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enemyofprogress:
OP your own story is far far better than mine. I went to the hospital and secretly carried out a DNA test on myself, when the result came out, I was told that Dangote was my father. Since then I've been trying to reach out to him all to no avail.

Where did the hospital get Dangote's genetic materials to crosscheck and compare? Oponu

Makavelli001:
I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



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Single mothers are also human and deserve a second chance
But the fact is that they hardly ever make a Good wife, a very low percentage become good wife and its only those that genuinely bore a child out of wedlock mistakenly.

The vast majority of them are actually wayward and their being single mothers is as a result of waywardness

ProsperoPips:
Single mother or not, a woman's first love na him pikin, the husband na second. That's just the truth.

It's actually the other way round

A woman's first love is the father (afterall child only comes later when they've been together)

The moment a child comes into the mix, the love shifts automatically to the child and the father gets less and less

Even the house and car she bought for herself, I took it. I told her to take me to court it she wanted.

It's like she forgot to put the house and car in her name for you to be able to take both from her otherwise, I don't see how you can take what belongs to her without a fight.

Houseofglam7:
On today’s episode of Tales By The Bonfire 🔥

So because it’s not real we should not learn the lessons or do dna? What’s exactly your issue with it asides it being fake?

Makavelli001:
I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



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Let's just say this is true and not s story for reading sake.
You have done the right thing. You have done well.
Try as much as you can and let go of every regret, and any form of hatred towards her.....drop it on the ground and let go.
Move on with your life, seek God , seek Jesus Christ, desire the Holy Spirit, seek a higher and better purpose.

DoctorStanley:
True. They must have been suspecting all along before DNA

This story is fake oga

HenryWilliams:
Where did the hospital get Dangote's genetic materials to crosscheck and compare? Oponu

Did you check the name of the person you quoted?

JustAndy:
You did DNA and you have finally seen what you are looking for, so what's the next plan?

The next plan is to bitter for the rest of his life and Satan truly want to punish him, the next woman won't be able to conceive.

Jman06:
I'm not saying people don't commit paternity frauds, but the reason for that is not always "love" like that guy claimed. Some women are born who,,ores and no matter how much they claim to love a man, they'll still be lashing other men outside. Others do it for financial gains when their men are not meeting up financially.

Just dey there dey play okay? E Dey be like meme for eye till it gets to you. Were we not telling you on that other thread? The most dangerous and silly thing you could ever do to yourself as a man is marrying a woman who still has emotional attachment to someone else—a woman that you love more than she loves you. Make her your best friend and lover before ever proposing marriage to her you say no, that once you love her to the moon and back, everything is fine and she wouldn’t even think of cheating on you once she starts birthing kids for you I pity una life. I pity this coming generation of men. Someone had a child with someone else and without making enough research on what separated them, without even knowing the said man and not as if he was dead when you met her o, you hastily decided to marry her and expected that her love for the “broke” boyfriend who abandoned her would fade off just like that and just because you dey “knack” her and because she don born for you. Just keep enough money for DNA sha, remember I was saying this repeatedly on that other thread? Keep enough money.
Your friend even said a woman would start loving you the moment you start “knacking” her and she starts birthing for you when in actual reality, the reverse is the case as the love women show to their husbands wane with childbirth and that was when I knew you both weren’t married. I pity una😂
Men have no business with being emotional when it comes to marriage as marriage is a very serious matter that shouldn’t be handled with love alone on the part of the man. When you are marrying a woman, your love for her should be the last thing to consider rather, is she appealing to you? Can she be the best mother for your children? Can she multiply you in every way possible? Does this woman have baggage that you can handle as a man? And many other considerations. After all that is done, make her love you first and always scared of losing you. Make her the emotionally weaker party. Make her feel insecure and feel that you are the prize and could leave her if she misbehaves. But please, I’m not saying you shouldn’t love them but it should be visible even to the blind that they love you more. A woman who loves you more would be scared of doing things that could cost her the marriage and love. You don’t buy a woman’s love because it’s expensive and can’t even be bought with money. You will keep paying and renewing the subscription till your last breath. Pesin wey use money buy love no dey pay finish. Showing them they are all you’ve got and that you love them more than they do love you back is a recipe for disaster.
Again, men who marry the women who love them tend to live longer and in pure bliss (good examples are Jay Z, Asap Rocky, Pa Olu Jacob and many other lucky men out there.
Again, most Nigerian girls marry who is available and not who they really love and what happens after this? They go back to cheat on these available men with the ones who have their m u m u buttons at hand no matter how hard you try to love and care for them. This explains why you can be richer than Dangote and a girl would still cheat on you with her poor ex boyfriend.
It’s a circle and you have only yourself to blame for getting married to a singlemother. I have nothing against them because every deserves love but often time, the bonds between them and their babydaddies is not a mess you should put yourself through. Often time, their babydaddies will always occupy the most parts of their hearts. If I must marry a single mother, then she must be a widow.
Stories like this would look fabricated to you until it happens to you, your eye go clear.

HenryWilliams:
Where did the hospital get Dangote's genetic materials to crosscheck and compare? Oponu

ode. Google is your friend. Learn how to use it.

