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Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Nobody: 11:39am On Aug 31, 2025
motymop:
i can tell you that most of the dna stories are fake

The stats are fake, all these DNA stuff are just ploy to create a dna market where these dna clinic can exploit you for money.

and yeah that does not mean there are no paternity fraud, there are but it is not high as they say it through their screw up Stats.

in most sense society, if the dna test says positive, you have to do it again in another hospital to verify. if it shows up positive again then you believe.

i have seen kids that looks exactly like their father and the test says negative that means, there was sample contamination or mixed-up specimens.

I can never trust anything that comes out from a Nigerian lab because many doctors in nigeria are careless and non-chalant, only what they are after is MONEY
Nigerian labs are reckless and unreliable. A friend was given a HIV positive result by a lab in Lagos. Curiously, he went to LUTH for a confirmation test. He was found to be negative.

The great Gani was misdiagnosed for years in Nigerian hospitals until he went abroad for medicals.

'Anyhowness' is the motto in Naija
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Kingosytex(m): 11:43am On Aug 31, 2025
Softmirror [s:
post=136640241]Men should learn to stop sleeping with their fellow men's wives. It's the only way to stop this[/s]
This is the dumbest thing I've read today.

Except in the case of rape, women are the gatekeepers of sex. They determine who has sex with them or otherwise.
A man can't have sex with a woman unless she agrees.

Women should take accountability for their choices and stop making lame excuses.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Nteogwuija(m): 11:48am On Aug 31, 2025
Creamypie:
A friend if mine ex babe carry their belle take marry another man. Its a secret between them till date. Surprisingly, that first pikin, a boy, looks exactly like my friend, while the other 2 she gave birth to resemble her husband. Na God dey save person
It's no longer a secret since you already know about it.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Fiscus105(m): 11:52am On Aug 31, 2025
Kingosytex:
This is the dumbest thing I've read today.

Except in the case of rape, women are the gatekeepers of sex. They determine who has sex with them or otherwise.
A man can't have sex with a woman unless she agrees.

Women should take accountability for their choices and stop making lame excuses.
It takes two to tango, wen society decaying, all the inhabitants will take the blame, you clean the society by apportion blame to all and sundry.

Many married women committing adultery, no thanks to behaviour of we men at home, go to clinical psychologists in hospital/ pastors, they would tell you sorry state of marriage, which largely caused by men.

Just like that guy said, .......if men tame their libido, paternity fraud would die a natural cause.

Learn how to blame urself before others.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Kingosytex(m): 11:52am On Aug 31, 2025
FashionCookie:
They will blame the women, but will not blame the shameless men who won't mind their home too.
It takes two to Tango.
Most of these men have home and still go out to sleep with and impregnate other women(married or not.
Let the madness from both sides continue...
All of una go reap wetin una sow.
Bla bla bla cheesy

You all are just being delusional. If a woman does not open her legs, no sex will happen. Women are the custodians of sex, they decide who accesses their body or not.
Stop making excuses.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by advanceDNA: 11:53am On Aug 31, 2025
Softmirror:
Men should learn to stop sleeping with their fellow men's wives. It's the only way to stop this
After all the write up...u still don't know what paternity fraud means
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Ashirioluwa: 11:53am On Aug 31, 2025
Softmirror:
Men should learn to stop sleeping with their fellow men's wives. It's the only way to stop this
Don’t be one sided. You need to offer your golden advice to women who are bleeping multiple men at the same time and to housewives who are bleeping other men apart from their husbands.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Kingosytex(m): 11:55am On Aug 31, 2025
Fiscus105:
It takes two to tango, wen society decaying, all the inhabitants will take the blame, you clean the society by apportion blame to all and sundry.

Many married women committing adultery, no thanks to behaviour of we men at home, go to clinical psychologists in hospital/ pastors, they would tell you sorry state of marriage, which largely caused by men.

Just like that guy said, .......if men tame their libido, paternity fraud would die a natural cause.

Learn how to blame urself before others.
Oga, women are to blame.
If a man asks a woman for sex and she says no, no sex will happen.
Women are to blame as long as the sex is consensual, the blame is off them once it's rape as they can't control the situation.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Ashirioluwa: 11:55am On Aug 31, 2025
Kingosytex:
Bla bla bla cheesy

You all are just being delusional. If a woman does not open her legs, no sex will happen. Women are the custodians of sex, they decide who accesses their body or not.
Stop making excuses.
You nailed it. Thank you.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by cococandy(f): 12:00pm On Aug 31, 2025
Softmirror:
Men should learn to stop sleeping with their fellow men's wives. It's the only way to stop this
But they’re polygamous in nature. How can they stop something that’s natural to them?
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Nteogwuija(m): 12:02pm On Aug 31, 2025
dominique:
Make we hear word abeg. Go and tell your fellow men to stop impregnating their fellow men's wives. Laslas na man dey do man
This is a very wrong ideology. You women should start owning up to your debauchery. You have no justifiable excuse for paternity fraud. None!

