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She Didn’t Marry You, She Married the Divorce Settlement

Most modern women don’t walk down the aisle for love.

They don’t marry for family.

They don’t marry for legacy.

They marry for leverage.

And the leverage is divorce.

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1. Marriage is just a setup, divorce is her end goal.

To the modern woman,

The wedding is just an event,

One where she gets to show off her dress and life,

To her, the marriage is just a contract,

That is why afterwards,

She nags,

She doesn’t value anything you do for her,

All because she’s focused on the end goal,

Divorce! That’s the jackpot.

She’s not thinking forever, she’s thinking of how she can take half of what you own.

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2. The modern woman knows that the court works in her favor.

The modern wife doesn’t need to stay faithful.

She doesn’t see the need to be committed either,

Why? Because she knows if she decides to leave today,

It’s your loss and her gain,

You don’t only lose your assets,

You stand a chance to lose your life also

While she revels in your sweat.

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3. Marriage is a marketing, divorce is sales.

Let’s be truthful,

Modern marriage is no longer about love,

it’s basically vows made with just mouth not heart,

The woman enters with the mindset to cash out,

putting the man at the risk of losing all,

But prenups saves men

Especially from losing it all.

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4. The modern woman doesn’t choose a man, she chooses security

She didn’t marry you,

she married prospect,

She married the life you could offer her,

She married the comfort of not having to pay her bills,

But the moment you can’t provide,

or she sees someone better, she’s gone.

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Final Word

Modern men still enter marriage thinking it’s favorable,

Modern women today see it as strategy,

You need to see it that,

She didn’t marry you just for love,

She married with one thought in her mind,

The settlement she gets if she divorces you,

And if you don’t protect yourself,

You are settling her future while you lose yours.

Marriage wahala
Why does marriage doesn't last
At first it will looks like true love soon after 10 years wahala done start some no stay reach 2 years

uchkochi:
She Didn’t Marry You, She Married the Divorce Settlement

Most modern women don’t walk down the aisle for love.

They don’t marry for family.

They don’t marry for legacy.

They marry for leverage.

And the leverage is divorce.

---

1. Marriage is just a setup, divorce is her end goal.

To the modern woman,

The wedding is just an event,

One where she gets to show off her dress and life,

To her, the marriage is just a contract,

That is why afterwards,

She nags,

She doesn’t value anything you do for her,

All because she’s focused on the end goal,

Divorce! That’s the jackpot.

She’s not thinking forever, she’s thinking of how she can take half of what you own.

---

2. The modern woman knows that the court works in her favor.

The modern wife doesn’t need to stay faithful.

She doesn’t see the need to be committed either,

Why? Because she knows if she decides to leave today,

It’s your loss and her gain,

You don’t only lose your assets,

You stand a chance to lose your life also

While she revels in your sweat.

---

3. Marriage is a marketing, divorce is sales.

Let’s be truthful,

Modern marriage is no longer about love,

it’s basically vows made with just mouth not heart,

The woman enters with the mindset to cash out,

putting the man at the risk of losing all,

But prenups saves men

Especially from losing it all.

---

4. The modern woman doesn’t choose a man, she chooses security

She didn’t marry you,

she married prospect,

She married the life you could offer her,

She married the comfort of not having to pay her bills,

But the moment you can’t provide,

or she sees someone better, she’s gone.

---

Final Word

Modern men still enter marriage thinking it’s favorable,

Modern women today see it as strategy,

You need to see it that,

She didn’t marry you just for love,

She married with one thought in her mind,

The settlement she gets if she divorces you,

And if you don’t protect yourself,

You are settling her future while you lose yours.

You obviously are ignorant of nigerian divorce laws.

Cum4me:
➜Marriage wahala Why does marriage doesn't last
At first it will looks like true love soon after 10 years wahala done start some no stay reach 2 years

Most times, the reason it looks like true love to those outside of relationship, for the first couple of years, is that both partners in the relationship, particularly the woman, go out of their way to present a polished public image of a perfect relationship to wow you with. After a while, fatigue sets in, and before long, the cracks start to show. Then, finally, they give up on the futility of whitewashing what has been obviously a bad match from the get-go for them. That is usually when people like you come in, making the statement in bold there.