₦airaland Forum

DoctorStanley:
➜Yes. Google the story. There are also cases where married men died with or were killed by lovers. So it's not about gender

OK!

Paulina, dowry, dead woman's family wants to retrieve children.

Sounds Igbo, but why would they expect dowry on a community hoeee?

immortalcrown:
Things like this actually happen, but this one sounds fake.

Paulina is the only name mentioned. No address, no location, no date, not even the name of the hotel, not even the name of the police division.

The news is coming out of Nigeria na, do you actually expect any better?

pocohantas:
Maybe her husband drinks kaikai and was knocked out for the night.😀

Chai!
You wicked, girl

And if you are a kaikai drinker, no e'rection for you.

Happy some now know these stories are fake. Just used to generate traffic cos Nigerians love to hate their women, including their mothers and sisters

kiddaz:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0Q1QTGQEfbue7bWJk3DmCyMx8FnZqLdQXdXwcBBFMoz7p4e4ZiFcmjK1ZixTmCgZLl&id=100051971922820&mibextid=Nif5oz

See as bushmeat catch hunter for real...the man used her in a neat way

Sadly enough it's social media that pressures and pushes these ladies into olosho work, and the same social media ends up exposing them to the world when they fall into occultic trap and die shameful deaths

Kobicove:
This is a fake story, how could she have left home at 10pm without the husband knowing?

These days most Okadas close for work by 9pm as mandated by the government

Cheating partners can come up with any story and the one been cheated on can either believe or not. I have witnessed married neighbour leave her home with husband and kids around 12 midnight to meet another man. If the story is fake it's definitely not because of those situations you mentioned

Okada might be mandated to close by 9pm it still doesn't mean the rider should be home by then. We live in a real world where real things happen and sometimes they sound unbelievable until you experience it or witness it first hand. Things are not always done by the book !

arantess:
You did not pay dowry but she is your wife, HOW?

You were cohabiting and not married in the eyes of God and the law

As for the woman, na express to hell

Sometimes I wonder if people think of dying while committing adultery, and where they expect to find themselves if they kpai in the process. Those doing these things are playing a dangerous gamble because I don’t know of any other place than hell if they should kick the bucket in such filthy situations.

Kobicove:
This is a fake story, how could she have left home at 10pm without the husband knowing?

These days most Okadas close for work by 9pm as mandated by the government

Some bike guys luv driving into the night because they make lot of money by over charging. And they often carry yahoo boys to clubs and pick them back.
My personal bike man is always ready to come even if I call him late at night. Most men are really hustling in Nigeria just to put food on the table for family.

Eniitankorede:
➜Sometimes I wonder if people think of dying while committing adultery, and where they expect to find themselves if they kpai in the process. Those doing these things are playing a dangerous gamble because I don’t know of any other place than hell if they should kick the bucket in such filthy situations.

And you have visited this hell yourself to know for sure that people who die this way in fact end up there? Nonsense!

MarkNsukkaBread:
Clearly the Okada man was not doing his job in the bedroom well so his wife asked someone to help him out

Even if u kill urself for bed, any woman wey get the spirit of promiscuity go surely cheat.

This is very shameful coming from a woman. If the deceased thought it wise to stay with the man for 15 years and had 3 kids with him, who are you to invalidate that because some oil and yams didnt exchange hands?

Imagine if the man after 15 years was telling everybody that she is not his wife? Imagine if the man became and governor and refused her to be first lady saying she's not his wife? You would be the first to come and cry and complain. See you claiming dead body? Like this person is dead...which yeye claiming are you claiming? Even if its the culture, the culture was made by human beings like you, from time to time human beings should be able to review these culture and tradition for their best interest.

Of course I'm not against a proper marriage in any way, but in cases as these, let commonsense prevail. Insisting that a woman who has given her best years to a man after 15years is just a live in lover shortchanges women and empowers the men to treat such women less.

In the US, if an unmarried man, in the absence of any kids, his "live in lover" (provided they've been together for sometime) gets his estate. Live in lovers are not worthless and married woman are not only worthy because yam and oil exchanged hands.

Twoclans:
No dowry paid ,she is not your wife.her body belongs to her family.She was just your live in lover.

D00msDay:
➜Even if u kill urself for bed, any woman wey get the spirit of promiscuity go surely cheat.

There is no such thing as the spirit of promiscuity. Anyone can cheat, and it only takes deciding to do so as many times as one wants to.

Kobojunkie:
Asking what their father was doing at that time is contrarian? Are the children not his children too?

The man must have been at work. Working his ass off just to put food on the table for the family.

D00msDay:
➜The man must have been at work. Working his ass off just to put food on the table for the family.

You are certain of this because you were there, or what?

arantess:
You did not pay dowry but she is your wife, HOW?

You were cohabiting and not married in the eyes of God and the law

As for the woman, na express to hell

express to hell where devil awaits her with quality hellfire koboko

Kobojunkie:
There is no such thing as the spirit of promiscuity. Anyone can cheat, and it only takes deciding to do so as many times as one wants to.

There is. Some people lack discipline and self control. I know of married men who married beautiful wives wit gud characters, yet the men go around sleeping wit small girls. Such men lack self control and are womanizers. Same goes to some ladies.

BigBrother54321:
This is very shameful coming from a woman. If the deceased thought it wise to stay with the man for 15 years and had 3 kids with him, who are you to invalidate that because some oil and yams didnt exchange hands?

