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Former Big Brother Naija housemate and entrepreneur, Anita Akide aka Tacha, has stirred reactions online after saying that “every girl needs three other boyfriends.”

Speaking on The Podcast Network on YouTube, Tacha explained that women should not rush into relationships but instead explore their options before settling down.

“You need three other boyfriends in your life… I’m not saying to sleep with all the boyfriends. But at least… You just never really know,” she said.
She also advised women to remain single until marriage, stressing:

“Every girl should be single till they’re actually married… Don’t let your boyfriend stop you from meeting your husband.”

Tacha further explained that men and women don’t enjoy the same freedom in society, which is why women must be smarter in how they move.
On life abroad, she shared her personal struggles, including theft and loneliness, and noted that many Nigerians overseas hide their difficulties for fear of ridicule:

“Two of my luggage items got stolen in Paris… As much as it’s hard here in Nigeria, it’s also hard. It’s even harder abroad, honestly.”

According to her, despite Nigeria’s challenges, the warmth of the local community makes it unique:
“You can go to your junction and say, ‘Mama Ki, give me something of 7,000. By the end of the month, I’ll pay you.’ There’s a lot more to be happy about here in Nigeria than there in the UK.”
Finally, she urged Nigerians to channel their boldness and resilience into pushing for positive change.

No one cares if you date 100 boyfriends at once the sensible girls know the right things to do and the other ones can do what they want to do. In the end everyone will find their level and reap the rewards of their actions in the so called marriage. 304s giving meaningless advise everywhere

I’ll take my chance abroad. Naija jobs no dey pay well.

The fear of the other gender is the beginning of wisdom
Beauty the say is deceitful

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This gender eh God forbid. What do they really want in this life ??

... When shallow brains are given platforms they do not merit on social media. Sad.

Raising a girl child is very tasking.

I did will propose to His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR) that a law be enacted that mandates that, the girl child be given a name after 22 years and no celebration should be done at birth.

Just imagine what’s coming out of a child who they celebrated her birth. If they were sure she was going to turn out like this, they would have saved up the money they used to celebrate.

Dating should not translate to fornication.

You can date without fornication.

The fact is that many single women have more than 1 man asking for their hand in marriage.

Everybody is single until marriage.

How far with that tattoo of Davido on her chest?

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I read what she said and I don't have anything to criticise. She thinks that is a better strategy that could enable ladies settled in a proper relationship instead of locking yourself in an unproductive relationship that ends at ladies cost.
All she said was okay to me.

What's that smell? Hmmmmmm... can anybody smell that?

4 years ago, this girl was 25. April this year, she still celebrated a 25th birthday. Na dis kind person dey advise women?

There's no problem with having multiple boyfriends as a lady as long as you don't complain if the men see you as someone that's only good enough to warm their beds.
As for the men, save for DNA test oooo.
DNA test over extravagant child naming ceremony and above all, don't pay bride price if she's not a virgin.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zte2HT7qNpM

Former Big Brother Naija housemate and entrepreneur, Anita Akide aka Tacha, has stirred reactions online after saying that “every girl needs three other boyfriends.”

Speaking on The Podcast Network on YouTube, Tacha explained that women should not rush into relationships but instead explore their options before settling down.

“You need three other boyfriends in your life… I’m not saying to sleep with all the boyfriends. But at least… You just never really know,” she said.
She also advised women to remain single until marriage, stressing:

“Every girl should be single till they’re actually married… Don’t let your boyfriend stop you from meeting your husband.”

Tacha further explained that men and women don’t enjoy the same freedom in society, which is why women must be smarter in how they move.
On life abroad, she shared her personal struggles, including theft and loneliness, and noted that many Nigerians overseas hide their difficulties for fear of ridicule:

“Two of my luggage items got stolen in Paris… As much as it’s hard here in Nigeria, it’s also hard. It’s even harder abroad, honestly.”

According to her, despite Nigeria’s challenges, the warmth of the local community makes it unique:
“You can go to your junction and say, ‘Mama Ki, give me something of 7,000. By the end of the month, I’ll pay you.’ There’s a lot more to be happy about here in Nigeria than there in the UK.”
Finally, she urged Nigerians to channel their boldness and resilience into pushing for positive change.

I don't think you are in a position to advise others on marriage. Do you know what marriage is? Where did you put God in your calculations? Marriage is a covenant , except if you are not talking about Christian marriage. Know God first by your life style.

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Call her names but Na mumu no know say this na the real innermost desire of women.

Woman brain be like 10 tabs opened on a browsers the same person way first talk say get 3 boyfriends, come later talk say, but don't sleep with all of them, then later add am say, you'll never know, that means you fit still sleep with the 3 men. Mtcheew Ikegwuru.

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Raising a girl child is very tasking.

I did will propose to His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR) that a law be enacted that mandates that, the girl child be given a name after 22 years and no celebration should be done at birth.

Just imagine what’s coming out of a child who they celebrated her birth. If they were sure she was going to turn out like this, they would have saved up the money they used to celebrate.

She actually makes sense. You're the one talking nonsense.
She specifically said it doesn't mean you sleep with them. instead of PREMATURELY locking yourself into someone. How many times have we seen a guy date a girl for years then abruptly marry someone he met last week?
Meanwhile what u think of this below?

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I read what she said and I don't have anything to criticise. She thinks that is a better strategy that could enable ladies settled in a proper relationship instead of locking yourself in an unproductive relationship that ends at ladies cost.
All she said was okay to me.

You are definitely cheating in your relationship with other guys and there is always consequencies for every bad action u take

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Honestly, Tacha isn’t far from the truth. Many young women rush into relationships too quickly, putting all their hopes, emotions, and even future in the hands of one man—only to end up hurt or stuck. What she’s really saying is that women should give themselves room to breathe, to explore, to learn, and to know their worth before tying themselves down.

Having “three boyfriends” doesn’t have to mean being intimate with all of them—it simply means keeping your options open until you know who truly values you. Men do this all the time without shame, but when a woman even tries to weigh her choices, society criticizes her. That double standard is real.

Her advice to stay “single until marriage” is also about protecting yourself emotionally and mentally. Why act like a wife to someone who hasn’t married you yet? Why close doors when your actual husband might still be out there? It’s wisdom, not waywardness.

And about life abroad, she’s spot on—many Nigerians glamorize “japa” stories, but the reality is often full of struggles, isolation, and hustling just to survive. At home in Nigeria, even with the challenges, there’s a sense of community—you can lean on people, laugh with neighbors, and still find joy in the little things. That human connection is priceless.

At the end of the day, Tacha’s message is about women being smart, intentional, and unafraid to put themselves first—while also appreciating what we still have here and channeling our energy into building the Nigeria we dream of.

If your girlfriend has 3 other boyfriends count yourself lucky.

Most of these hos have like 20 others minimum

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Being a woman is really difficult. Imagine having a brain and steadily not using it. You'll always be fighting yourself.

The world is so much noisy, people are becoming shameless, the fear of God is scarce, many are no longer concerned about life after death.

The agents of Satan are in our midst.

My dear, put yourself together, know your God, do good to others. Always examine your life from time to time.

May the Lord help us