis in law, supreme Court has set a precedence in this. Once you sure you are the child's father, you are the father for life unless you don't want to activate your rights if stepped upon.

When a man refuses to be a dad, the onus is in the lady to take him to court so the court forces him to also care for his child. If the lady refuses to do this and the man comes after ten years to now wants to be in the child's life you as a lady can't do shit , the court will grant him that fatherly right to the child. This has nothing to do whether you were married or not, children out of wedlock have same rights with children born in wedlock.

That child you speak about if the man dies he has rights to inheritance just as other children but the stupid culture will allow him to inherit. There are things are may seem ok culturally but are illegal in the sight of the law this is one of them.
May God almighty in Heaven have mercy on you….

You have no idea what you’re saying
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by fxexperts: 1:10pm On Aug 28, 2025
Successlane:
Out of wedlock or legally married,

A child belongs to the

BIOLOGICAL FATHER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Period.
You are wrong, damn wrong on this one.
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by gr8child(m): 1:21pm On Aug 28, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Why not include a image referencing the actual record and section of the law where these ideas are recorded? undecided
He cited a Court of Appeal case.
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 1:23pm On Aug 28, 2025
43Ronin:
The Court of Appeal made this clear in Muojekwu v. Ejikeme (2000) 5 NWLR (Pt. 657) 402. In that case, TOBI, J.C.A. held:
Why don't you Google the above judgement to gain clarity
...
gr8child:
✓ He cited a Court of Appeal case.
...
Zouzer:
✓ The OP cited a landmark case law where the Supreme Court made the pronouncement. That forms part of our laws and all lower courts must apply it as it is. Laws are not only recorded in statutes. The court's pronouncements(case law) forms part of law too
Knowing what I know of Nigerian judicial decisions and how they tend to violate/contravene even the Law of the land from time to time, I rather focus m learning what the Law in fact says. undecided

And no, your court decisions are not intended to form part of the Law. Rather, Court decisions are meant to comply with the Law. Otherwise, they violate they are in direct violation of the Law and ought to be done away with. That is why any right minder person should insist on knowing what the Law says before investigating other opinions. lipsrsealed
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 1:31pm On Aug 28, 2025
MrDoGood:
✓ Try dey read finish.... W get why
Try to process the reason for a response before commenting next time. undecided
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 1:33pm On Aug 28, 2025
yemre:
Do yourself a favour by getting the law report detailing the referenced judgement. The judges would not just pass a judgement without an extensive details and references to the part of the law or constitution that supports it.
You will even learn more beyond what you envisaged
.
Your judges are notoriously corrupt yet you utter this nonsense my way for what purpose? To tell me I should trust the judgement of men who are known to defy the very law of the land in favor of that which benefits their course? Are you kidding? undecided
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 1:35pm On Aug 28, 2025
alphaconde:
✓ WHAT RECORD. THE NWLR WAS QUOTED. HAVE U LOOKED IT UP AND DIDNT FIND IT
If this is the way you lot approach the law... Then the corrupt judiciary isn't the only problem I see here. shocked shocked shocked
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by TrackerSK: 1:40pm On Aug 28, 2025
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
I'm a victim currently, one Igbo girl from Enugu got pregnant for me, I spent a lot on her till she gave birth job carry me from my location to another town on the nine months she suppose to deliver, I sent her money for hospital bill, and also for upkeep, this lady delivered successfully and disappeared with my baby, she blocked my line, if I use a new number to call her, she will block that too
How do you know that you are the father of the child? Have you done DNA test?
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by eepeepook: 1:47pm On Aug 28, 2025
Isn’t that what DNA tests are for?
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Mokole2023: 1:52pm On Aug 28, 2025
The writer has misused the word "custody". The write-up is basically saying that a man has rights to a child born out of wedlock which is quite different from CUSTODY. Even though he tried mentioning custody, but i still think the purpose of the whole post was about parental rights and not necessarily custody, because even legally married couples also file custody claims if certain conditions permit.
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by TenQ: 1:55pm On Aug 28, 2025
kaltonga:
My man you are correct, the only reason why people leave this court process is that they are traditional that have very strong traditional dietes and oracle, that will not bother to go to court with you, them go just knack you wan strong jazz,you go begin see any how till you come beg them so no be everything you dey carry go court except say the family na church peoole
To the courts, it is all about compelling EVIDENCE: if you don't have it , forget about it
EXCEPT
You can buy your way through the system
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by travelzcruix: 2:24pm On Aug 28, 2025
See eh. In anything you do, If you want a polygamous home, convert to any religion that still supports it. Just tell the family that according to your religious tradition, your son must come for spiritual cleansing that last for 15 years. Thank me later.
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by CondemnBattery(f): 2:44pm On Aug 28, 2025
But sharia law supercedes Nigerian law abi.