Imagine if the man after 15 years was telling everybody that she is not his wife? Imagine if the man became and governor and refused her to be first lady saying she's not his wife? You would be the first to come and cry and complain. See you claiming dead body? Like this person is dead...which yeye claiming are you claiming? Even if its the culture, the culture was made by human beings like you, from time to time human beings should be able to review these culture and tradition for their best interest.

Of course I'm not against a proper marriage in any way, but in cases as these, let commonsense prevail. Insisting that a woman who has given her best years to a man after 15years is just a live in lover shortchanges women and empowers the men to treat such women less.

In the US, if an unmarried man, in the absence of any kids, his "live in lover" (provided they've been together for sometime) gets his estate. Live in lovers are not worthless and married woman are not only worthy because yam and oil exchanged hands.

Very well said and a proper response to those myopic and emotional beings. 15 years and 3 kids together all termed worthless because yam and oil didn't get to some greedy ancestors and their reps. Tradition is man made and there's always a thousand ways around it. It's what it is

descarado:
Chai!
You wicked, girl

And if you are a kaikai drinker, no e'rection for you.

Happy some now know these stories are fake. Just used to generate traffic cos Nigerians love to hate their women, including their mothers and sisters

Hahhaa... Many of those bikemen drink kaikai na. A better guesss would be that he wasn't home. I am just trying to give some validity to the story. Make business dey move for our Oga Seùn.

D00msDay:
➜There is. Some people lack discipline and self control.
➜ I know of married men who married beautiful wives wit gud characters, yet the men go around sleeping wit small girls. Such men lack self control and are womanizers. Same goes to some ladies.

A lack of discipline and self-control are both behavioural issues that have nothing to do with this religious concept of spirits.

2. Behavioral problems have to do with the intelligence of an individual and not spirits.

Kobojunkie:
You are certain of this because you were there, or what?

Kobojunkie my paddy, u too like vawulence. If ur based in Nigeria u will understand how men work tirelessly here, while the woman's primary role is taking care of the house/children. That's a typical African setting.

Kobojunkie:
A lack of discipline and self-control are both behavioural issues that have nothing to do with this religious concept of spirits.

2. Behavioral problems have to do with the intelligence of an individual and not spirits.

Wen I said spirit, I didn't mean the "supernatural spirit" but the spirit that controls the human body.

BigBrother54321:
This is very shameful coming from a woman. If the deceased thought it wise to stay with the man for 15 years and had 3 kids with him, who are you to invalidate that because some oil and yams didnt exchange hands?

Imagine if the man after 15 years was telling everybody that she is not his wife? Imagine if the man became and governor and refused her to be first lady saying she's not his wife? You would be the first to come and cry and complain. See you claiming dead body? Like this person is dead...which yeye claiming are you claiming? Even if its the culture, the culture was made by human beings like you, from time to time human beings should be able to review these culture and tradition for their best interest.

Of course I'm not against a proper marriage in any way, but in cases as these, let commonsense prevail. Insisting that a woman who has given her best years to a man after 15years is just a live in lover shortchanges women and empowers the men to treat such women less.

In the US, if an unmarried man, in the absence of any kids, his "live in lover" (provided they've been together for sometime) gets his estate. Live in lovers are not worthless and married woman are not only worthy because yam and oil exchanged hands.

When you finish barking go and collect her body and give to the man for burial.Maybe you did not see the part of the story that says she died in Africa

That aside I have experienced two strong cases similar to the man's situation in real life .I wasn't writing because I want to write .I wrote from a place of knowledge.If she is from my state they will take those children she had for him.

Do I support such traditions? Of course not ,I am a woman.i dislike such decision, because last last when you look closely it's decision made by men.

Please loose me with that your sentiments.

D00msDay:
➜Wen I said spirit, I didn't mean the "supernatural spirit" [b]but the spirit that controls the human [/b]body.

There is no control since they lack self-control; rather, there is the desire to get that dopamine high which comes with achieving one's desire to have sex with the other partner.

Believe fb stories at your peril.
He returned home,wife left kids unfed and left the house just b4 the husband closed from his Okada biz.
Why wouldn't she have gone for the rendezvous long before she knows the husband would return.
Secondly,he couldn't have known same day that the wife was the one in the morgue so soon.
Thirdly,which man goes straight to a police station in Nigeria without first calling the wife's relations and friends to find out if something took her to go visit them?
Conclusion:fake story

Colos is working here

It may be spiritual. People are ignorant of spirituality. Like in my case, any woman I sleep with and another person mount, just a matter of time it will anger the ******* and it can kill her or make her bed ridden in sickness. Reason I dont sleep around. Ignorance kills more.

lailo:
➜It may be spiritual. People are ignorant of spirituality. Like in my case, any woman I sleep with and another person mount, it will anger the ******* and it can kill her or make her bed ridden in sickness. Reason I dont sleep around. Ignorance kills more.

Stop deluding yourself! It is a choice not to let yourself continue to remain under these delusions, you know.

Kobojunkie:
Stop deluding yourself! It is a choice not to let yourself continue to remain under these delusions, you know.

Delusion? May be na u born me

Paulina looseguard.
I hate promiscuous women

lailo:
➜Delusion? May be na u born me

I don't need to born you to know that what you described there is nothing but a private delusion of yours.

Kobojunkie:
There is no control since they lack self-control; rather, there is the desire to get that dopamine high which comes with achieving one's desire to have sex with the other partner.

Wow. Tanx for this piece of info. 👍

A relief to the man, a reward for the woman