₦airaland Forum

hoygift:
Don't be the victim and don't blame people for their sins. One old woman was advising a young man he should endeavor to marry a free woman. That any woman who has a baby is no longer free, and not suitable for marriage.

Very wise old woman.

It doesn't matter why she's a single mum. She likely has too much baggage going with her. The trauma of divorce, widowhood or being abandoned by her first man or baby daddy.

Either she believes life is unfair or that men are scum. She's with you for the benefit for her and her child only, not commitment to build a life with you.

You are not a firefighter to be quenching fire set by others or circumstances in her life before meeting you.

For those saying it is fake, I have seen several real life cases that would sound less credible than this story if I hadn't witnessed them.

Makavelli001:
I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



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I'm happy you took everything from her.

Why is dna issue always making front page? DNA testing has been in existence for many years. Once nigerians open eye to something, they will overflow the matter. How come na every dna test dey make news nowadays

Very sick people

Omo this story weak me

Later dem go say Gehgeh is preaching misogyny see example. As how na ah ahn😃😃

heracles1:
most of this stories wallahi are fake. majority of Nigerian families dont even need any DNA if a child is your you must see a sign before thinking of wasting money for dna

The child might look like the mother.

Despite your fuckups, the brotherhood won’t throw you out. Obviously this is a definition of a simp.

I repeat abort any love relationship involving a single mother unless you go cry. Yes the are human and deserved to be loved as feminist would rush this my response. Avoid a single mother because they have tendencies of cheating with that baby father.

Baba you over do honestly, maybe you was looking for where to throw money. Now e don clear for your eyes.

You need to be left alone make you cry blood because I know your friends adviced you but love blind your eyes. You need to be left alone to face your regrets so that you will learn, I know you are already learning the hard way. MAKE UNA AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS, you no get sense or love pass person wey Ditch am. You are free to call me mumu

Oh my !!
Sorry you have to go through this
Stay strong my bro

Mccullum:
Every woman mostly loves their children than husband, either being single mother or not, this will comes out fully when those kids became adults, and many husbands understand this at their old age.

Yeah. But did you see the part about raising another man's kid?

The complexity of baby daddy and mummy hooking up while trying to co parenting.

It's not a simple matter.

We know about a mom's unconditional love for her children but these are your kids.... there's no issue here.

Your relationship with everyone else is transactional...yes.

But do you realise you will have issues with the single mother whenever you discipline her kid.....

We are talking about single mothers and their baggages....let's no shift the goal post

Mrexcell:
You made some sense here nigeria is currently ranked as number two in the world in paternity fraud we will soon become number one very soon if govt doesn't do anything about it.

It's just strange tbh...!

Yet, we are one of the most religious on Earth.

Wetin dey give these our ladies this kind mind?!!

One pikin fit be allowed as mistake, but 2 or more?!! Haba!

Makavelli001:
I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



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The rate which this story of DNA testing keeps popping up I will look for free money to conduct DNA test for my kids oo, this isn’t about trust I want to be sure they are mine because some women are just wicked and heartless

heracles1:
most of this stories wallahi are fake. majority of Nigerian families dont even need any DNA if a child is your you must see a sign before thinking of wasting money for dna

They are mostly true. Paternity fraud is real. I’ve seen it around me.

You did DNA and you have finally seen what you are looking for, so what's the next plan?

Makavelli001:
I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



COPIED FROM #relationshipstory

Eeyah! Sorry o. It is well with IJN.

In Ghe ghe voice,the fact that a child resembles you no means say it's your own.I have seen someone who look like me before,seen Davido look alike etc.

heracles1:
most of this stories wallahi are fake. majority of Nigerian families dont even need any DNA if a child is your you must see a sign before thinking of wasting money for dna

Makavelli001:
I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



COPIED FROM #relationshipstory

I blame you all along, there are thousands advocators across Nigeria shouting on top Thier voices saying don't near baby mama, stay away from baby mama. Don't pity baby mama. But you believe you are a super man, now they've left you behind.

This is called Muúlè for yoruba..... Another story don cooked 🍲 finished

This is a sad story
If she loved her baby Daddy why not stay with him and not marry a kind man. Truly some ladies deserve what comes to them when they treat a kind man badly

AffiliateGuruNG:


Tales by moonlight indeed.

Like paternity fraud isn't the order of the day.

It doesn't matter if this tale happened or not.

It's only a fo*lish man that decides to marry a single mother.

❌ A single mother will never love you as much as they love their kid

❌ A single mother based on Okafor's law will likely go back to the child's father.

❌ A single mother enters a new relationship for economic reasons and love is not one of them

What I mean is that


🚩 You’ll Never Be Her #1 Priority
Her child comes first, always. That means you’ll always be in second place, no matter how much you invest.

🚩 You’re Taking on Another Man’s Responsibility
Raising another man’s child is a heavy commitment. You’re investing your time, resources, and energy into someone else’s legacy.

🚩 The Father is Still in the Picture
Whether through custody arrangements, child support, or emotional ties, the child’s father will always be a factor in your life.

🚩 Her Past is Part of the Package
Single motherhood often comes with emotional baggage, trust issues, or drama from her previous relationship.

🚩 You’ll Spend More, Gain Less
Dating or marrying a single mother isn’t just emotional work—it’s financial. You’ll be expected to step up, even if love wasn’t the main reason she entered the relationship.

🚩 Less Time, Less Freedom
Her schedule revolves around her child, not you. Spontaneous trips, late nights, or alone time will be rare.

🚩 You Lose Leverage
Because she already has a child, she may be less compromising. She knows you accepted her situation, which often shifts the power dynamic.

In conclusion NEVER marry a single mother

Makavelli001:
I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



COPIED FROM #relationshipstory

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Mccullum:
Every woman mostly loves their children than husband, either being single mother or not, this will comes out fully when those kids became adults, and many husbands understand this at their old age.

True.

I love my children more than my husband.
My children cannot throw me away but husband can decide to do away with me and that's valid.
Husband belongs to the street.
My children belongs to me.

The man mumu sha. Marrying a single mother whose ex who impregnated her is still alive and you decide to take his child as your own and even change his surname, that in itself, is a paternity fraud. The man acted foolishly all through.

So sorry, OP. But you have the best decision to get retract everything from her.

Let start from where you met her. Please, how much is the DNA? Let me try it, though my wife is not the type but just to be on safer side but I always tell her, I must do DNA no matter how faithful.

alpharoyalty:
Don't believe everything you read online.
The world is not that bad

Have you read Femi Kuti own story about his former wife

What is paternity fraud? He did the right thing.

LivingEarthMan:
The man mumu sha. Marrying a single mother whose ex who impregnated her is still alive and you decide to take his child as your own and even change his surname, that in itself, is a paternity fraud. The man acted foolishly all through.

All these dna this dna that cmon off it



Man up and leave ya shitty marriage if you no like ya children, being a father does not mean you have to be the biogyological father, father hood encompasses lots of things whivh i wont spoonfeed yall here. Lots of nigerian men have no idea what being a father means


Most biological fathers are so distant from their kids, papa no fit change pikin diaper or play ball with ade

DoctorStanley:
True. They must have been suspecting all along before DNA

Exactly!!!

My younger cousin was already saying negative things about the girl child. My mom will always hush him. Then I told him we should go for a DNA test. That was during COVID and he paid double. The result came out negative

2mch:
Fake story. We don tire for all this fake opata meow scrhhh!

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