This country is a joke.

What is good for guinea is good for uganda
Fiscus105:
Is community customs and traditions superceded Nigeria constitution?

Capital No.

Let the father takes them to court ,he would come out victorious. I know it is Igbo tribe that has, all these funny traditions.

That was how they wanted to play nonsense with Bianca until she defeated then in Court.
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Fiscus105(m): 3:05pm On Aug 28, 2025
CondemnBattery:
But sharia law supercedes Nigerian law abi.

This country is a joke.

What is good for guinea is good for uganda
If you are educated,you would know Sharia law is part of Nigeria's constitutions, but since you are an illiterate you didn't know.

If you want your igbo custom to be part of Nigeria laws, you are free to take it to national assembly for incorporation, not until then, Igbo custom must give way for Nigeria constitution.


Learn how not to overwhelm by prejudice & emotions. I mean tribal and religion biases , this would help you to be arriving in logical and rational conclusion, which will be moving society forward.

Let go back to OP, if you are the one that impregnated a lady, in which, you were not financially capable to do wedding, because of that, they take away your blood, how will you feel? The man that want to claim the child, doesn't he has erection to impregnate woman? Must he wait for woman, that has been impregnated by another man like him
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by auduadeniyi(m): 3:06pm On Aug 28, 2025
go on a low key beg the family and be ready to take responsibly but taking it through court you will be in a serious mess they will lie against you even self you can be jail for that
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Zouzer: 3:14pm On Aug 28, 2025
Kobojunkie:
...... Knowing what I know of Nigerian judicial decisions and how they tend to violate/contravene even the Law of the land from time to time, I rather focus m learning what the Law in fact says. undecided

And no, your court decisions are not intended to form part of the Law. Rather, Court decisions are meant to comply with the Law. Otherwise, they violate they are in direct violation of the Law and ought to be done away with. That is why any right minder person should insist on knowing what the Law says before investigating other opinions. lipsrsealed
This is such a flawed take. I didn't even understand most of that. And you clearly don't know a lot about the Nigerian legal system.

Again, the court's pronouncements constitute our corpus juris (body of laws). When there's a dispute as to the interpretation of provisions of a legislation (which appears to be the only form of law you know), the court is the avenue to give correct meaning to it. It is their interpretation that adds flesh to legislation

There are rules to statutory interpretation. Sometimes, when the court interprete legislations, you'd be surprised at how the law can be stretched or restricted so that it can be applied to fit the circumstances of a case.

I suppose that's why a layman like yourself can arrogantly state that "judicial decisions violate the law of land".

Let it be known to you today that, whatever authoritative interpretation the courts give to a statute acquires the force of law. The only ways such interpretation will cease its authority is if It's overturned by higher courts (eg Supreme Court overturning the Court of Appeal judgement) or by the same court in future cases (eg Supreme Court reversing its decision on a point of law it had decided in the past) or through legislative amendment (eg when the court interprete a statute, it may expose some weaknesses in that legislation, so it behoves on the legislature to amend that legislation so as to cure that deficiency. Go and read about Amaechi V INEC where the Supreme Court held that votes belong to the candidates and not the party. And in response, the NASS quickly ran to amend the section 141 of the Electoral Act, 2010)
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Arda1000(m): 3:30pm On Aug 28, 2025
ExudeLoveToAll:
There is nothing like a child out of wedlock belongs to the family, that's cultural practices that have no basis in law just like the igbos also don't inheritance to women which has no basis in law, supreme Court has set a precedence in this. Once you sure you are the child's father, you are the father for life unless you don't want to activate your rights if stepped upon.

