₦airaland Forum

Mccullum:
For the children to love their step dad and kind to him, it depends on types of single mother the man married, it also depends on how the step dad takes care of those children when they were kids.

That's my submission to your concern on marrying single mother.

Difrent:
It's actually the other way round

A woman's first love is the father (afterall child only comes later when they've been together)

The moment a child comes into the mix, the love shifts automatically to the child and the father gets less and less

seunmsg:
They are mostly truth. Paternity fraud is real. I’ve seen it around me.

alpharoyalty:
Don't believe everything you read online.
The world is not that bad

heracles1:
most of this stories wallahi are fake. majority of Nigerian families dont even need any DNA if a child is your you must see a sign before thinking of wasting money for dna

heracles1:
most of this stories wallahi are fake. majority of Nigerian families dont even need any DNA if a child is your you must see a sign before thinking of wasting money for dna

Skeyskey:
Just another tale by moonlight.

Skeyskey:
Just another tale by moonlight.

Skeyskey:
Just another tale by moonlight.

DoctorStanley:
Another stooory!
Wickedlywicked and pansophist come see food .
Jman06 what u think?

AffiliateGuruNG:
These are complexities that I mentioned.

It's neither here nor there when you are playing the step dad.

Truth be told....

Some mothers could turn biological kids against their dads.

So it's up to the dads to do their home work, show up and build that bond with their kids.

Step kids could love and be kind to their step dads but they will always yarn for their biological dads. There is this bond we share with our biological parents that's can't be put in words.

What I am saying is life is already complicated as it seems, why complicate it more with baggages.

Makavelli001:
I Conducted DNA Test On My Kids, Non Of Them Is Mine.



COPIED FROM #relationshipstory

ibechris:
If u want to have rest of mind avoid single mothers.

ibechris:
If u want to have rest of mind avoid single mothers.

heracles1:
most of this stories wallahi are fake. majority of Nigerian families dont even need any DNA if a child is your you must see a sign before thinking of wasting money for dna

Barteze:
Why are you angry if you changed the name of another man's child to yours just continue that way. MUGU.

NOETHNICITY:
This is why some of us attach so much value to virginity.

For me one virgin is better than 100 non-virgins

Wickedlywicked:
Just dey there dey play okay? E Dey be like meme for eye till it gets to you. Were we not telling you on that other thread? The most dangerous and silly thing you could ever do to yourself as a man is marrying a woman who still has emotional attachment to someone else—a woman that you love more than she loves you. Make her your best friend and lover before ever proposing marriage to her you say no, that once you love her to the moon and back, everything is fine and she wouldn’t even think of cheating on you once she starts birthing kids for you I pity una life. I pity this coming generation of men. Someone had a child with someone else and without making enough research on what separated them, without even knowing the said man and not as if he was dead when you met her o, you hastily decided to marry her and expected that her love for the “broke” boyfriend who abandoned her would fade off just like that and just because you dey “knack” her and because she don born for you. Just keep enough money for DNA sha, remember I was saying this repeatedly on that other thread? Keep enough money.
Your friend even said a woman would start loving you the moment you start “knacking” her and she starts birthing for you when in actual reality, the reverse is the case as the love women show to their husbands wane with childbirth and that was when I knew you both weren’t married. I pity una😂
Men have no business with being emotional when it comes to marriage as marriage is a very serious matter that shouldn’t be handled with love alone on the part of the man. When you are marrying a woman, your love for her should be the last thing to consider rather, is she appealing to you? Can she be the best mother for your children? Can she multiply you in every way possible? Does this woman have baggage that you can handle as a man? And many other considerations. After all that is done, make her love you first and always scared of losing you. Make her the emotionally weaker party. Make her feel insecure and feel that you are the prize and could leave her if she misbehaves. But please, I’m not saying you shouldn’t love them but it should be visible even to the blind that they love you more. A woman who loves you more would be scared of doing things that could cost her the marriage and love. You don’t buy a woman’s love because it’s expensive and can’t even be bought with money. You will keep paying and renewing the subscription till your last breath. Pesin wey use money buy love no dey pay finish. Showing them they are all you’ve got and that you love them more than they do love you back is a recipe for disaster.
Again, men who marry the women who love them tend to live longer and in pure bliss (good examples are Jay Z, Asap Rocky, Pa Olu Jacob and many other lucky men out there.
Again, most Nigerian girls marry who is available and not who they really love and what happens after this? They go back to cheat on these available men with the ones who have their m u m u buttons at hand no matter how hard you try to love and care for them. This explains why you can be richer than Dangote and a girl would still cheat on you with her poor ex boyfriend.
It’s a circle and you have only yourself to blame for getting married to a singlemother. I have nothing against them because every deserves love but often time, the bonds between them and their babydaddies is not a mess you should put yourself through. Often time, their babydaddies will always occupy the most parts of their hearts. If I must marry a single mother, then she must be a widow.
Stories like this would look fabricated to you until it happens to you, your eye go clear.