A man is married to a woman, there's something or an oath binding both of them. They swore allegiance to each other. The husband didn't swear an oath with the other male intruder. There's nothing binding the husband and the other man.

So if there's a paternity fraud, the woman should be held responsible, not the other man responsible for the pregnancy. Because I believe the man didn't force the married woman in bed.

Women who have the propensity to cheat on their prospective husbands shouldn't consider going into marriages.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by kolente: 12:04pm On Aug 31, 2025
Let's stop the hypocrisy and pretence.

This is a long age old practice by women of easy virtue and promiscus women.

I am from Ekiti State and I am above 50 years remember some grapevine then that so many children had facial similarities with their neighbours in a part of the city which influenced quickly by Mordern tradition.

Promiscus Women have always existed since biblical days and with the polarisation of the class groups between extreme poverty and affluence, it's going to get worse.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Host78: 12:06pm On Aug 31, 2025
Creamypie:
A friend if mine ex babe carry their belle take marry another man. Its a secret between them till date. Surprisingly, that first pikin, a boy, looks exactly like my friend, while the other 2 she gave birth to resemble her husband. Na God dey save person
and now the bast*rd will inherit more properties from the man than the man's own children.

Mehn may God provide money for DNA o.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Host78: 12:11pm On Aug 31, 2025
dominique:
Make we hear word abeg. Go and tell your fellow men to stop impregnating their fellow men's wives. Laslas na man dey do man
na this brain you dey use cross road?

So, if your husband is sleeping around, you'll blame the girls he's sleeping with while taking your husband as an innocent man?

How una dey use the brain wey dey inside una head na?
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Achor1111(m): 12:12pm On Aug 31, 2025
motymop:
i can tell you that most of the dna stories are fake

The stats are fake, all these DNA stuff are just ploy to create a dna market where these dna clinic can exploit you for money.

and yeah that does not mean there are no paternity fraud, there are but it is not high as they say it through their screw up Stats.

in most sense society, if the dna test says positive, you have to do it again in another hospital to verify. if it shows up positive again then you believe.

i have seen kids that looks exactly like their father and the test says negative that means, there was sample contamination or mixed-up specimens.

I can never trust anything that comes out from a Nigerian lab because many doctors in nigeria are careless and non-chalant, only what they are after is MONEY
Spill this one somewhere, why are the results proving otherwise?
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by advanceDNA: 12:18pm On Aug 31, 2025
dominique:
Make we hear word abeg. Go and tell your fellow men to stop impregnating their fellow men's wives. Laslas na man dey do man
As usual... cheesy grin
Course title: Estrogen logic 101 (the principle of never accepting any responsibility for your actions)
Course Unit : 8

U have consensual sex with a man... Refuse to tell the man u are pregnant and gave his baby to someone else ... Yet it's the man's fault .. lol
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by advanceDNA: 12:34pm On Aug 31, 2025
FashionCookie:
They will blame the women, but will not blame the shameless men who won't mind their home too.
It takes two to Tango.
Most of these men have home and still go out to sleep with and impregnate other women(married or not.
Let the madness from both sides continue...
All of una go reap wetin una sow.
... So, u have consensual sex with a man then refuse to tell the man and pin the baby on someone else....yet it's the fault of the man u had sex with.?

It's fascinating how women think the same way..... grin grin
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by GenFunction: 12:37pm On Aug 31, 2025
Paternity fraud na wetin I no wish for any man.
Shit is shit mehn
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Omalicious1: 12:39pm On Aug 31, 2025
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by DARLYNBOI: 12:51pm On Aug 31, 2025
motymop:
i can tell you that most of the dna stories are fake

The stats are fake, all these DNA stuff are just ploy to create a dna market where these dna clinic can exploit you for money.

and yeah that does not mean there are no paternity fraud, there are but it is not high as they say it through their screw up Stats.

in most sense society, if the dna test says positive, you have to do it again in another hospital to verify. if it shows up positive again then you believe.

i have seen kids that looks exactly like their father and the test says negative that means, there was sample contamination or mixed-up specimens.