When a man refuses to be a dad, the onus is in the lady to take him to court so the court forces him to also care for his child. If the lady refuses to do this and the man comes after ten years to now wants to be in the child's life you as a lady can't do shit , the court will grant him that fatherly right to the child. This has nothing to do whether you were married or not, children out of wedlock have same rights with children born in wedlock.

That child you speak about if the man dies he has rights to inheritance just as other children but the stupid culture will allow him to inherit. There are things are may seem ok culturally but are illegal in the sight of the law this is one of them.
weyrey Igbo people are wise,the inheritance of a woman is at her husbands home unless her parents don’t have male kids
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 3:53pm On Aug 28, 2025
Zouzer:
➜....Let it be known to you today that, whatever authoritative interpretation the courts give to a statute acquires the force of law. The only ways such interpretation will cease its authority is if It's overturned by higher courts (eg Supreme Court overturning the Court of Appeal judgement) or by the same court in future cases (eg Supreme Court reversing its decision on a point of law it had decided in the past) or through legislative amendment.
This is the only part I will bother broaching at this point since I made myself clear in previous comments on why I prefer to focus on learning what the Law instead says.

Yes, Judicial interpretations can have the force of law. However, as you also hinted at there in the last part of your post, they are not absolute and can be challenged. undecided
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by HenryWilliams(m): 4:01pm On Aug 28, 2025
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
I'm a victim currently, one Igbo girl from Enugu got pregnant for me, I spent a lot on her till she gave birth job carry me from my location to another town on the nine months she suppose to deliver, I sent her money for hospital bill, and also for upkeep, this lady delivered successfully and disappeared with my baby, she blocked my line, if I use a new number to call her, she will block that too
When the man she's with gets tired of her and her child and the bills for the child's upkeep becomes too much for her to bear..
She'll be the one calling you day and night seeking a day to dump the kid on you.
Just relax..
She'll come back
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by dom(m): 4:06pm On Aug 28, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Why not include a image referencing the actual record and section of the law where these ideas are recorded? undecided
He cited an authority there; a Court of Appeal decision. That suffices.
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 4:08pm On Aug 28, 2025
dom:
➜He cited an authority there; a Court of Appeal decision. That suffices.
Wrong! sad
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Zouzer: 4:13pm On Aug 28, 2025
Kobojunkie:
This is the only part I will bother broaching at this point since I made myself clear in previous comments on why I prefer to focus on learning what the Law instead says.

Yes, Judicial interpretations can have the force of law. However, as you also hinted at there in the last part of your post, they are not absolute and can be challenged. undecided
Mister, you can pick up the Constitution, an Act of the National Assembly, a Law of a State House of Assembly, or even delegated legislation made by statutory bodies, and you might understand some of the provisions.

But UNDERSTANDING the law is not limited to just reading statutes. You are still straitjacketing your understanding of what “law” truly entails.

Like I said, case law adds flesh to statutes. You can't understand the law if all you do is to read statutes but don't read judicial decisions on how those laws apply
Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 4:16pm On Aug 28, 2025
Zouzer:
➜Mister, you can pick up the Constitution, an Act of the National Assembly, a Law of a State House of Assembly, or even delegated legislation made by statutory bodies, and you might understand some of the provisions.
But UNDERSTANDING the law is not limited to just reading statutes. You are still straitjacketing your understanding of what “law” truly entails. Like I said, case law adds flesh to statutes. You can't understand the law if all you do is to read statutes but don't read judicial decisions on how those laws apply
Again, pay close attention to what is being said so you do not keep needing to go off on these meaningless rants.
Kobojunkie:
Yes, Judicial interpretations can have the force of law. However, as you also hinted at there in the last part of your post, they are not absolute and can be challenged. undecided
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