Bedtime story

That's a family affair, deal with it.

jubrilELsudan:
YOU TOOK THE HOUSE AND CAR SHE BOUGHT FOR HERSELF......YOU HAVE JUST SIGNED YOUR DEATH WARRANT CAUSE NO JUDGE WILL BELIEVE ANYTHING YOU SAY OR HAVE ANY SYMPATHY FOR YOU

ALL YOUR WIFE HAS TO SAY IS THAT YOU ARE INFERTILE AND CAN'T FATHER A CHILD AND YOU WERE ALWAYS THREATENING HER WITH DIVORCE IF SHE DOESN'T GET PREGNANT FOR YOU AND YOU USUALLY BEAT HER AND WAS ALWAYS VIOLENT TOWARDS HER FOR NOT CONCEIVING FOR YOU SO SHE HAD NO CHOICE THAN TO SEEK AN ALTERNATIVE AND GET ANOTHER MAN TO MAKE HER PREGNANT SO AS TO KEEP HER MARRIAGE

SHE WOULD EVEN SAY THAT YOUR WHOLE FAMILY TREATHENED TO THROW HER OUT IF SHE DOESN'T GET PREGNANT SOON

YOU ARE FIGHTING A LOSING BATTLE BY TAKING HER HOUSE AND CAR SHE BOUGHT BY HERSELF

BY THE TIME THE JUDICIARY FINISHES WITH YOU....PRAY TO GOD THAT YOU WALK AWAY WITH YOUR PYANT

YOU COLLECTED THE HOUSE AND CAR SHE BOUGHT THAT ARE IN HER NAME....YOU DON'T KNOW THAT THAT IS PURE THEFT AND ARMED ROBBERY THAT CARRIES JAIL TIME OF MINIMUM 25YEARS

I would rather go spiritual. Na Africa we dey.

What do women want?

To a lot of women peace is boredom

Gehgeh university would have help u oooo
It pity sha fear women and know peace

Such stories are many on social apps. Some are cooked up to attract views.

I like those that share their own experience. I relate more.

Jman06:
I'm not saying people don't commit paternity frauds, but the reason for that is not always "love" like that guy claimed. Some women are born who,,ores and no matter how much they claim to love a man, they'll still be lashing other men outside. Others do it for financial gains when their men are not meeting up financially.

exactly looks like some of them can never stay with one man

Where do men go to meet these wayward women who end up giving them children outside their marriage?


author=Makavelli001 post=136634895]I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



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Single mother? God forbid. Never in my life again
They will make you see their baby daddy as a demon and wicked man, yet they still go for him behind your back
Marry a single mom at your own risk, except you confirmed the baby daddy is actually late
Talking from experience

So sorry, in all sincerity this is a eye opener for men. Good men must not labour in vain.

DoctorStanley:
True. They must have been suspecting all along before DNA

You never seee mumu men. They go trust as if their life depends on it, even when all the red flags are there for them to see.



This is why some of us attach so much value to virginity.

For me one virgin is better than 100 non-virgins

evil people demonising single mothers like they dont deserve happiness & love again.

AffiliateGuruNG:
Yeah. But did you see the part about raising another man's kid?

The complexity of baby daddy and mummy hooking up while trying to co parenting.

It's not a simple matter.

We know about a mom's unconditional love for her children but these are your kids.... there's no issue here.

Your relationship with everyone else is transactional...yes.

But do you realise you will have issues with the single mother whenever you discipline her kid.....

We are talking about single mothers and their baggages....let's no shift the goal post

For the children to love their step dad and kind to him, it depends on types of single mother the man married, it also depends on how the step dad takes care of those children when they were kids.

That's my submission to your concern on marrying single mother.

heracles1:
most of this stories wallahi are fake. majority of Nigerian families dont even need any DNA if a child is your you must see a sign before thinking of wasting money for dna

You never see who you no relate and you resemble?

Angelfrost:
While I sense this might be made up... Let's not lie, Paternity Fraud is at an all time high in Nigeria.


It's high time Senate and Judiciary stepped in.

Let there be a huge fine or prison sentence for ladies that deliberately deceive or foist kids of other men on their husbands or partners.

It's terribly and unspeakably EVIL!


I mean... If you want to cheat on your husband, why not insist on Protection?!! What the hell happened to contraception?!!

Last time I checked, Morning After Pills are still very cheap.

you can't jail a woman for that. What would then happen to the child? The only thing is to add DNA and blood group testing to post natal care. It should be required before birth certificate is issued. Even if DNA is not added to the requirements because of cost, blood group should be a requirement at the very least (most children inherit their father's blood group) although it's not as effective as DNA, it's cheaper. If you are A+ and your new born baby is B- you can start saving for DNA right away.

flokii:
There is a spiritual implication to that paternity fraud some women commit as they like.. no be today women don dey cause wahala for human race, they took after their mother Eve.

May God forgive you, how does Eve commit paternal fraud, is there any other Man existing aside Adam

In all you do, stay away from single mothers. Admittedly, not all of them are bad but it's better not to try.

Makavelli001:
I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



COPIED FROM #relationshipstory

This is better as a story I don't think this really happened to op, tales by the moonlight.

NOETHNICITY:
You never seee mumu men. They go trust as if their life depends on it, even when all the red flags are there for them to see.



This is why some of us attach so much value to virginity.

For me one virgin is better than 100 non-virgins

Virginity is good but doesn't guarantee anything. Nothing stops a virgin from later becoming promiscuous OR be sexually incompatible with you OR deciding they hate sex and not wanting you to touch them again