I can never trust anything that comes out from a Nigerian lab because many doctors in nigeria are careless and non-chalant, only what they are after is MONEY
I use to argue with people that you are very intelligent until I saw and read what you wrote here...

Firstly, your argument are based on emotions and not verified stats, secondly it baffles me that you do not know that a baby can look exactly like you and yet you aren't the biological father.... Dey play......lastly, how do we even verify your own claims that the clinic's stats are fraudulently put up for advert purposes....this, to me is clearly your own vague imaginations without proof just like a typical nigerian way of jumping to conclusions due to the prevalent decadence in the society
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by kiddaz: 12:54pm On Aug 31, 2025
FashionCookie:
They will blame the women, but will not blame the shameless men who won't mind their home too.
It takes two to Tango.
Most of these men have home and still go out to sleep with and impregnate other women(married or not.
Let the madness from both sides continue...
All of una go reap wetin una sow.
True both parties are guilty of cheating but then getting pregnant with another man's child and keeping it while married to another and passing the same child as his can only be the decision of the evil wife and that is the topic of discussion. A lot of times I wonder why you Nairaland ladies always refuse to accept the truth. Like all cheating women, you never accept accountability or own up to mistakes always denying, manipulating and blackmailing even when the receipts are there.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by DARLYNBOI: 12:55pm On Aug 31, 2025
ajalawole:
[/b]you are right. Some clinic try to bring up issue just to make more money. But don't say you haven't seen a case a lady will pin another guy pregnancy on someone else
[b]How do we verify your claims that it is for advert purposes when u do not have proofs except to rely on your emotions.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by kiddaz: 1:00pm On Aug 31, 2025
DARLYNBOI:
I use to argue with people that you are very intelligent until I saw and read what you wrote here...

Firstly, your argument are based on emotions and not verified stats, secondly it baffles me that you do not know that a baby can look exactly like you and yet you aren't the biological father.... Dey play
It's very funny when people use facial looks and resemblance as a measure for accepting a child as theirs. So many men are raising b@st#&s to take over all they've worked for when dey die grin
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by Kimo21(m): 1:01pm On Aug 31, 2025
dominique:
Make we hear word abeg. Go and tell your fellow men to stop impregnating their fellow men's wives. Laslas na man dey do man
It’s hard to believe you’re a full grown adult saying this. Imagine you have a brother that a woman marries and find out that he is raising a child that is not his….will this come out of you? Isn’t it the lady that you yourself will fight? How did you even become a moderator for Gods sake?
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by mablie(m): 1:22pm On Aug 31, 2025
Kingosytex:
This is the dumbest thing I've read today.

Except in the case of rape, women are the gatekeepers of sex. They determine who has sex with them or otherwise.
A man can't have sex with a woman unless she agrees

Women should take accountability for their choices and stop making lame excuses.
Lol @Emboldened

That is why women usually physically attack other women they catch/apprehend having affairs with their husbands/partners rather than the men because they know this simple logic/concept/rule
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by FashionCookie(f): 1:29pm On Aug 31, 2025
kiddaz:
True both parties are guilty of cheating but then getting pregnant with another man's child and keeping it while married to another and passing the same child as his can only be the decision of the evil wife and that is the topic of discussion. A lot of times I wonder why you Nairaland ladies always refuse to accept the truth. Like all cheating women, you never accept accountability or own up to mistakes always denying, manipulating and blackmailing even when the receipts are there.
Now, it's Nairaland ladies?
Okay. Keep sleeping with women without protection. Then turn around to blame women for your carelessness. If it's HIV, na so una go blame Nairaland ladies. grin
Shior! undecided
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by FashionCookie(f): 1:31pm On Aug 31, 2025
advanceDNA:
... So, u have consensual sex with a man then refuse to tell the man and pin the baby on someone else....yet it's the fault of the man u had sex with.?

It's fascinating how women think the same way..... grin grin
Who impregnated the women? Devil?
It's amazing how men shift blames.
Nothing we no go see.
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by GUNITGuy: 1:31pm On Aug 31, 2025
FashionCookie:
They will blame the women, but will not blame the shameless men who won't mind their home too.
It takes two to Tango.
Most of these men have home and still go out to sleep with and impregnate other women(married or not.
Let the madness from both sides continue...
All of una go reap wetin una sow.
The last time I checked women still holds the power over sex
....when would you all be accountable
Re: Paternity Fraud And Societal Decay - Punch Editorial by olawonder(m): 1:59pm On Aug 31, 2025
The religious structures became corrupted, gave societies the freedom to do just about everything they like (especially Christianity)… this is the sole factor that contributed to the decay! NB, my opinion.
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